just wondering what kind of percentage of men would not go out with a woman if she already has kids, and does the age of the kids make a difference?
2007-03-05 01:53:37 · 16 answers · asked by slsvenus 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
simon m - just to put the record straight i am a single mum with two boys..but your comment was nice and heartfelt
2007-03-05 02:23:24 · update #1
What a sad shallow git you must be if having kids puts you off dating a woman who has. No, doesn't bother me in the slightest.
2007-03-05 02:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I split from my daughters dad when she was one, I started dating again when she was two and a half, and I only ever had one guy think of it as an issue, and I canned him straight away. He rang me saturday night actually come to think of it, but I was out and I'm married to someone else now anyway. Even all the time I was going out and meeting blokes I always spoke freely about the fact I was a mother, if I have anything to be proud of in the whole world it's my gorgeous girl.
Anyway, like I say, only one of them had an issue but he was only 19 (I was 25 at the time) so it might of just been his age really. He had a tiny dick anyway. Nice body though.
2007-03-05 02:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if you have children or not at the end of the day you all come as a package deal.You carry children for nine months what kind of a man would he be if he is expecting you to dump them for a relationship.At the end of the day any man should be honoured that you trust them enough to be a part of not just yours but your childrens life.
2007-03-05 03:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My current partner has 5 kids.
I've had previous partners with kids.
In this day and age, its socially acceptable for females to be single parents.
If its a problem for some guys then they belong back in the stone age
2007-03-05 07:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by badassbiker1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a single guy who would love to go out with somone who already has kids & not because he's odd in that way. He's brilliant with my kids & I think would be happy to avoid the early baby years.
2007-03-05 01:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by FC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really. i would rather date some one with children , because they know better about life situations then others. However single ones have no family baggage type restrictions. If the kids are very young you have to tailor your timings accordingly.
2007-03-05 02:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you come as a package. Only a shallow man would find kids a problem. I like kids and have a lot of time for them.
2007-03-05 03:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by charterman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of adult men who've a tendency to run from women with infants are frequently terrified of the duty. that's a good sized dedication to choose to shield somebody else's infants as though they have been your man or woman. i'm getting married to a guy that has 2 infants 14 and 9 and that i admire them plenty as though I had given delivery to then myself. you could desire to start taking you teenagers to community places for single mothers and dads. There are consistently countless adult men there with their infants who could choose to discover somebody with the comparable information. i won't be able to think of of names of those places yet once you will discover some verify them out.
2016-10-02 10:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - well i am. It takes a different class of a man to accept someone Else's kids - unfortunately I'm not of that calibre!
2007-03-05 10:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Michael Knight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 6 kids and its never stopped men being interested especially if they have kids themselfs from previous relationships.i met my ex husband with 4 kids i had 2 with him when we split i met several guys and wernt a prob if a guy likes a girl enough it wouldnt matter.
2007-03-05 02:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋