ok... so say someone talks bad about your mom that died and the person really really made you mad and he even nu your mom... but he said it one hour ago... how exactly do you bring up the fight because i really just wanna punch him in the freakin face rite now...
2007-03-05 01:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give the person one quick lightening knock down blow punch and say 'Sorry,but i meant it'
2007-03-05 01:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When something comes up like that , IT is better to deal with it right than and there. If you don't those negative feeling will fester inside you until you take negative action ( which will only cause more pain for you later) You must learn not to allow yourself to strike back at him in any way. And certainly not with force. Look deep inside yourself and ask why are you going to allow someone else make you feel this way. You can be stronger than this . Sounds like the less you see this person the better.
Paytair
2007-03-05 01:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Paytair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Ask him why he said what he said and let him know that it made you mad and that it's taking a lot of restraint from not punching him. Remind him regardless of how he feels, there is a thing known a respect, and if he can't respect your mother then you can't respect him and that you no longer will consider him a friend.
2007-03-05 02:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you calm down and then let them know you do not appreciate that, and you will probably punch him in the face i fit happens again.
2007-03-05 01:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence is not the answer,but if you feel you can beat him just walk up to him without letting him know and slap him.That is only if you are sure you can kick his butt,otherwise get a buddy to whip his butt.Teach him respect!
2007-03-05 01:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did he say it ?
some people are just stupid when it come to certain things and if the person is hurt first reaction usually is to hurt back
two wrongs don't make a right
and stupidity should always be looked over
when you say things without thinking
2007-03-05 01:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by country-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he really ticked you off, and that if he can't act with any damn grace, then he should shut up.
Then punch him to emphasise your point haha
2007-03-05 01:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up 2 him and say u talk about my dead mum i'll make sure ur mum joins her u bitc/h.(use bitc/h purposely attack the guys masculinity).
p.s. i dont support violence, just let it be an empty threat.it would piss him off and release some of ur hatred.
2007-03-05 01:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get it off your chest babe and let it rip very hurtful thing he has done let him know how angry you feel and don't hold back do it in good faith for your mum good luck :)
2007-03-05 02:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by clare w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that he is the coward of all cowards that you know,and that he is badmouthing a dead person knowing that a dead person doesnt fight back
2007-03-05 01:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋