I find it hardier to get men then my much prettier friends how can i make things better?

Answer 1

let that personality shine bright

Answer 2

Beauty is relative. You seem as though you don't have much self esteem, and if you don't beleive in yourself, how can you expect someone else to? You need to walk through life like you hold the greatest secret in the world, and only the people around you are in on it. This will make people want to be a part of your world. I used to be alot like you, until someone told me to do this. Even if you feel like melting into a puddle on the floor, hold you head high, talk with authority, and smile. When You do these things people will assume you are a confident person, and fairly quickly you will begin to feed off of what others presume.

Answer 3

To get men? How many do you need? Pretty is on the inside, too...ya know? Pretty isn't all about make up. It's about being a better person. If you don't think you're able you handicap yourself. Think positive and carry yourself proudly...that alone is what I look for in a woman.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm alway amazed at a women who can't accept a compliment on her beauty because she doesn't think she is.

Just because you don't see "pretty" when you look in the mirror doesn't mean I won't.

Answer 4

Just be yourself. your "pretty" friends are only prettier depending on the eye of the beholder.
You will find someone who will love you for you. The guys your mates pull will only have gone with them for surface beauty and probably dont last very long. You shoudl consider yourself lucky that you are not being used by guys in such a way as your mates are.
You will meet a guy who will fall in love with your laugh, your smile, and your personality. They wont care what you look like.
One of the most important things is to be confident - you have already lowered yourself to thinking you are the (to pardon the term)'ugly duckling' of your mates. This will reflect in your actions and outgoing personality. Be confident and walk into a room thinking "i AM gorgeous, and i could pull any one of these guys in here" and this will reflect in you.
Good luck and be happy. xx

Answer 5

Well----- you could start wearing High heels, stockings and a very short mini skirt, with a very tight, revealing top, and Lot's of make up! But you may then get the wrong type of Guy, be yourself, I'm sure you have a lot going for you and remember " beauty is in the eye if the beholder" you don't have to try too hard, you sound great! best of luck!

Answer 6

When you are young, the boys will always go after the prettier girls, its biology. However, you can seperate yourself from them by not trying to be exactly like the pretty girls and be yourself. Be confident and funny, be smart. Eventually, every guy will notice you....they may not all go for you, but they will notice you. Smart, confident, funny women are a rarity even as adults!

Answer 7

Confidence, confidence, confidence.

When you can look at yourself and say "damn, I'm Hot"...then guys will flock to you.

i dont care if you are 500 lbs and bald as britney. Self confidence goes a long way.

plus, the guys your "much prettier" friends are getting, only care about looks and they will get hurt in the end.

Answer 8

One thing I have learnt in life is not to force things to happen, particularly relationships. Let nature take it's own course. If you try to make things happen, you may live to regret later on.
I believe that prettiness is not beauty. A real man searches for beauty in a woman, inner beauty. Every woman is beautiful in her own way and eventually you will find a man who will truly treasure that beauty. Be patient girl.

Answer 9

Have a bit of confidence in yourself. Belive in who you are and be happy with you. Guys will see that. Dont put emphasis on looks thats to shallow, but on you. Guys that just see or judge on looks, tend to be the wrong sort of people, you probably dont want to be dating them anyway!!!!

Answer 10

Ive taken one for the team a few times, dont worry, just wait for the noble self sacrafice.

Answer 11

confidence, kindness, warmth and personality are much more attractive, and longer lasting. You want a man of depth anyway, someone who looks on the inside. Thats where your happiness lies.