Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

i have been in an almost 6 years relationship when we got engaged every thing just didn't go as planned, and sadly ended i am having trouble getting over her it's been a year whenever i remember stuff or things i get depressed,
how do you get over this with out doing some thing stupid?

2007-03-05 02:12:10 · 13 answers · asked by Alaa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So I dated this guy that was in my "friends group" and knew it would be akward seeing him again we broke up and sure enuf we did. During the week, I have to see him a couple times and interact with him and others(i vollenteer at a youth center with them and dont' want to quit just cuz of this) but should I act happy and free like i'm fine, or let him see that i'm hurting over how it ended and tell him i still think about us??? I don't really want him back but in a way I want him to think I'm really strong and doing fine without him...

2007-03-05 02:12:05 · 8 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

i wouldnt know ive never been in love and the way my life is going i dont think i ever will i just wanna konw wat its like from other ppls point of veiw. cuz well im just a kill joy and every one seems to have a better love life than me.

2007-03-05 02:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

yes i do have someone and we've being together for a while and his family knows and acceps me thats why i wanna tell them but i dunno how

2007-03-05 02:10:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i was with this guy for about 9 months . he was not that good to me but you could tell he wasa good person , maybe a little socially challenged. He managed to treat really bad becoz he didn't want to be in a relation , i finally left him and he said some pretty mean things to me . To the tune of i will never love you etc . I moved on with my life i cried a lot for about a week and then i started moving on . He calls me now a nd agin wanting to be my friend . He called me over the weekend to tell me how he met this girl and had liked but she had broken his heart , but he realized he didn't really know her . He had moved on etc , i told he needs to not call telling about crap like that , i was not ready o be his friend like that . I have not been reall talking to him over the months , i have not called him and i just dont understand why someone who broke my heart would call me to tell me this crap , is he just plain insensitive or a social retard . Then he asays he wants us to be friend

2007-03-05 02:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he stole my book and he won't give it back!! HE'S SUCHA JERK!!! =[[[

2007-03-05 02:10:27 · 3 answers · asked by theheykid 1 in Friends

and press thumbs down just to get your thrills?

2007-03-05 02:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who I've been with for 5 years has recently shown interest in swinging - i.e. us having sex with other couples. He used to get jealous really easily, and now he never does. I still get jealous easily though. I feel like I've failed to please him and I'm not good enough etc etc this is why he wants to have sex with other people. Or he's been in this relationship so long and realizes he doesn't want to have sex with the same girl his whole life. And I'm afraid if I don't participate in swinging with him, that he'll cheat on me and we'll break up. I'm also afraid that now he's thinking it's ok if he has sex with someone else, as long as they don't have feelings for each other. I'm a very liberal, open-minded, and non-religious person, but I still can't see pleasure or happiness in watching my significant other have sex with someone else. Is this a big enough thing to end relationships? Have you ever had this problem? Any advice is greatly appreciated..

2007-03-05 02:07:38 · 36 answers · asked by Idaho 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i handle this?

We also work together.

2007-03-05 02:07:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy in my class at university.. we are really close friends and i really like him.. everything was going on fine between us and it seemed to me that he liked me back.. my friends also guessed it to be so.. until, recently he told me to give him his space and let him free and he said : "we are just friends, u know"

i was hurt at all this.. i had been thinking that he liked me back all those days.. but..pain striked me so hard when i heard that from him.. i dont know what has gotten over him all of a sudden! i am so confused!

now what should i do? i mean, how should my behaviour towards him be?
A) just as before - indifferent to what happened
B) cold towards him and show that i dont care anymore
C) behave just as a classmate

please give ur ideas and suggestions...

2007-03-05 02:06:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The inlaw thing has been somewhat rocky from time to time. His sister and I have had major issues to where they end with her asking me not to bother my husband with them. Not wanting to upset him, I don't.
He comes from a pretty traditional lebanese family. They are very close. I do admaire that. But I also feel that we have a family of our own that requires nurturing. They live but a block away and go to my husbands business every day as they are retired. They call for us to visit and expect us to just drop everything. And my husband does.
We do take the kids down and visit but I feel like sometimes that it is not convenient and I would prefer to spend a nice evening at home. But my husband, in a huff decides to pack up the kids and spend the evening down there without me. He shows up at home just in time for the kids to head right to bed.
I usually enjoy visiting with them but I wish we could do it when it is convenient for all of us to go as a family.

2007-03-05 02:04:30 · 12 answers · asked by Kimberly R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a mermaid but i don't like fish..
What should I do??

2007-03-05 02:03:42 · 29 answers · asked by londonletch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She cried for like 6 hours streight, broke a bunch of stuff in her apt. and keept saying "i cant live without you" I had to listen to her cry all the time it broke my heart. Is this normal we were together for 3 years, should she be this upset?

2007-03-05 02:02:41 · 13 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 02:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things just didn't work out for us. We have a daughter and It's been 4 mos and the hurt is still there. How to cope?

2007-03-05 02:02:07 · 23 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my boyfriend and I have had some troubles. He promises to be somewhere with me and just doesn't show up. We are both Christians and make it a point to be at church, especially on Sunday mornings. He'll tell me "I'll be there tomorrow" and then never show up. His excuse is I just couldn't get out of bed.
We do voluteer work with under priviledged kids with another couple. He text my email and said he'd be there. He never showed. I don't have a cellphone but the other couple does. He didn't bother to call them or anything. Later he was like "You don't have a cell so how was I suppose to contact you?" He's knoiwn this couple longer than me- he's known the guy since elementary! It would have been nothing to let him know whats going on.
He'd rather take the one night a week we have set aside for us to go play XBox with guys he sees all week. And then wonders why I get upset. He says he loves me and I really love him.
Am I asking too much? What am I doing wrong?

2007-03-05 02:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by Chick-a-Dee 5 in Singles & Dating

My sister's husband left her for another woman. They were sharing the children 50/50. He then filed for shared custody of the children. In his filings he attached all sorts of letters that she had written to him throughout the marriage, sharing her deepest thoughts and anxieties about the marriage and life. I have written some of these myself but you NEVER think that they will be used against you. He had written similar letters but she threw them away, thinking that they were personal communications between spouses.

Now, if my sister is so bad, why would he seek SHARED custody? He filed this just to hurt her. After filing, he asked that the record be sealed. I could not trust him with initimacy and my life again. But my sister is considering his recent request that they try again. I told her that it is up to her so you don't have to say "stay out of it." I am just curious as to whether anyone has done something similar or what would you do?

2007-03-05 02:01:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to have an*l s*x with my girlfriend but when we do it she bleeds and its really painful for her. We use lube but is there anyway i can make it pleasurable for her?

2007-03-05 02:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would make you settle with that one special girl after dating all those other women. This is the case between my fiance and I.
Yes, we are STD free.
Yes, my fiance was a player and loves women very much but has chosen me to marry. Is it my being, is it just the way that I am ? I know I am cool, but I didn't know I was this cool !

2007-03-05 02:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

pakistan or something sense they are really subisive and were raised that way and i need a woman to respect me a lot and treat me like a man. Hopefully i can get some middle eastern answers

2007-03-05 02:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 02:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it can reach love and marriage or is it always a time-killing sort of thing. Well there is this man I have been talking to since like 3 years. Actually we lost contact for like a year and a half or more but he reinitiated it. We fancy each other so much to the extent that if it were in real life we would be all over each other. It is so romantic and madly sensual too. It is romantically sensual, sensually romantic kind of thing. I sometimes want it so much to be real though I have little belief in this happening. Well I know that in the past he used to chat with other girls too. I am not sure about now, and as he is from another country I cannot meet him, but I am sure he has been in and out of relations. What do you guys think?

2007-03-05 01:59:55 · 2 answers · asked by Chichou 4 in Singles & Dating

If a guy really likes you is attracted to you even feels on your body at time, does this mean he fantiscie about you. Even if he with antoher lady?

2007-03-05 01:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

First, my best friend is a snob, she brags too much and she always tries to make me jealous, but then again sh eis fun to be around!! H E L P ! WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-03-05 01:59:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when their parents aren't married ... are they not recognized and/or protected by the state? tell me if kids lose out of something? (talking about benefits)

2007-03-05 01:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by destiney 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of people I know have noticed that dads can be a playmate, then just say- OK, time to leave, time to do HW, or, don't ever talk to your brother like htat again, and the kids will mostly listen.
However, once the mom becomes a playmate, it is tougher to just draw that line and become the authority figure.
Any comments?

2007-03-05 01:57:29 · 6 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Family

ok so last night me and my boyfriend had this big fight. it didnt go over well at all. well today things seem a little better. we stayed up til 4am texting when he had to get up at 6am.lol. but that doesnt matter. so things arent going so great cuz he doesnt seem to have time for me. yeah i know he had all these priorities before i came into his life and i respect that big time. he works 5 days a week...goes to college 2 days and then is in two bands the other nights of the week. its really draining on me since i never get to spend alone time with him. the only really time i get to see him is when we pass eachother at school and it breaks my heart!! he says he loves me and all and i believe him, but he just doesnt have time. we talk everyday and hes still just as sweet as ever! but he says that things will get better in a couple weeks...i believe him. how should i continue to deal with it? were even talking about getting married.haha. help anyone?? thanks and greatly apperciated

2007-03-05 01:56:46 · 1 answers · asked by margrl1 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm british living in the uk, my boyfriend is jamaican living in jamaica. i want to go over there to marry him, do i need permission from the home office? can i just go over there and do it? and what do we have to do to get him back here with me? please can someone give me as much info as possible, as i realy miss him and want to be with him asap,

2007-03-05 01:56:16 · 9 answers · asked by sam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 01:56:15 · 12 answers · asked by Tam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

really into sex before and low labiddo after surgery, does anything help??

2007-03-05 01:55:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships