Should I be worried? My boyfriend is always jealous follows me around checks my call, computer, etc I have never cheated on him I just want a little time to myself or time with friends. He is moody and most of the time. I am worried now he went and bought a gun, which he keeps on him.
It seems he looks for things to fight about, phone rings i pick it up WHO IS IT?? picks up the other line/ my mom. Why are you wearing that? jeans and a tank? you out looking for someone? No I am taking my son to the doctor. This goes on daily and god forbid if he starts drinking, he is really evil.
His friends told me all the grilfriends he has had has left, or cheated now I am paying for their sins.
What do you think?
2007-03-07 04:44:22 · 24 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IfI know you better leave this relationship immediately .....look at the statistics of men shooting their wives or girlfriends because of jealousy........It is the number one reason men shoot women.....this is very serious...you need to tell people , your parents, friends, and anyone you can talk to..that he has a gun........you have no idea what can happen...........I DO!! So get away from him and be in a safe place.......if he comes after you do not hesitate and call 911 immediately....
2007-03-07 04:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea this sounds like a healthy enviroment for your child..........
you should really look at the type of guy your going out with the over bearing jealous type with a gun sounds like a bright future to me....and again you must ask your self why? why has his other girlfrieinds left or cheated ? why do you ask your self now if this guy is good for you being jealous you may not understand it yet but your actully questioning if this guy is good for you which is alot more serious than is he being too jealous (which in my opinon is hell yes) you really need to bail on this one sorry to say
what if he ever went nuts cuase he thought your cheating, say you went out with the girls one night and i dunno lost your cell phone or the battery dies , he cant get a hold of you so he starts to freak has a few drinks and starts going down that road of she's out with another guy....(if he's already jealous now imgine how it would be if somthing was to happen like this) and i cant get a hold of her..so by the time you get home he's wasted mad and has a gun.....maybe i watch too many movies but still it a un healthy place for you AND you child you need to run
2007-03-07 04:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my thinking is once a cheater always a cheater....But there are always exceptions. I think that me may be so jelous of what you are doing because he cheated so now he is worried that you are. Like he knew what he did to cheat (ie. sneaking phone calls, saying he was taking a friend to the doctor when he went to her house, etc) so now he thinks since he did it, you are.
Its good to be a little jelous, because you know he cares then and is worried about losing you, but too much jelousy is a bad thing. Something is wrong here if he doesnt trust you that much.
You need to talk to him about it.
2007-03-07 04:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont! have confidence me, attempting to make him jealous will basically bring about you looking pathetic and unhappy. he would be responsive to. the only element you would be doing is Smiling each and all the time, appearing like your having alot of relaxing being single and looking out warm for the hot men on your existence. If something you purely playing all of it and looking out good, would be a awaken call he lost an excellent element.
2016-10-17 12:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by shakita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had better get out quick, this guy sounds like the classic abuser and "if I can't have her no one will" type. He's WAY over the top and you have a son to think about. Get out and go to a shelter because if you try to leave him, he's going to stalk you. Put all your family and friends on alert and then get the number to the nearest women's shelter. Be careful but run, now!
2007-03-07 04:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure and could become dangerous to you. This type of behavior is not good for your son to be around, it sounds scary to me. If you cannot work it out for him to trust you, I think you should try and get out of the relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have another guy, but I see you question sends up some red flags.
2007-03-07 04:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by 5-Stars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man has SERIOUS insecurity issues. I would seriously think about leaving this man for good. You're never gonna be "good enough", he's always going to find something to get pissy about. Who wants to live like that? Not me. You have a son and you definitely don't want your son growing up to be like this man and thinking its okay to emotional abuse women.
2007-03-07 04:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds scary i think that he is way overly jealous and the past realtionships seem to mess him up a little and i do think you are paying for the past relationships
i am kinda scared for you cus he bought a gun and he drinks and im really scared for your son i really think you need to end it and fast
2007-03-07 04:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my viewpoint, your boy-friend is not possessive about you. I feel he is sort of psycho. He will make you sick if he kept on doubting like this. Sit with him and try to figure out what makes him do that, if you really care for him. If you want to leave him that is your option.
2007-03-07 04:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by indianskinhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, HE DOES SOUND VERY VERY VERY VERY JEALOUS BUT THEN AGAIN YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND HIS PAST FEMALE INTERCOURSES AND SINCE BY THE LOOKS OF IT, THEY HAVE NOT HAD A HAPPY ENDING SO THATS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN'T HELP BECAUSE YOU NEVER DID ANY THING TO HIM!! BUT I THINK YOU SHOULD TALK TO HIM BECAUSE HIS EMOTIONS MAY END UP BEING VERY DANGEROUS TO YOU WELL- BEING. USUALLY WHEN GUYS ARE THAT OBESSIVE THEY CAN EVEN END UP HURTING YOU, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY.........(i hope you can work it out)
2007-03-07 04:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋