Ok I met this great guy, hes sweet and very cute. The thing is I am 20 and I have never been in a relationship. I really think things could develop more with this guy. I am nervous but dont want to push him away like I have with other guys in the past. I mean do I tell him I dont have expiernace with relationships and eventually that I am a virgin? I dont want to move fast and hes a sweet guy who I doubt would pressure me.
2007-03-05 02:50:45 · 5 answers · asked by katie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself.. I think it is key to be honest from the get go... Tell him everything you feel comfortable telling him.. Let him know that you are a virgenand unexperienced so that he can get the idea that you aren't that type of girl.. He has 2 choices, respect you or leave you... If he respects, he's a keeper. If he leaves, you're better off.
2007-03-05 02:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be scarey when you atart a new relationship whether it is your first or 12th relationship, the thing to remember is that you should take your time and not rush into anything. When it comes to telling him anything personal it is sometimes better to wait until you are more farther along in the relationship to tell him, or when you are comfortable. If you and him take it slow then you are not really going to push him away unless he is the type of person that likes fast relationship and in that case it may or may not work depending on what the situation is at hand. Just do the best you can and hope for the best.
2007-03-05 11:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever tell a guy you are virgin until you are in the sack and ready to do it. Guys for some dumb reason feel it's a big deal to get a virgin, I think it's a waste of a good night.
2007-03-05 10:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are aware of what you've done before that didn't work,
go slowly, OK? If you don't know him, introduce yourself, and start a "normal" conversation. If you two have talked before, ask
him if he'd help you with some project you're working on, or maybe ask him out for coffee and conversation. Get to know him,
and he will begin to see how you feel about him.
Good Luck--you'll do just fine.
2007-03-05 11:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by SlownEasy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead, talk to him..... honesty is the best policy
2007-03-05 10:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋