Yesterday I ask my gf if she loved me, and she wouldn't answer me. (this chick is really shy) so we started talking and she said she couldn't anwser that because "saying no would be mean"
Does she love me? or not?
2007-03-05 02:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by chopedham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This means she cares deeply for you and doesnt want to lie to you about love until she is sure! She could very well just be confused and not quite sure if she is falling in love or not. Give her space- dont push her about it and treat her with all the love and kindness u have been and hopefully she will fall just as madly in love with you as u r with her! Look on the bright side- u have a girl who is honest with you and thats a wonderful thing!
2007-03-05 02:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she said she couldn't answer you because saying no would be mean, then I'm pretty sure the answer is no. If she loved you, she would tell you.
2007-03-05 02:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Applejack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really doesn't know for sure. You should commend her for that, no one wants to be told that they are loved by someone that is lying just to keep people happy. She may not know if it is true love or not.
She sounds like a sensible person not to rush into those words
2007-03-05 02:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she does not love you. You have achoose to continue the relationship as "friends" and see if it will proceed and grow, or to look for someone else.
2007-03-05 02:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it all depends on what face she made (girls totally suck at speaking theyre mind!) theyre too confusing for me! anyway ya the tone of her voice how she said it and the face she made
2007-03-05 02:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, she likes you but does not love you and doesn't want you to think that she doesn't like you, take a step back and move slowly
2007-03-05 02:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is shy it is going to take you a while to get her real emotions out so take as much time as she needs.
2007-03-05 02:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
If she said "saying no would be mean", evidentally she wanted to say no, but she didn't want to be mean. If she loved you, she would just say "yes".
2007-03-05 02:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do think she likes you, but maybe thinks she does not deserve you.. Prove to her that you love her, and see if she loves you then? Maybe ask her to marry you.. She wat the answer is then
2007-03-05 02:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.
2007-03-05 02:50:01 · answer #10 · answered by kster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋