i was with this guy for about 9 months . he was not that good to me but you could tell he wasa good person , maybe a little socially challenged. He managed to treat really bad becoz he didn't want to be in a relation , i finally left him and he said some pretty mean things to me . To the tune of i will never love you etc . I moved on with my life i cried a lot for about a week and then i started moving on . He calls me now a nd agin wanting to be my friend . He called me over the weekend to tell me how he met this girl and had liked but she had broken his heart , but he realized he didn't really know her . He had moved on etc , i told he needs to not call telling about crap like that , i was not ready o be his friend like that . I have not been reall talking to him over the months , i have not called him and i just dont understand why someone who broke my heart would call me to tell me this crap , is he just plain insensitive or a social retard . Then he asays he wants us to be friend
2007-03-05 02:10:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants to be with you because hes controlling and he THINKS that he can control you, he talks crapped, dont let him control you or mess you up, you were on the right track getting over him, keep on that, hes a F'in loser who can jump off a bridge
2007-03-05 02:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by blonde_goddess2992 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tina, Tina, Tina T, self respect is the root to diligence and right now you have none. There are two types of men for every women deserving of one or the other, BAD or GOOD men and it is up to the woman to decide which one they would rather spend their time with on a daily bases. Sex does not make a relationship and if you don't look forward to the next day and spending it with you're man then you have a BAD man (relationship).
Respect yourself Tina T and ask yourself, "Is he deserving of my love and Do I deserve not to be loved"? If you answered NO than you just answered your own question and NO, this is not normal for those who respect themselves, but it is normal for those who don't respect themselves, think about that.
Sincerely,
SuperDave
2007-03-05 02:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants to use you. This is obvious since he thinks he can get away treating you badly at close range and yet wants you to supposedly sidle up to him on issues involving others. Don't accept his calls. You don't need to be in the catagory of a loser.
2007-03-05 02:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let him go and tell him to move on, you have the upper hand and you must feel good for being the one to break up with him, i wish i wouldn't been the one wtih my ex cuz i would've felt so much better! so just tell him to stop contacting you, he sounds like a jerk adn probably won't change anytime soon. good luck sweetie go find a keeper
2007-03-05 02:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was mean, not so good boyfriend. You don't need a person like this in your life. No its not normal he is retarded forget him and stop talking to him. There are better people out there.
2007-03-05 02:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi tina t,
ex is always ex. forget and forgive him. donot dig out dead bodies from the grave. try to avoid him. tell him what u feel about him. enjoy the life!
2007-03-05 02:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an insensitive idiot. just ignore people like that and find someone better.
2007-03-05 02:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nanook~Maybe I need a longer Name?~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to jump in a lake. With rocks in his pockets, and a cinder-block necklace on.
2007-03-05 02:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tina, he is a bum..ignore him..
2007-03-05 02:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-03-05 02:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋