WELL MY 18 B-DAY IS IN LESS THEN 3 MONTHS AND I STILL LIVE WIT MY PARENTS (OF COARSE)BUT MY DAD TOLD ME THE OTHER DAY THAT WHEN I TURN 18 HE IS KICKING ME OUT....I HAVE NO WHERE TO GO WHEN THIS HAPPENS....I WANT TO CONTINUE TO GO TO RED LION BUT I DONT KNO NE ONE IN RED LION THAT I COULD LIVE WITH SO I COULD DO THIS AND MY PARENTS SAID THAT THERE IS NO WAY THAT I CAN STAY WITH THEM....AND I DONT KNO WHAT TO SAY TO THEM TO GET THEM TO LET ME STAY WIT THEM TILLL I HAVE A PLACE TO GO....MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO GET AN APARTMENT BUT HE DONT WANT TO LIVE IN RED LION AND I ODNT EITHER BUT LIKE I SAID I WANT TO CONTINUE TO GO TO RED LION TILL I GRADUATE...BUT I DONT KNOPW WHAT TO DO PLEASE HELP!!!!
2007-03-05 01:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to them and find out exactly why they are giving you the boot. I'm sure that there is a reason. If they are persistant in making you leave then you have 3 mths to find housing. My suggestions would be try applying for a dorm if available or seek out a roommate ad. Either way you go... you gotta get a job even if it is only part-time. You can always get an apt near your school with your boyfriend. You won't be on campus, but not too far away either. It's what my sis did when she went to college. She and 3 friends got an apt together. She could walk to school and after all her classes she went to work at a local pizzeria!
2007-03-05 01:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot imagine your parents telling you YOU have to get out. That's awful, however, no matter how awful I guess you have to obey their rules. Try discussing living at home until you graduate and then you can move out and get a place of your own with a full time job to support yourself. Take schooling on the internet or night courses but don't forget college. It is in your very best interest. Watch in the paper, there are always people wanting to rent out a room. Work part time now and rent a room if you need to. You'll figure it out. I promise. It will all come together for you so stop worrying. Worry does no good, just do what you gotta do!
2007-03-05 09:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a big problem but I also had that problem but in your situation you have to assess what is your highest priority because there is nothing wrong with going to another school and I might say that getting an apartment with b/f might not be a good idea(espif it's not the place you want to be) I would find a relative and except the change because life outside of schoolis a BIG change.Hope you work it out.
2007-03-05 09:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, My parents kicked me out at 17. Try talking to them to see if they can hold off until you finish school, if not maybe you can stay with a friend until you can get on your feet. If you have a job, start saving up as much money as you can...It'll be rough, but you'll get it. Good Luck.
2007-03-05 09:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by He's my world 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and save your money for a place.
Thank your parents for the heads up and the advanced notice. If they see you trying maybe they will soften their stand, If not, at least you will be ok.
You might want to get a new boyfriend....actually, NO boyfriend until you graduate....that way you don't get side tracked.
2007-03-05 09:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe u can explain it to ur parents that u dont have a place to live, or u have 3 months to save money,
2007-03-05 10:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact you local Social Services, they may be able to help you until you graduate from school. They may also know of some local organizations that would be able to help you. Good luck!
2007-03-05 09:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure your parents will support you until you can support yourself. Stop freaking out. Parents aren't that heartless
2007-03-05 09:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your real parents are alive,just tell them your uncertainity and surely they find the right thing for you,cuz parents are next to God in this planet
2007-03-05 09:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋