how do i handle this?
We also work together.
2007-03-05 02:07:22 · 18 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say no and try to ignore him. Friendship is sacred and about trust, why would you wanna have a friendship with someone who treated you badly, and whom you resent. It doesn't make sense to me. If you have to work with him at your job then its okay to be cordial but other than that, you should not give him the time of day
2007-03-05 02:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex wants to be friend with you and you and him work at the same place, but the thing is that you had a bad relationship and you resent him for everything that happened. Well how you feel about being his girl and being his best friend are two different subjects, some don't have friendships with their ex's so do, but it is really up to the individual and what their personal feelings are, If you don't want to be friends with him then don't but that is something you have to think of on you own and a decision that you are comfortable with.
2007-03-05 02:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At work i would be very professional and keep your distance as much as you can.Has for being friends why?He treated you badly while you were in a relationship being friends will not change anything.You deserve better so move on and stay away from him. Tell him you do not want to be friends just leave me alone its over. Good luck
2007-03-05 02:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should remain proffesional at work, but if you resent him i dont think it would be good for either of you to remain close outside of work. if you resent him enough you may say things that are hurtful which in turn would probably turn into an arguement. and if he treated you badly during a relationship he probably won't be that great of a friend. i think you should be polite if your out and you see him, but i wouldn't go out of my way if i were you to hang out with him.
2007-03-05 02:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by allattitude247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother being friends. Just acquaintances will do. Friends like this tend to try to take advantage of you, at work or otherwise. Keep your distance or they'll treat you badly all around
2007-03-05 02:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be friends, don't be friends. Not being friends doesn't mean being a jerk. But after hours you guys don't have to talk. you don't have to answer your phone or reply back to personal emails or text mesgs. I'm sure there are folks you work with that your not "friends" with. i don't sociallize with any of my co-workers after 5pm
If he pressures you, tell him to respect that fact that you need space from him. If he can't handle that then let him know this is why you guys can't be friends because he doesnt respect you.
2007-03-05 02:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply tell him that you did not like the way he has treated you. If you do not want to be friend s with him just tell him that You would like to start a new path in your life and you do not see him on that path or something. lol that is the best that i got for this sisutation. If i were you that is what i would say.
2007-03-05 02:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by skater-chick133131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handle yourself in a professional manner at work, and tell him that you're not interested in a friendship. Or you can just go out of your way to avoid him after work.
2007-03-05 02:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NICE!!
Seriously felicitation!
So much girl let their self been bad treated. Don't let this Asshole drive your life.
You are doing good!
About the fact you work togheter
You can change work no?
Good Luck ! And Nice Work!
2007-03-05 02:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by lollol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being mean is not the way to tell him off if that's what you want to do, if you really don't wanna be friends, just calmly tell him that you don't think that would work. and sure you'll continue seeing each other at work, but that doesn't automatically make you best friends or anything.
2007-03-05 02:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by MB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋