How do i ask my ex girlfriend if she is hooking up with this one guy without making it seem like i am jealous. This one guy is a total jerk and i have a pretty strong suspicion that they were hooking up while we were dating but i dotn really have proof. I have a few text messages that i read and a gut feeling. I do not want it to seem like i am jealous or still hung up on her, especially since we are now just friends. I know that ifi found out I could get some closure. what do i do?
2007-03-05 02:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're over her and you really aren't jealous about what she does and who she's seeing, then don't ask at all... does it really matter if she is hooking up with him?
On the other hand, if you are not so over her, just say something like: "so... are you enjoying single life? Got your eyes on anyone else yet?" If you say it in a light-hearted manner and even make it almost jokey... it won;t sound like you're jealous at all!
Hope this helps!
2007-03-05 02:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit that you are either jealous or still sort of hung up on her. Just drop the line hey I don't know what your relationship with this guy is but he's a jerk and then have reasons to back up calling him a jerk. If she wants you to know the extent of the relationship she'll tell you if not then just accept that it's really none of your business.
2007-03-05 03:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business what she's doing if you two are not together. No matter what way you ask, it'll seem like you are intruding and being jealous. You are just friends. Move on, what more closure do you need?
2007-03-05 02:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her, honsety is the best thing between two people, it doesnt matter if your dating or just friends. If you want to have a normal relationship with her you have to be open and honest. Tell her how you feel, and if she doesnt take your feelings into consideration, then you have nothing more to discuss. Tell her that its for her best interest, and your only looking out for her. That should work.
2007-03-05 03:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST ASKKK dont be a coward if u still like her cmon go for it im sure shes doing it to MAKE u jealous so just bring him up in like a casual conversation
2007-03-05 03:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on dear. Just let it be. If she was cheating on you then it would only hurt you more to find out. And if you are still friends then it could hurt your friendship.
Best thing to do is just let it go.
2007-03-05 02:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by lovesdolphins324 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she dumpedyou let it be, if you dumped her then just bring it up, like i heard from " " that you and so-so are hooking up like while we were together doesn't matter now where just friends, its not like we are getting married or anything.
2007-03-05 03:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try and ask her out. see what she says
2007-03-05 02:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋