Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

How do i ask my ex girlfriend if she is hooking up with this one guy without making it seem like i am jealous. This one guy is a total jerk and i have a pretty strong suspicion that they were hooking up while we were dating but i dotn really have proof. I have a few text messages that i read and a gut feeling. I do not want it to seem like i am jealous or still hung up on her, especially since we are now just friends. I know that ifi found out I could get some closure. what do i do?

2007-03-05 02:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I tell people the REAL REASON why we are separated?
He is going around telling people that I am an alcoholic and crazy, neither of which is remotely true. He actually left to be with another woman in the neighborhood. He is trying to hide that because he wants to appear to be the family man good guy. Should I tell the truth? Some advise that I should just keep it to myself.

I am asking this again because someone wanted to know why I was not saying. Maybe that will make a difference in the responses. I'm protecting him. I don't want to tarnish his reputation. Isn't that sick?

2007-03-05 02:52:00 · 19 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he yells me and always says that iam wrong

2007-03-05 02:51:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

as in you have a friend but want it to go further

2007-03-05 02:51:24 · 22 answers · asked by Lord Of The Noobs 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 02:51:02 · 18 answers · asked by Victoria W 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I met this great guy, hes sweet and very cute. The thing is I am 20 and I have never been in a relationship. I really think things could develop more with this guy. I am nervous but dont want to push him away like I have with other guys in the past. I mean do I tell him I dont have expiernace with relationships and eventually that I am a virgin? I dont want to move fast and hes a sweet guy who I doubt would pressure me.

2007-03-05 02:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I did something stupid I cancelled a date with my girl saying I was too ill to see her & went out with some friends instead (silly I know!!) Anyway she found out & know I wanna make it up to her, but it has to be original I can’t just buy her flowers & jewellery etc that’s just not good enough for her, so I need original ideas that aren’t too expensive either, something cute etc. Hope you can help, thanking you in advance!!

2007-03-05 02:50:45 · 3 answers · asked by besos 2 in Singles & Dating

He divorced my mother many years ago

2007-03-05 02:50:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since this is the only way we can communicate now I am writing this to you. I can no longer continue this way. We are both clearly very unhappy and the situation is getting worse each day. We are not together for the benefit of our children. We are hurting them by surrounding them in anger, mistrust and disrespect.

I will no longer defend myself from your claims of cheating, lying, etc. I have done nothing to hurt you intentionally. Nor have I ever and would never be a cheat, that is not the type of person I am. I am very honest with my feelings. I have no agenda and no desire to hurt people. Your constant assertion that I have cheated on you with your sister or any of the other women is not true in any way. I am tired of paying for your anger at others that is constantly misdirected toward me because I am the male figure in your life.

The way you treat me makes it clear that you not only dislike me but you also have no respect for me as a person. You call my integrity and honor into question almost daily and many times in front of the children I am supposed to be a father for.

Say what you want about me, and I know that you do, I have stuck by you through everything that we went through over the past two years. Had I any intention of not being with you, there were many times when I could have left and felt no wrong in doing so.

That being said, I am tired of feeling alienated in my own home, with my own family and with the children that I am expected to support and raise. I am going to change that starting today.

The main reason that I am writing this is to say that you need to make a choice. If you wish this marriage to continue immediate changes have to be made and we can discuss this so that both of us can be happy. I entered into this marriage with the full intention of making it work and being married for the rest of my life. However the only way that works is if the other person involved feels the same way.

Otherwise If you wish to continue to treat me the way you are I am leaving you today. I am in contact with a lawyer and am willing to move forward if that is what needs to happen.

I would appreciate your reply by this afternoon.

Mike

2007-03-05 02:50:35 · 21 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 02:50:19 · 2 answers · asked by ucoaroonz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i cant eat in there drink nor comb my hair thats supposed to be done in the bathroom and eating is for in the kitchen the (she) tells me and i cant let any dirty clothes pile or nothing and my sisters is a pig sty whats the deal i dont get i am older but whats that matter huh help me out i need it thanks?

2007-03-05 02:50:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it a good idea to tell a girl you really like, how you feel about her when she has a boyfriend or should you keep it to yourself?(honestly)

2007-03-05 02:49:57 · 37 answers · asked by Deamonlizard 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-05 02:49:32 · 12 answers · asked by vishi 1 in Friends

My girlfriend has divorced and wants to get rid of the house. She can ask the court to sign the paper on behalf of her ex-husband to surrend the house now to the Housing Dept. But her ex-husband wants to wait until next year to sell the house in open market for better price.

If she goes with option 1, the lawyer says he can still appeal, which means it will drag on for another year. We are planning to get married asap so I can sponsor her to Canada.

If she does with option 2, there's no guarantee he will sell it in 2008. In the meantime he can rent the house out and make some $. He can do this without her knowledge. He is living in that house and my gf has moved away. She doesn't want to talk to him at all. But we don't want him to make any money out of it. We don't want to pay for the house and let him stay while we have to pay for another rental.

Any suggestion we can do?

2007-03-05 02:49:29 · 1 answers · asked by Astro newbie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been lying to me since we got married almost 2 years ago. He has been "trying " to get things back on track but is constantly screwing up. He is a recovering addict that has been through rehab and jail. He just can't seem to lose the habit of lying to me. The lies are about nothing in particular- just stupid stuff. But I can't Share my life with someone that constantly lies to me.

2007-03-05 02:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Norma S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-05 02:48:33 · 9 answers · asked by Friend 6 in Friends

2007-03-05 02:48:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 32 yrs old and i just want friends around my generation.late 20s is fine too.

2007-03-05 02:48:15 · 9 answers · asked by Daniel c 1 in Friends

today would have been 3 months, he said he would call me the next dat but hasn't called me he also tolded me "Please don't mess around with anyone else"? what does this all mean????
guys girls help!!!

2007-03-05 02:47:59 · 24 answers · asked by monick 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday I ask my gf if she loved me, and she wouldn't answer me. (this chick is really shy) so we started talking and she said she couldn't anwser that because "saying no would be mean"

Does she love me? or not?

2007-03-05 02:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by chopedham 1 in Singles & Dating

he has kept me asecret from his family, ilost contact with him 5 years ago, now he is dening he is my farther.
i have my own family now and need to prove he IS my farther.
how do you make somone have atest?

2007-03-05 02:47:12 · 8 answers · asked by chancox4 1 in Family

My boss just got married, and the wedding reception is this weekend. I was planning on getting them a blue spruce tree, but in Wisconsin they don't come in until April.... do you have any other creative ideas for a cool wedding gift?

2007-03-05 02:46:34 · 12 answers · asked by ઈтєlly 7 in Weddings

Are there any single,goodlooking,funny,honest,happy men in kent uk?I have tried the dating websites and all the men seem to be very strange.I am a single mom with a young baby so it is hard for me to meet anyone.If you think you are the type of guy that likes children and likes to have some fun in life and is strong and independent without being agressive then let me know because I am curios to see if there are any in my area or do I have to move?

2007-03-05 02:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married but i keep having dreams about my first love. We met when we were both 12 he had a crush on me we lived right down the street from each other at first I ignored him and kind of treated him badly like he was a pest but gradually around the age of 16 i began to fall for him we were really good friends we used to talk to each other on our pourches about everthing into all hours of the night. we never got into a actual relashionship becuase he had to go off to colledge but we had such a deep connection. We wrote eachother letters poems and even went to senior prom together where we kissed and had this really romantic summer together. we had planned to go to the same school but I was really confused about my feelings and said some mean things and we havent talked much since then. 5 years later I'm married for 2 years have a 1.5 year old son and I'm dreaming if him each dream more vivid the next. urging me to see or talk to him it feels like hes haunting me making me want him

2007-03-05 02:45:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a guy for 2 and a half months, he's a really great guy and we spend a lot of time together. We have a lot in common, and he pretty much fits the "list" of what I want in a partner....my question is, how soon is too soon to say I love you? We've already had that awkward pause on the telephone where its like, *insert I love you here* but it isn't said...but I don't want to freak him out. He is 37....so, he's older...I just don't want to chase him off.

2007-03-05 02:45:33 · 18 answers · asked by saintsintwilight 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 02:45:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy i have been dating for about 2 weeks...He has gotten me a promise ring because he is going into the marines...the thing is..i was looking at his cell phone and he had this message from 2 days ago ..somebody asked him if he was dating someone else...i didnt see a response from him...but he is always around and sepending the night with me..he also just bought me some thingsfor my car which are pretty expensive...anyways what would you think or do in a situation like this....

2007-03-05 02:44:48 · 4 answers · asked by kimberlyann_2008 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister, Heather, passed away in July. She was 33 and fought brain cancer for 5 years. This week my cousin and his wife had a baby girl. They called my parents and asked if they could name her after my sister. My parents were thrilled and said yes. I found out and am hurt. I had thought that if and when I have a baby girl I want to name her Heather in honor of my sister. I explained this to my mom and asked her if they could use my sisters' name for a middle name instead. She said I was being selfish, it was their decision, I don't have any say in this matter and what if I never have a daughter! Needless to say I am shocked at my parents reaction. I have never felt so betrayed in my life. They taught us to be kind and loving to each other and now they don't want me to feel anything but happy and honored about their choice. Am I wrong to feel this way or be upset at their reaction to my feelings? Please help my sisters' birthday is this wednesday and we are getting together.

2007-03-05 02:44:21 · 20 answers · asked by eco_fanatic 2 in Family

Im 15 and really want to be an actor. I've been thinking about asking my parents for us to move to L.A as it has many oppertunities. I would look for acting, my twin sister would look for music and my younger sister would look for dancing. My dad is giving up his work in about 7 days and my mum works from home. This is a good situation as my dad can find some work in LA and my mum can set her business out there.

I just dont know how to approach my parents on asking them to maybe think about moving there.

So we are kind of in a good situation to move there as my 2 sisters even said they would to pursue their careers. Also my dad has sold his shop for £65,000 and if we sold our house here in England we could use the money to move there.

So yeah can anyone give me any ideas on how i can ask them?

Thanks!

2007-03-05 02:42:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-05 02:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by Randy J 1 in Singles & Dating