My Best Friend was a girl ,she was so close to me for the last 3 years...used to call everyday ..i used to talk all my problem all about me to her and similarly she to me...after long of close friendship there came gaps in our friendship that made her part from me...i begged her we could just talk once in a while ..but she didnt want to ..bcoz she felt that her importance decreased in my life..just bcoz of this gap between us...she blocked me everywhere from messengers to mails to etc..everywhere ...
Still I am not sure where did i go wrong in my friendship..I was always a sincere best friend to her..when she cried i was there to shoulder it ,...when she was happy I was there to take her more up..suddenly everything happened..
Friends!!! -I am not still able to take this..tried a lot to understand why is it ..a guy and gal can they become friends ??? I miss my best friend always ...??? Didn't ever find someone who could be like her so sincere..?
2007-02-22 01:12:42 · 19 answers · asked by cryingeagle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i will be your friend for life time .dont worry about her u just pray for her every day ever thing will be fine
2007-02-22 05:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Archana V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a guy (I'm a woman). We've been best friends for over 20 years. It is possible.
On the other hand, sometimes it's possible to lose a close friend and never know why. The woman who was my matron of honor abruptly cut off our friendship around 14 yeards ago. She wouldn't answer phone calls, emails or letters - even if they said I don't know why you're mad at me but if you tell me why I'll appologize.
It's a cliche but sometimes it's true that it's not you, it's her. I found out through some research that she had cut off not just me but all the people we'd gone to school with plus our one mutual friend that we knew from after college. Something in her life must have changed radically and that made her think she needed a new set of friends maybe? After a few years I resigned myself to the fact that I will never know.
A different friend also dissapeared. Eventually I found out that his wife was a social climber and refused to let him associate with his old friends because we weren't rich and powerful enough to suit her tastes. It still hurt to lose him, but at least I knew what had happened and that it wasn't in any way my fault.
So, don't obsess over it. Maybe one day you'll understand what happened and maybe you won't but remember it's her decision and there isn't all that much you can do to affect it. Don't worry, you'll find new friends.
2007-02-22 01:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Miss My Best Friends
2016-11-11 04:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, girls and guys can become the best of friends. i have a friend at school we have been friends thru a move from traditional elementary in the city to middle school in the country. i know i could never mess anything up that's how good a friends we are. i even dated him for a month and that just brought us closer. maybe she just doesn't think you can be a friend or more likely her friends tell her you want more or that you seem like an old married couple. i think it's more along the lines that she likes you but may think you want more and don't realize it yet. soon you too will have a brother/sister relationship with a friend of the opposite gender, it's great! good luck
2007-02-22 01:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by mocktrialcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with being friends with guys. I was homeschooled since 2nd grade and the only friends I had were guys who were friends with my older brother. They treated me like a little sister when I was younger and now I go on double dates with them and their girlfriends and my boyfriend and myself. Making friends is up to you and how you act. Becoming friends with someone isn't some kind of science that you can explain how to do and how the process works. It's like falling in love. It just happens. Talk to people, ask questions about your classes. Compliment something they're wearing or something. It's not hard to be social, if I can do it after 10 years of being a loner and homeschooled I'm sure you can. A word of advice too though, having female friends can also just cause drama and some of them can be quite the backstabbers.
2016-03-16 22:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and gals can be best friends, but in order to be a true friendship, it must be strictly platonic. If it becomes touchy-feely then it becomes something else. Perhaps your best friend thought the friendship was launching into something else and she didn't want it to be that way because she didn't feel that way. Ever think about that? Sounds like she may have thought you wanted something more from her than just a platonic friendship.
2007-02-22 01:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by jaylock90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a best guy friend and a best girl friend. It works out great because they both need me for separate things I can tell my girl friend things I can't tell my guy friend and I can talk to him about guys from a male point of view. I love them both and would do anything for them it does not have to be sexual. I enjoy hanging out with them whenever I get the chance.
2007-02-22 01:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your friend was starting to like you more than just a friend and that's not where she wanted to go w/ your relationship. just let her know that you will be there for her and that you still want her as a friend maybe she will come around good luck to you i hope thing go well. my best friend is a male and we have never been sexual together even slept in the same bed once and stayed on our own sides. there is nothing wrong with having best friends of the opposite sex sometimes they are really good at telling you how to keep your relationship with you gf or bf good !!
2007-02-22 01:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by notes from an angry white chic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes-I had a best friend named Tim. We were not lovers,just friends. We would sit & talk for hours about everything. He understood things about me & accepted them. I could confide in him. In our discussions we talked about GOD & the afterlife. We made a promise that if something happened to either of us that we would validate our theory. My best friend had a heart attack.He was 46 years old. He let me know 2 days later that our conversations were right. If I told you how it was validated you would freak out. Some people are so special............
2007-02-22 01:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear friend, i dont know what is problem between your & your best friend but i want to tell u something ( A girl 7 a boy never can be a gud frend because love come between them any time any reason any where. when love come in your life how u thinking about your friendship all is not much for your relation. i think u love her/him,asking yourself?
2007-02-22 01:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"There came gaps in our friendship..." - I don't quite understand what that means, but suppose that it was sufficiently serious for her to sever such a sweet relationship. Anyway, you should ask for forgiveness for any mistake that you might have committed inadvertently. And since she has blocked you everywhere, just persist with your mails and messages. And hope that she sees them some day or the other and things return to the same sweet days of old.
2007-02-22 03:45:45 · answer #11 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋