Ok plz help me?
i have a boyfriend and stuff and he is 17 and i am 16i love him he loves me we have beent together for 4 years and i was wondering we agreed that we would do it when i am 18. and we talk about it. the consiqienses and stuff ( sorry for my spelling plz dont comment on that) and i wonder if u could tell me what age u lost ur virginity and how, why did u do it and was if painful? and also do u think i should do it sooner i really love him he loves me too i mean 4 years !
2007-02-22 01:18:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let's see, you been together since you were 12 and he was 13.
If you have gone this long and not had sex, you can go until you are 18.
Idealistically, most people here will tell you to wait and have sex when you are married, but in this day in age, its a great feat that you made it to 16 without losing your virginity.
If you are like most teens you are doing other things to satisfy him without intercourse, so just stay with that.
Sex is a dangerous thing teens play with, and if you get pregnant that early in life, it just makes the next 20 years of your life SO much harder.
If you truely love each other, then it should be fine.
2007-02-22 01:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesnt equals sex you know.I dont think you guys should do it too soon.Dont want you to feel as if he's taking advantage of you if you guys were not to last.Don;t want you to feel the loss of your virginity to sum1 who;s not worth it.But really if you really dun mind losing your V at such a young age,it's still up to you,if you really wana do it,do more research on sex pls...Don;t get yourself pregnant..even condoms are not 100% safe..My friend just got pregnant even though condom is used..Well,if you are a first-timer in the intercourse,of course you will feel the pain.Because the vagina wall is still very tight and has not been broken into yet.So first sex Is painful.By the time you do it like 3rd 4th time,it'll not be painful anymore but pleasure already.Hope it helps.And think wisely pal.:>
2007-02-22 01:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by Angel_Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, "are you and him going to be ready to handle the responsibilities of what you are planning?" Are you ready to have an abortion? Are you ready to have a child? These are only a few question that you should asking yourself. At the age of 18, you should be concentrating on getting a college education. Once you both get an education, you will be well prepared to make a commitment. When people begin having sex, people do have "accidents" and end up with life altering decisions.
2007-02-22 01:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready I lost my virginity at 13 and I wish that I would have waited. I was dating a guy for the summer and I was so worried about other people calling me lame because I had not had sex but now I look back it was unimportant. I thought that I loved the guy and I thought he really liked me but the whole time he was having sex with someone else. So he really broke my heart but I was young and dumb. If you want to wait and he is willing to wait for you then wait you do not want to end up with a baby before you are ready to be a parent because that changes your whole life believe me. It hurt the first time and I cried during but that was because I was nervous and not relaxed plus his uncle came in the room while we were doing it so that made it so much worse. Take your time it will be worth the wait!!
2007-02-22 01:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the most horrifying painful thing in my life ! Just Kidding! If you experience pain then your boyfriend doesn't know how to do it! A little pain will be felt when the hymen is broken and chances are that you would be so worried about it that you won't enjoy it. I am sensing that you are not quite sure then don't do it, wait untli you are sure and secure!
I have no regrets, lost it when I was 18 as well. He was caring and so careful all throughout!
2007-02-22 01:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just too cute for ya, If you have to ask your not ready please don't take this the wrong way OK. Just wait the two of you will know when the time is right if you guy's love one another the way you say you will know don't listing too what others have to say. If they tease you about still being a virgin , they are jealous giving yourself to someone is something not to be taken lightly. You decide when your ready if he is not and you are, then wait til the time is right ready. think of all the consequences. I trust you will make the right decision.
2007-02-22 01:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15, the pain kinda depends on his size, I'm not trying to be a pevert so dont take it that way, I regret it, but dont make it too planned, and dont feel like you HAVE to do it, make sure you KNOW your ready
2007-02-22 01:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 and yeah it hurts.31now and to look back it hurt in many ways
2007-02-22 01:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by AMBER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋