I'm mostly happily married but I keep having dreams about my first love who I havent thought about in years

Question

I am married but i keep having dreams about my first love. We met when we were both 12 he had a crush on me we lived right down the street from each other at first I ignored him and kind of treated him badly like he was a pest but gradually around the age of 16 i began to fall for him we were really good friends we used to talk to each other on our pourches about everthing into all hours of the night. we never got into a actual relashionship becuase he had to go off to colledge but we had such a deep connection. We wrote eachother letters poems and even went to senior prom together where we kissed and had this really romantic summer together. we had planned to go to the same school but I was really confused about my feelings and said some mean things and we havent talked much since then. 5 years later I'm married for 2 years have a 1.5 year old son and I'm dreaming if him each dream more vivid the next. urging me to see or talk to him it feels like hes haunting me making me want him

Answer 1

dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.

Answer 2

It's only your own regrets haunting you. All that you wanted in a relationship of your dreams was experienced and for whatever reason the relationship was severed is what you want the most. You felt that this marriage would be as if you had married your first love but it turned out you only lied to yourself. Now you're having fantasies to convince you of what is obvious. It's time for you to accept what you have chosen, child and all. As Cher would say: "Snap out of it!"

Answer 3

A girl NEVER EVER forgets her first love! Not in a million years will u ever forget this guy or the connection u felt to him! He was the first person u loved and u will always carry that with you. He probably thinks of you just as often! Its okay to dream of him- noone can control dreams! But always remember that u have a wonderful husband who loves u and needs u more than anything and always put his love first! Good luck to u

Answer 4

If you didn't think about him when you said yes to marrying another man than you're only thinking about him now because somethin in your everyday life isn't sitting well with you. It isn't love it's fantasy. Fix the problems at home and his memory will drift away again.

Answer 5

Do you love your son and husband? If you do, stop playing the game and be the best mother and wife that you can be. Past is past, he may be married to wonderful woman now. Just move on.

Answer 6

isnt that usual? i mean i tink it happens all the time, but usually before the wedding...lol...odnt worry about it...it happens to everyone at some point. i would either be really upfront with your husband, or if he is really jealous, make sure he doesnt find out...but this is probably just a "what i could of had" type thing...it will pass

Answer 7

I can understand that but maybe it's not that you want him it could be that you miss his companionship and the connection that you guys had.It is very possible to contact him and keep that friendship as long as he knows the line not to cross.

Answer 8

Probably a site like http://www.IhadADreamLastNight.com will help you out. There is a lot of content regarding dreams there.

Answer 9

Too late for this foolisness now, you are married with a child. If you wanted him, you should not have married anyone else.

Answer 10

Its fear. Step up. Your married and have a child. Make it work or you'll drowned in your past.