Family & Relationships - 22 February 2007

its been 2 1/2 yrs since we broke up, and i am going to be running in to him soon. im not too happy about that.

2007-02-22 00:41:00 · 10 answers · asked by live forever 1 in Singles & Dating

Does any of these type of sites realy work i have been on them and spoke to many females but all they want is to chat not meet.

2007-02-22 00:40:44 · 16 answers · asked by barz 2 in Singles & Dating

My delima is this . I have been married only 1 year and we have been together for 6 years. My husband tells me he would like to have 2 girls since he has never tried it before. He had someone in mind who he picked out and wanted us to be friends. I really did'nt like the girl so eventually he stop talking to her. It seems like she would only call him and when I talked with her she would try to act as if she was not down to share if it were her husband. Almost as if she was trying to split us up.
But he still insist he would like to try this.
I have never been with a girl and not sure how I will feel about another female in my bed calling my husband at all hours talking about who know what.
Am worried about him. I feel like maybe am not satisfying him. I open with him sexually and we do all we can do as a couple. So I do'nt get it....Can someone please shed some light on this for me.
I do'nt want to lose my marriage. Am I being closed minded...

2007-02-22 00:39:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anaiyah M 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So many people here make nasty comments to other uses when they talk about wearing white wedding dresses or not, it seems to be a really big issue. What is it all about? I found this information about white wedding dresses:

The wearing of a white bridal outfit is a long lived Victorian tradition. Because delicate white garments were practically impossible to keep clean, a wedding dress could only be worn once, and therefore was seen as a symbol of status, and not an indictor of a woman's virtue, as only the wealthy could afford them. It was only after World War II that the white wedding dress was seen as an indication of a woman's virtue.

In this day and age people should stop being judgemental about other people's choices, who cares if the bride is or is not a virgin, isn't that something that should be kept private between the couple, rather than the wedding guests speculating about it just because of the colour of the dress?

2007-02-22 00:39:22 · 25 answers · asked by sparkleythings_4you 7 in Weddings

then is it right to cheat in love???

2007-02-22 00:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by suma 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I am almost deaf? I'm still (fairly) young, tall and not too bad to look at. But my confidence has gone, along with my hearing. How can I approach a girl and talk to her when I can't hear her replies? Unless she shouts - something tells me that asking her to shout at me wouldn't make a particularly good first impression.

My hearing loss is due to a series of ear infections; I have had partial hearing for about 18 months, it was okay before that.

Insights and advice would be welcome from guys who have a similar hearing problem (or even if you don't).

Also girls, what do you think?

2007-02-22 00:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by Paul The Rock Ape 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband goes to a yearly hockey game out of town with his coworkers. Last year the after party got out of hand and some people were screwing around with each other on the bus and basically just cheating on their spouses. My husband was relatively sober and didn't partake in the extra curricular activities.
So this year when he wanted to go I told him I was concerned about what happened last year and asked him to stay sober and distance himself from anybody who was being a pig. Well he comes home in the middle of the night so drunk he throws up and then passes out on the couch!!!!!
I am so MAD I could just scream! I haven't even spoken to him yet, any ideas on what I should do?
We work in the same building, just for different companies and I have to face these people everyday so I don't want to create any undue tension around the workplace but I'm tempted to ask around to find out what happened last night.

2007-02-22 00:38:45 · 12 answers · asked by puckbunny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I have 2 brothers...1 older and 1 younger....Last night at dinner my parents started telling me about there Will and how everything was left to me and I would have to split it up. Then they started talking about being Cremated...is that okay with the Bible...really....I don't know....but anyway I got really upset because they are only 48 and 49.... I know they have to make it but it was still sad. I am really upset by all this and now I find myself crying randomly...When my Mom told me where she wants her ashs...I lost it....Now I can't stop thinking about it...my Mom is the closet person to me besides my little brother...She also mentioned that if they die before he is 18 he has to live with my Grandparents...I want him to stay with me...I am really upset and hate thinking about this...please someone tell me how to stop thinking about it and be happy again...I know its just life but I just need some pick me ups!! Oh and sorry this is so long....

2007-02-22 00:38:35 · 16 answers · asked by ~J*me~ 3 in Family

I mean my wife to be

2007-02-22 00:37:59 · 4 answers · asked by Okunola M 1 in Singles & Dating

she has been with us for 2 years and we are very good friends, i am almost certain it is her, but she would be fired immediately...help me with this dilemma

2007-02-22 00:36:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a girl called his phone last night i guess she asked what are u donig he said chillin with wifey watching a flick then i guess she said alright and they hung up i asked who she was he said a girl that does his nieces hair i asked how she got the number he said thats what im trying to figure out then he said probably his sister. keep in mind i stopped all my male phone calls and his excuse is i want to cheat. whatever. if someone calls your phone that you dont talk to the first question is how did you get this number!! right also his sister doesnt really like me i feel because she is in a realtionship with a dude i use to talk to 4 years ago his sister is young(18) and the dude is 29 im 22 and my boyfriend is 24 we have matching tattos(right arm botton risk) what do u think?? also we been threw alot (cheating) but we got pass that everything has been cool for about 6 months now

2007-02-22 00:35:24 · 12 answers · asked by tiana$$$$ 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a card from ppl at work and one of the guys wrote 'Happy Bleeding Birthday' wut does he mean? is it just an english saying or summat?

2007-02-22 00:34:29 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

Ever since we have been together(nearly five years)things to make me distrust him keep coming up.Hes never cheated on me, that Im pretty sure of but I keep on finding things out that show me hes been looking at porn/calling sex lines etc. If he was just honest then I would like it but Id accept it, its the fact he so strongly denies it-hes even broken up with me before when Ive told him that I know hes lying-ive heard him calling these numbers and doin re-dial when hes finished, how much more proof do I need but he just refuses to discuss it and gets very defensive and angry.
In every other way hes a wonderful partner-he treats me wel and i do love him but him lying to me is just pushing me away.Ive told him this and even said there will come a point where I cant take the lying anymore but he will never just be honest with me.
Id be heartbroken if he did confess but at least i would have respect for him for being honest.At the moment I just think hes being pathetic.
what should I do

2007-02-22 00:32:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 00:32:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-22 00:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love spandex and wish my wife would wear them with me i never force this on her but i would be putty in herr hands if she wore nylon spandex around me.

2007-02-22 00:30:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was IMing with someone who is suppposed to be in an exclusive relationship with me. There were constant delays in her replies, but there usually is so at first I didn't think much of it. Then she typed something that had nothing to do with what we were talking about. It was obvious to me she was IMing with someone else too, and by what she typed it was obviously another guy, inquiring about his marital status.."married" she typed..then " I see", after ten second delay. She claims she was on phone with someone, regarding work, questioning someones mortgage application... Has anyone ever typed what they were speaking on the phone? Sounds more likely she just typed it into the wrong IM box. Am I an idiot to believe her or what?? Adding that she has a history of IMing with others she's met online will make me look pretty dumb for believing her I bet.lol

2007-02-22 00:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

This is really a sad story when i was in high school i was made fun of not in a funny way but a mean way there were days when i would just cry and i would sometimes check out to go home because of the painful things they were saying to me i even had a teacher who was not only mean but uncaring she was never on my side and never was my friend. it was very painful four years when i was in high school some people came up and said sorry to me but as for the rest? no. why would people treat others like that with disabilities i dont know if i have this thing called willam sindrom i tried to speel it best as i could but you know what im saying. anyway sometimes it hurts to think back on those days it really made me feel unloved and well unwanted i am a lovley person and i have a right to cry when people dont want to be my friend. even my teacher Mrs. hughs didnt say sorry so anyway i never thought i could say this but now that i did i hope someone can understand what its like. thanks.

2007-02-22 00:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by kat k 1 in Friends

I'm planning my own wedding but i dont know how to start?

2007-02-22 00:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by Isis Z 1 in Weddings

I recently met a girl (4 months) ago, she is 17 i am 27. We have quite alot in common with each other. We have gone out to the movies, gotten things to eat, have seen some shows in the city. I have also met her parents, who think i am a great guy. This girl and my self have never done anything sexual, just kissed. My question is, if your daughter or son brought home a guy or a woman 10 years older than them and you liked the older guy or girl would you accept them dating, or would you forbid your teenager to see them? Thank you

2007-02-22 00:29:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never lived with a guy before. No one in my family has. I'm scared that if I do my parents wont talk to me anymore.
He said he would pay all the utlities and the rent, but I would have to pay my truck payment, cell phone and insurance. I know he can afford this.
Has anyone ever been in this situation??

Advice would be greatly appreciated.


Thanks!

2007-02-22 00:28:00 · 18 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 00:27:55 · 7 answers · asked by D S 1 in Singles & Dating

What's one thing that would instantly turn a guy on ?
Keep in mind that you are in a public setting, and can't just tear your clothes off.

2007-02-22 00:27:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need advice asap!

2007-02-22 00:24:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1)Is it possible for guys to be attracted to another girl, even though he is about to get married?

2)If yes to Q1, then do these following signs indicate he is attracted to her :
i)The girl did ask if he is married, and he said no, with such intensity(as though he is worried she might think he's already married)
ii)he is curious/concerned about another guy who is pursuing her.
iii)he finds many opportunities to talk to the girl

3)If guys are happy about the girl that they love, they would be talking about her happily, all the time, right? So, why would he hide it?

(Sorry ppl, i know this is long, thanks)

2007-02-22 00:24:01 · 15 answers · asked by Dane 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy was double dating but wants to resolve issues with his past relationship and wants the present date to hang on for him so as to resolve issues. is it necessary for the lady to keep hanging on

2007-02-22 00:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by Bajomo B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-22 00:23:20 · 11 answers · asked by claiza 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We live in Michigan...may not matter as to the prices that I put on high quality girls clothing for my garage sale this spring. She has good shape stuff from "Children's Place", "Macy's, etc. I have never held a garage sale where I have included her stuff and want to get your feed back on prices. Thanks!

2007-02-22 00:22:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-22 00:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by KitaL 1 in Weddings

2007-02-22 00:22:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce