3 Questions for the guys.....(girls are welcome to write too, if you like)?

Question

1)Is it possible for guys to be attracted to another girl, even though he is about to get married?

2)If yes to Q1, then do these following signs indicate he is attracted to her :
i)The girl did ask if he is married, and he said no, with such intensity(as though he is worried she might think he's already married)
ii)he is curious/concerned about another guy who is pursuing her.
iii)he finds many opportunities to talk to the girl

3)If guys are happy about the girl that they love, they would be talking about her happily, all the time, right? So, why would he hide it?

(Sorry ppl, i know this is long, thanks)

yea, he could have said "no, not married yet, but soon...."

Answer 1

1) Yes!
2) It has nothing to do with getting married to someone else or love, it's LUST
3) See answer #2

Boys like girls, men like women. Just because he's getting ready to get married doesn't mean that his desire for women has been cut off. If that were the case, why even get married to one woman. I know you probably won't understand this. Marriage is something that women live for and something that most men try to avoid. You'd have to be a man to understand that...just like we don't understand why you start planning your marriage as early as 1st grade (5 or 6 years of age)

Sorry if the truth hurts. It's not meant to hurt you, but to educate you.

Answer 2

Hmmm....

I'm sorry but all the signs show that he can be unfaithful even after marriage....

I'll answer your question per number so please follow suite:
1. Yes he can but not to the extremes..

2. i. He should not do that especially with intensity or impact.. especially when your around!

2.ii. should not happen unless the girls his sister or long lost friend or if the guy is a jerk...

2.iii. could happen if the girls is his sister or long lost friend other wise he shouldn't especially if he is that devoted in the pursuit!

3. having a relationship with the woman you love... being too happy all the time is wrong it means that you both are not sharing the troubles in you life but if he is doing it discreetly especially if the girl is around its the sign of being unfaithful...

the length is not a problem so you don't have to worry about that... you needed advice and were here to help! ^_^

I hope you find your answers! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Yes a guy can be attracted to another girl even if he is going to get married. And if he seems to be curious about your love life and declares that no he isn't married with intensity the it does appear that he has some interest in you. Not to mention if he is curious about your love life with other men while making time to talk to you it defintley is a sign he has some feelings developing for you in my opinion. Maybe he isn't talking happily about his fiance cause well maybe he isn't as happy as he could be with her. Or maybe he is having those wedding day jitters and is looking for amusement. Maybe he is just still wanting to see what is out there before getting married. there are a lot of reasons for his behavior and I can not tell you to get your hopes up with this guy cause I wouldn't want you to end up being let down but I do advise you to seriously talk to him about your suspicions of him liking you. You don't want to mess with a taken man. So if he does want to be with you he needs to call off this engagement to his fiance which is a big step. But unless he does that to truly be with you then don't waste your time. You don't want to be a home wrecker or a mistress. You deserve to be someones one and only. So like I said be honest with him and talk to him of your feelings and find out for sure what his are. Then go from there. If he doesn't feel the same and want to be with you on a real level then find a new man one that isn't already spoken for. Good luck!

Answer 4

1./2. Yes, it is possible. Damn you are not dead, you are always going to see someone that attract you. You can look but don't even think about touching and talking! Women also see guys that are attractive too. It works both ways. Would you want your lady to act the way you are doing. Most times the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence.

3. Nope. Relationships are not fairy tales! You can talk about happy things all the time. that crazy.

Answer 5

hi,
it is not unusual for a guy to look at other women even when getting married it is in the man to look. yes on the second question also. if he love the girl he is about to marry then he should not be worried about anyone but the woman that he plans to marry. unless this girl is his sister, the other girls problems should not be of any concern to hem unless she was being attacked by someone.as for the third question it is the mans nature to always be into the damsel in distress as well as the woman on the street. you have to decide that if you love him enough to marry him.

Answer 6

1. It is possible and common for anyone to be attracted to anyone at anytime. It is part of of nature and exists to assist with the proliferation of our species.

2. If he is talking to her and denying that he is in a relationship, then he is not serious about that relationship and is attracted to her, for now. In time, he will move on to someone new to cheat with.

3. Even happy people don't mention their relationships all of the time. However, they would not hide it either. (For example, everyone I work with knows that I am married. However, since there is a good many of them that I don't like, and therefore don't talk to, many of them don't know my wife's name.)

Answer 7

1. YES.
2. YES. To all three.
3. Yes. If they are happy. All the time. Unless they really are cheating, or on some very good medication, that's probobly not the case. If he is unhappy, he may be setting a breakup in motion, feeling that his relationship is holding him back. Or he could be cheating.

Answer 8

It sounds like the guy is not serious about getting married.
On the other hand the may think of the girl as a "liitle sister" type thing and may just be looking out for her. If he was serious about getting married he would have said "No i'm not married, but I am engaged."

Answer 9

1) Yes we are such visual creatures and well while we are willing to make the lifelong commitment it still scares the heck out of us.

2) all are possible.. while he can also be attracted to her and not try anything.

3) see the asnwer to question 1 ..

Answer 10

regardless of rather you're married or not there will always be someone that you're going to find attractive, but if it's to the point where it affects the person's relationship with their mate then maybe they aren't ready for marraige. there's a possibility that they aren't actually in love with their fiance, or maybe they just aren't ready for a commitment. it also depends on rather they have a history with whoever it is that they're attracted to.