Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

I fantasize about it all the time, but she says it's disgusting. She has the most beautiful butt, and i just want to smell it but she won't let me. What should I do?

2007-02-22 01:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am a married man of 14 years with two children (16, 2) and i am in love with a co-worker, who is in a self-described troubled, loveless marriage of one year. two days after she told him she wanted a separation, she went back to him because she felt he deserved another shot. she told me in person, and after we shared more than a few passionate kisses, she told me she loved me and that she hoped he'd screw up again just so she could come to me. i feel lost without her now, what should i do?

2007-02-22 01:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People can't do more thing with out messin up all the time if I can't do it no body can at all some people can but I can't.

2007-02-22 01:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been together 3yrs he has never been unfaithful (says he doesn't believe in it is dad done it to his mum). only thing is he say he has never in his life and he thinks its shocking someone doing (like when some1 i knew done it he was appalled) but a couple of the guys he knows and is going with and they do it he doesn't seem to have a problem with that. I don't want every1 thinkn i'm a paranoid bunny boiler (if i was he wouldn't be go'n) but obviously have a couple of insecurities (past relationships fault) within my heart i know he would never do anything but somethings niggling me after some elses comment about when abroad i would never find out so it makes it different. I like to hear what you think maybe take this niggle away.

2007-02-22 01:30:58 · 13 answers · asked by curiouskel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And I can not see myself with anyone else.
How do I know for sure, once and for all he is the one I want to marry and have children with?

Obviously, marriage is scary. For one, I have never been married. So please no answers, "You will just know". There is no possible way of "just knowing".

2007-02-22 01:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Having a wife that is extremely over weight is a big turn off for me. I still love her, but when she wants sex it is difficult to get excite or even enjoy it when she is so heavy. She gets mad if we don't have sex at least a few times a month, but I find it difficult to look forward to. For me part of sex and foreplay involves sexy lingerie, the viewing of your partners body, and the whole seduction process. To have your wife want sex and then have her turn out the lights so you can't see anything while you are engaged in the act is not too exciting. I understand her feelings of not wanting to expose her body when she doesn't feel good about it, but I would also like to have something to get me excited.

2007-02-22 01:29:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father and I had a huge argument. He basically told me I was a disapointment. And in all of his yelling, he gave me the ultimatum of moving out or following his rules. The thing is, I follow his rules, but he still yells. I stay pretty much depressed because of him yelling me. And I am really thinking about moving out. I'm 17, have a place to stay, and a job. I just don't have the guts to leave my mom. Its confusing to me, what would you do?

2007-02-22 01:28:56 · 11 answers · asked by Krissy K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Married to him 19yrs.Firstly, he convinced me to quit my job & work for him but I realised he doesn't introduce me to his friends or allow to ask his whereabout after 3 years of feeling being taken advantage I finally quit. Everytime, I get a job he will not be able to concerntrate on his business. He will spy on me and make me feel that it's difficult to work as I have to make sure meals are already, house must be tidy, children has to been fully taken care off. He'll question my son & create stories to his friends accusing me of seeing someone.
I have been very careful in choosing my work. In order to cope with all the chores I work as kindergarten teacher/part time tele-marketer / data entry clerk. I make sure my bosses are all ladies. I need to work as I need to have some space and extra pocket money.
Since I have 2 boys age 15yrs and 10yrs. My sisters and friends agree that I should work but all of them don't like to his behaviour.

2007-02-22 01:28:29 · 7 answers · asked by Noel Yelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a small celti tattoo on my back and iam wanting to extend it so it goes out across my lower back but i heard a few guys say that the only reason girls have these tattoos is for some thing to look at when your f***ing her only s**ts have them is that what you men think?? i personaly think they look really nice and will be getting it done any how but just wanted to know if thats what you men/women think?

2007-02-22 01:28:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been going out off and on for almost a year
and he says we won't go all the way but my mom says we will how do i lisin to my mom or my bf ps i was at his house and i lamost sucked on his thing and i know if i had he whould have kiked it so should i do it please i realy need help

2007-02-22 01:27:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my girlfriend for just over 3mnths & she has lied to me twice already.
She got a text from her friend 2 go 2 a party in Falkirk (we live in Edinburgh) my girl never invited me which was unusual so a couple of days before it i asked her why this was the case & she said that it was a girls night. I then asked why the text she read to me never mentioned that & she said that she had deleted the other one with that info on it. So she went and drove through, never drank and came back to my house at 9pm. The day after i felt something wasnt right so i checked her mobile & there was a text recieved & one sent from her ex.
I asked her bout it & she swore blind that he had contacted her on the Friday morning (party was on Sat) & asked her 2 bring the spare set of car keys (they used 2 live 2gether). He lives in Falkirk 2. I want 2 believe her. Should I? Seems like 2 many coincidences 2 be true,1 night im not invited out & he happens to ask her about a car key,girls opinions too.

2007-02-22 01:26:36 · 16 answers · asked by Mark C 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello all; I am very new with it. I was searching for a free psychic help. And I thought maybe there are some here, and then I thought maybe normal people also can help me. My ex bf left me for nothing and we were together since 7 years, when we planned to get marry, he left me and said he has some issues about himself. Should I wait him to come back?

2007-02-22 01:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by dont_cry_ophelia 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister has been kind of down lately and has been going through a rough time. I wanted to send her something to her work to cheer her up. Any ideas besides flowers?

2007-02-22 01:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanna talk to people but since im shy I get really embarresed for no reason and I just back up and walk away. I don't know how I can overcome it so can you guys help me?

2007-02-22 01:24:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boy friend has cheated in the past and i need to know if he is doing it again how im home all day and he is very good i have no way of knowing for sure he is very defensive when ask but the signs are all there help me

2007-02-22 01:24:28 · 20 answers · asked by vickann38 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl in my schol ................she makes eye contact wen ever she passes by me.......though v never talked to each other.........she has been lookin at me for the past few weeks...........she never smiles wen she looks at me..............does she want me to talk to her ??

2007-02-22 01:21:01 · 10 answers · asked by spiderboy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. my past relationship ended. my ex's name. timmy. ever since we've separated and ever since he hung out with his new friends. everytime i pass by they would try to get my attention so ill notice them. i always see them looking at me after they've made a scene to check if i was looking. like once i was walking then they saw me. timmy was like "weh, weh, weh" in a voice so loud and clear. then his friend cherianne was like "omg timmy tiiiiiimmmmmyyyyy!!!!!" i looked back coz i walked right past them then i saw them look at me to check if they caught my attention. what are they trying to do?

2007-02-22 01:19:25 · 4 answers · asked by Gravity. 2 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with a girl whom i love too much for her i left my country,my family even my job to get her.she is 9years junior to me.she also love me too much but she afraid of her mom to accept me.as her mom dont like me.but she promise me she will marry me after two years but its not possible for me to stay in another country for that long.so what should i do now please advise me.

2007-02-22 01:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by amit s 1 in Weddings

Just curious, because I cook everyday, clean house, take care of my daughter, write lil sweet notes, take care of the lawn, hold a job-- etc.... but nothing is ever good enough, I still get ditched. While my sister on the other hand does not cook, and spends all of her money plus her husbands, doesn't spend any time with her kids etc....and her husband worships the ground she walks on. WHAT GIVES? Am I doing TOOO much for the men in my life?

2007-02-22 01:19:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok plz help me?
i have a boyfriend and stuff and he is 17 and i am 16i love him he loves me we have beent together for 4 years and i was wondering we agreed that we would do it when i am 18. and we talk about it. the consiqienses and stuff ( sorry for my spelling plz dont comment on that) and i wonder if u could tell me what age u lost ur virginity and how, why did u do it and was if painful? and also do u think i should do it sooner i really love him he loves me too i mean 4 years !

2007-02-22 01:18:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its my friends and her husbands first wedding aniversary and she needs some good messages to text her husband who is out of station at present

please give me some hot, sweet, cute, romantioc messages or atleast the link to any sites that have them

keep in mind first wedding aniversary for a wife to send her husband husband messages

thanks people

2007-02-22 01:16:23 · 8 answers · asked by beautiful mind 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you told someone time and time again that you only delete conversation's with other women if you have something to hide. And one night he delete,s everything excepted the only one he says hi to and gets no responce. And I saw a few myself before I fell asleep. And if you were happy in a relationship, would you talk to over 50 other women trying to see their bodies and stuff. Every day even.

2007-02-22 01:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by maxine 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband left last night and said he did not want to be with me anymore. I have no family or friends in PA so I have no reason to be here could I legally take my daughters and go to NY?

2007-02-22 01:15:17 · 7 answers · asked by amandaholes19 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its my friends and her husbands first wedding aniversary and she needs some good messages to text her husband who is out of station at present

please give me some hot, sweet, cute, romantioc messages or atleast the link to any sites that have them

keep in mind first wedding aniversary for a wife to send her husband husband messages

thanks people

2007-02-22 01:15:08 · 1 answers · asked by beautiful mind 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 01:14:17 · 20 answers · asked by Edel F 1 in Singles & Dating

in a long distance rel and i speak to him near enough every night and see him every 3rd week,its come to the point where ive ran out of conversation,we talk about how work was and hows the family etc,general convo,i want to talk to him more and get to know him better how can we talk about other things without getting bored i know his favourite things etc but i need to know more about what type of person he is,we both dont want to end it but if its like this now i hate to think what itd be like in the future,any suggestions please how we carry on convos without the long silence.

2007-02-22 01:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this one puzzles me so i have to ask it... I have a friend who's ex husband just took his own life a couple of days ago ... I wont go into all the details but needless to say i feel this could have been handled differently and that he did not have to choose to end his own life the way he did. Why is it the men are more proned to commiting suicide then what women are? When you read the papers or hear the news it is usually the men that commit suicide and not women. I wonder why that is?

2007-02-22 01:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand a few things about medicare but death wow you
don't even have time to greive My dad had a stroke and can't help me as always mom took care of everything Please help me I
don't know where to begin THANKYOU SO MUCH

2007-02-22 01:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by happycat12345l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Best Friend was a girl ,she was so close to me for the last 3 years...used to call everyday ..i used to talk all my problem all about me to her and similarly she to me...after long of close friendship there came gaps in our friendship that made her part from me...i begged her we could just talk once in a while ..but she didnt want to ..bcoz she felt that her importance decreased in my life..just bcoz of this gap between us...she blocked me everywhere from messengers to mails to etc..everywhere ...

Still I am not sure where did i go wrong in my friendship..I was always a sincere best friend to her..when she cried i was there to shoulder it ,...when she was happy I was there to take her more up..suddenly everything happened..

Friends!!! -I am not still able to take this..tried a lot to understand why is it ..a guy and gal can they become friends ??? I miss my best friend always ...??? Didn't ever find someone who could be like her so sincere..?

2007-02-22 01:12:42 · 19 answers · asked by cryingeagle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 01:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by wwwfun 1 in Marriage & Divorce