Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

I have never had a speeding ticket before is it worth the fight in the state of Oklahoma?

2007-03-05 01:55:02 · 14 answers · asked by cheryl_7824 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 01:54:16 · 49 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know if u are really in love? How long did it take for you to fall in love, or when did u first realize that u were?
Is it possible to love someone that has qualities about the that you dislike, but accept them as they are anyway? Or someone that you argue with alot, but also share good times with? Im just asking cuz I;ve been hurt before and since then i would not let my feelings fly away anymore, so that if me and new guy doesn't work out and we split, I wouldn't feel as hurt. Do u know what I mean? But that interferes with everything now. Well, anyway when did u fall in love or first realize it?

2007-03-05 01:53:59 · 19 answers · asked by MedTq367 6 in Singles & Dating

There is this really hot Nun would it be wrong to switch to Catholicism just to hook up with her? Do you think the relationship will work?

2007-03-05 01:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by Quix 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who is in jail, and he will be for a while longer. What are some things I can expect when he gets home.

2007-03-05 01:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering what kind of percentage of men would not go out with a woman if she already has kids, and does the age of the kids make a difference?

2007-03-05 01:53:37 · 16 answers · asked by slsvenus 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

..and stuff, and I guess been 15 I quite enjoyed it, then she kicked me out of home at 16 and kept my daughter, saying she wouldn't have her grandchild in a hostel. I am now 19, in a stable relationship with my boyf of a year and a half and we have our own house as he is quite well off. Very begrudgingly my Mum let me have my daughter, who is now 4, because both her and my Dad are in ill health, their house is a disgusting tip and they kept having Social Services round, my daughter wasn't getting bathed, getting dressed or anything, they were still feeding her like a baby!
I am now 8 weeks pregnant and my Mother reckons she will have my daughter back in September because I won't be able to cope, when I understand that it will be hard, but my 4 year old will be at school and my boyf only works Mon-Fri 9 until 5. My daughter is now happy, clean and feeding herself, but doesn't understand why Mummy isn't so keen to let her spend time with her Nanny......am I right to be worried?

2007-03-05 01:53:04 · 14 answers · asked by Little Bear 5 in Family

We went out dancing Saturday night and every time I went to the rest room, I could see her flirting with men. I went to the bar to get a drink and when I returned, she was on the dance floor with some guy that looked like a football player.

2007-03-05 01:52:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend told this guy i've liked for a really long time that me and my other friend like him. i really wasnt ready for him to know and niether was my friend. i know my friend didnt mean to tell on purpose. my friend hasnt even told me she did it. i found out by one of my other friends. what should i do?

2007-03-05 01:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by ATL<3 3 in Friends

Become pregnant if the condom kept slipping down?

2007-03-05 01:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Mandie G 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy says he will have u when he wants and u don't like him, how would u take it and what would u do?

2007-03-05 01:51:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who has made up their own lulabye ours is for our daughter
Abigail
A is for adorable
B is cause yr beautiful
I is irisistable
and G is cause yr georgeous
I said A is for adorable
and I is iresistable
and L because we l l l love u !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-05 01:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by K W 3 in Family

in a guy: the nice guy or the bad boy?

i want to know from you. my ex is now with the bad boy type ...though i dont think they're working out anyway, i still have to ask. maybe its just cuz its something new. i dont know.

2007-03-05 01:51:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 01:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by T.Q C 1 in Singles & Dating

To be honest, I would'nt mind her "smothering" me a little bit...you know what I mean?

2007-03-05 01:50:19 · 31 answers · asked by Chewy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really do have a problem here! I had surgery a few months ago and now I don't really have any sex drive at all. I am having some minor complications since my surgery and don't feel too good. I am seeing my doctor trying to work these things out but meanwhile all my husband cares about is the fact that he's not "getting any"! Were at once a week now and I have to force myself to do it then! Last night he left in the middle of the night after we were in the bed and said he went to get cig.s. I am having a hard time believing that one...What do you think? I didn't even know he was gone until the next morning when I saw our kids' favorite candy on the table and asked him, when did you leave and why? He at first said it was to get cig.s but then later said it was because he was mad at me because he wants more sex and I went to sleep!!He hasn't tried to understand how I feel after having a hysterectomy and I feel awful! Now I feel guilty on top of sadness and other medical issues.Help me!!

2007-03-05 01:50:17 · 26 answers · asked by justwondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 01:50:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jesse H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend one of them. do you find them sexy?wot do you think ?will she love me as much as i luv her?(as i am english)

2007-03-05 01:49:19 · 2 answers · asked by scotie p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 01:49:06 · 2 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i are well having sexual issues.i am beginning to take it personal when i confront him he says i am too aggressive and i need to back off.my questions is does your partner ever just dis you and if they do do you think its right?what do you say to yourself to make it ok in you mind cause its making me hate myself...

2007-03-05 01:49:00 · 5 answers · asked by plumcouch30 4 in Marriage & Divorce

WELL MY 18 B-DAY IS IN LESS THEN 3 MONTHS AND I STILL LIVE WIT MY PARENTS (OF COARSE)BUT MY DAD TOLD ME THE OTHER DAY THAT WHEN I TURN 18 HE IS KICKING ME OUT....I HAVE NO WHERE TO GO WHEN THIS HAPPENS....I WANT TO CONTINUE TO GO TO RED LION BUT I DONT KNO NE ONE IN RED LION THAT I COULD LIVE WITH SO I COULD DO THIS AND MY PARENTS SAID THAT THERE IS NO WAY THAT I CAN STAY WITH THEM....AND I DONT KNO WHAT TO SAY TO THEM TO GET THEM TO LET ME STAY WIT THEM TILLL I HAVE A PLACE TO GO....MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO GET AN APARTMENT BUT HE DONT WANT TO LIVE IN RED LION AND I ODNT EITHER BUT LIKE I SAID I WANT TO CONTINUE TO GO TO RED LION TILL I GRADUATE...BUT I DONT KNOPW WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-03-05 01:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2 in Friends

Tell reasons why not to get married but still build a family and a life with that person.

2007-03-05 01:47:17 · 13 answers · asked by destiney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a pretty good cook, but I cant get my husband to eat it! Hes so picky, like I cant put meat in my spaghetti or I cant make hamburger helper and I have to pick meat off the bone for him. I mean hes not a vegetarian or anything, he eats burgers and stuff. I love rice and I cant make that either. Its so frustrating!!! Its kind of like I dont feel appreciated. What can I do?

2007-03-05 01:45:00 · 46 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok... so say someone talks bad about your mom that died and the person really really made you mad and he even nu your mom... but he said it one hour ago... how exactly do you bring up the fight because i really just wanna punch him in the freakin face rite now...

2007-03-05 01:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The band is more practical for her and she is more comfortable wearing that. But at the same time ring is traditional and every one will be expecting for that. Too bad I can’t ask her but your feed back would be really helpful.

2007-03-05 01:44:07 · 29 answers · asked by nio796 1 in Singles & Dating

I guy I really like was at a party with me, and tried to hook up with me all night. (For the record I wouldn't cause he was a little buzed/drunk) Anyway, the next day my roomates boy friend told me that he was trying to be coc*ky and saying I was all over him. Which we all knew was the exact opposite of what happpend.

My question is, is this something guys do alot? I've never played the flirtatious chase into a relationship, and I really like this kid. Should I back off, or continue lettinghim feel like a macho man?

2007-03-05 01:43:35 · 15 answers · asked by KLD it. 4 in Singles & Dating

k...heres the deal...my father took off when i was a baby..we always knew he was in florida, and now that my mom is all over the news "magically" he comes out of the woodwork to talk to the papers(article below)... then he can't even admit that he's my father...i have struggled with abandanment and everything else due to him, and thought that i had done well in therapy, but now i am completely unraveling...due to the fact that my mom is all over the news, i absolutly cannot contact the newspaper, not that i even think those vultures would help me...i know that theres public records and all that, that i can look into, but i dont even know where to begin...please help me, i feel like i'm crumbling to pieces with whats going on with my mom, and now that my dad is back on my mind, i need to find him. thanks in advance.
'S&M' MARRIAGE FROM HELL
'DOMINATRIX'S' EX ADMITS HE WAS ABUSIVE DRUNK
By JENNIFER FERMINO and LORENA MONGELLI
BUSINESS IN A BIND: Sandra Chemero (above) ran an S&M brothel in this Bedford mansion, cops say. Her ex says she wasn't into kinky stuff during their marriage.
March 5, 2007 -- Years before she allegedly began using whips and chains on eager clients of her S&M business, kinky Westchester mansion mistress Sandra Chemero endured the real thing in five stormy years of wedlock, her ex-husband admitted yesterday.

Christopher Chemero, 52, owned up to being "somewhat abusive" during their marriage, which lasted from 1979 to 1984.

He was nonetheless shocked to learn of his ex's arrest on a prostitution charge and her efforts to earn a living off S&M sex games, which, he insisted, played no role in their marriage.

"I wasn't into that . . I'm really surprised to hear that about Sandy," Christopher Chemero told The Post at his home in Daytona Beach, Fla.

The marriage was the first for both. Sandra was 18 and Christopher was 24.

Christopher, who is now single, said he was an alcohol abuser when he wed, although she "wasn't much of a drinker."

He said he gave up drinking long ago.

He said he hasn't heard from his ex in more than 20 years and, "I really don't know what's going on in her life."

"It was a vicious breakup," Christopher said.

Although divorce records say the couple had two children, "I'm not sure one of them is mine," he said.

"I could never say for sure if she cheated on me."

Christopher Chemero said he lives off disability payments, and is waiting for heart bypass surgery.

"The men in my family don't live very long," he said.

Meanwhile, Bedford cops pressed ahead with their investigation yesterday as a woman who used Sandra Chemero's rented house as a place to sell makeup and clothing to cross-dressing men said the accused madam had a female partner in the S&M business several months ago.

After an argument with Sandra, the other woman moved out of the house in September, the makeup artist said.

Asked if a second woman was involved, Bedford Police Lt. Robert Mazurak replied: "I'm not going to say no, but I don't want to mislead you . . . It's under investigation."

Sandra Chemero, 46, is the only person charged thus far, and police have said that they believed she was working alone.

The makeup artist also said she believed Sandra had a boyfriend from Manhattan who worked on Wall Street. But that could not be immediately confirmed.

A number of Westchester County men are named in Sandra Chemero's records, Mazurak said.

"We are continuing to investigate. Where it's going to end, I don't know," he said.

Sandra Chemero, who is free on bail, was nowhere to be found yesterday.

She's due in Bedford town court next week to answer misdemeanor charges of prostitution and possession of a stun gun.

The rabbinical school that owns the $3 million home has evicted Sandra under a clause in her lease barring illegal activity.

Her Web site advertised the "century-old stately manner" as "The Sovereign Estate," describing it as a "female-led household, headed by an elegant, attractive dominant woman."

Additional reporting by Patrick White and Bill Sanderson

jennifer.fermino@nypost.com

2007-03-05 01:42:03 · 3 answers · asked by stephaniech24 3 in Family

I have a guy who I have had a relationship with for 6 years on and off. We started dating young and took time to experience life but we always get back together.
He is now in his stage of partying and drinking and going out and I no longer have that interest.
I love him. We have both done of fair share of dirt and hurting each other.

Is this normal?
He goes out,has tons of friends, meets girls. I used to but no longer do. I still have friends and I still go out every now and then.

I am ready to grow up and be in a commited relationship I THINK...
But I don't think he is. We love each other so much...I dont think I can see my life with out him in it. But I am not going to be happy with someone who parties all the time and hangs out with chicks.

Anyone ever had a similar relationship like this?

His mom told me a long time ago, give him time, he will straighten up.

I am thinking about letting him go completely - to show him he will miss me, but I am scared of losing him

2007-03-05 01:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 01:41:40 · 6 answers · asked by burn23hall 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been separated with my wife for 5 years and I have a 14-year old daughter and an 8-year-old son. I live in Sweden and they live with their mom in Italy. My ex-wife keeps my daughter from speaking to me. My daughter said she hates me for leaving her.

2007-03-05 01:41:13 · 8 answers · asked by italoman43 2 in Marriage & Divorce