today would have been 3 months, he said he would call me the next dat but hasn't called me he also tolded me "Please don't mess around with anyone else"? what does this all mean????
guys girls help!!!
2007-03-05 02:47:59 · 24 answers · asked by monick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means that he wants to play around but you can not.
2007-03-05 02:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if he has broken up with you- you can fool around with anyone your little heart desires! He no longer has any say at all in what you do or who you see! He doesnt quite want you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you! He prefers u sit and cry over HIM! That is 100% selfish on his part! Men dont seem to know what they REALLY want until they are atleast 25 years old! It takes them so much longer than women to fall in love and want to commit to one person. By saying he would call u he was trying to break it to u gently that he wanted to break up- I dont think he wanted to hurt your feelings so he said that. What he doesnt know is it hurt u lying to u when he didnt call u! U deserve so much better than that! Dont jump into another relationship until u feel the same love for a person! Take your time- cry over this relationship- it does help and then get back out there and find the love of your life! Good luck to u
2007-03-05 02:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first is reality check... Has he courted you? Have you dated?
Love is not a feeling but a decision 2 of you take part in making.
Answer this, does he keep you because he loves you? Or does he keep you BECAUSE YOU THINK HE NEEDS YOU?
Has he dumped you because you feel that you did not meet up to his expectations?
Also, If ever you at some point in your so called relationship feel that you would be of help without him asking you & that you always present yourself to him, that's infatuation & conditional love.
Trust me, it's always better if both of you speak up & reach an agreement before everything comes to a waste.
Save the friendship before loosing it.
Next is to establish why has he turned you down?
Is he childish? Is he a playboy? Does he do this all the time based from his previous relationships?
2007-03-05 03:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by jenylynqt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't want to be with you, but they don't want anyone else to be with you either. If he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, then don't wait around for him. Go out and have fun. If someone better comes along that is ready for a relationship, then I say Go for it!
2007-03-05 02:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing with you my girl. Whenever guys say they arent ready for a relationship I will think that's just an excuse they come up with other than the usual excuse of I need to concentrate on my studies. Don't hang onto him else he won't take you seriously.
2007-03-05 02:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Vaingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it means is this:
1. He's playing you
2. He's out messing around
3. If he don't find anything better, he may be back to you
My advice - Move on and don't answer his calls and don't reply to his texts. Too many good guys out there for you to hang around for some playboy wannabe.
Good Luck
2007-03-05 02:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this spot so many times it isn't even funny anymore. It just means this is a guy who doesn't like being tried down by just one girl. And it's not your fault at all. Just start a new seach 4 someone much much better.
2007-03-05 02:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by may 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not ready for a relationship, that does not give him the right to ask you to wait for when he is ready.
You sound young, live your life.
2007-03-05 02:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by twyla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider the relationship over and consider yourself lucky that you ahve learned how onesided and slefish he has been. Move forward and begin again. It s whole new world out there.
2007-03-05 02:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm with jenieve!!
Find someone who has the guts to tell you how they really feel.
He broke up with you... feel free to mess around with whoever you want.
2007-03-05 02:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you can appreciate that he's not ready for a relationship, but you are not going to put your life on hold for him. If he wants to be with you then he should be with you, if he's not going to be with you then he needs to accept that it leaves it open for other guys to be with you.
2007-03-05 02:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋