I am one year older than my boyfriend. We have been together for a year now and i have been fine with not going out and spending most of my time with him. I am in my second semester of freshman year in college, and I have yet been to a club, party or anything. I barely have any friends on campus(mind you I live on campus). Now I want to go out but when I explain this to Him he always has this way of making me feel guilty. He tells he doesn't want be haging out with wild girls and dudes. I wonder sometimes does he think that I am a child who needs guidence and is easily influenced. Do you think he'd comply it if it was the other way around.whats going on? I love him but I feel so lost.
Ladies and fellas I need your veiw on this situation!
2007-03-07 05:04:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know.
2007-03-07 05:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by LJD4 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's obviously bringing you down. you live on campus and yet you hardly have any friends. what does this say about your relationship? a lot! he's controlling you by giving you a guilt trip. if you love the way you say you do, than be a woman and stand up for yourself! if you wanna hang out, don't invite him! you're the one in college and not him....go to a club, go to a party! break up with him! he's obviously thinking and treating you like a child
2007-03-07 13:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go out together? If you are in a relationship, you should be getting together with both of your friends and doing things together. If you feel you are missing out, it may be time to take a break and see what single college life is like. Something to think about.
2007-03-07 13:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a life apart from your boyfriend. You should have other friends and interests that don't directly involve him and so should he! He shouldn't be making you feel guilty about it either. Explain to him that hanging out with other people is not going to change the relationship you have with him but that it's important for you two to have your own space from time to time.
2007-03-07 13:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate. When I was a freshman in college, my boyfirend was a senior in high school. He needs to realize you are not going to cheat on him but you need to have friends at school. If he cant trust you, you need to let him go.
2007-03-07 13:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
college is the best time of your life. you should be enjoying it. if he has that effect on you, maybe its time to rethink why you are with him. (granted you should be careful about getting out of control with partying but you should be out meeting people)
2007-03-07 13:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by LawDude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jealous and insecure
2007-03-07 13:09:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋