in a long distance rel and i speak to him near enough every night and see him every 3rd week,its come to the point where ive ran out of conversation,we talk about how work was and hows the family etc,general convo,i want to talk to him more and get to know him better how can we talk about other things without getting bored i know his favourite things etc but i need to know more about what type of person he is,we both dont want to end it but if its like this now i hate to think what itd be like in the future,any suggestions please how we carry on convos without the long silence.
2007-02-22 01:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't ypu plan something together like a weekend away or a short break, then you can talk about that on the phone, plan things together and then when you go away you can get to know each other in a mutual environment.
Then when you get back you can always talk about how great your time away was!
Good luck!
2007-02-22 01:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to say I am not a believer in distance relationships.
My Old man works away and only travels back every other week. My parents have a relationship but its not one I would ever want.
At Uni numerous people had boyfriends and girlfriends back home, only those who went back every week seem to last.
Im currently working away and only going hme at weekends and I know that is hard for the both of us. Is only the fact that this is a short term work thing and not permanent.
How can you bond and share experiences which build the relationship and make it stronger if you are not together, especially if that has always been the case.
Sorry to say, move or call it a day.
2007-02-22 09:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get and read the book "1,000 Questions For Couples" by Michael Webb. It will give you a multitude of questions to ask you partner to really get to know him more in depth.
http://www.questionsforcouples.com/
2007-02-22 09:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to talk to someone when you don't see them that much, is there anyway you can meet up more? you have to find out what he is like and him, you, , that cant really be done unless you spend more time together, maybe cut your days down to 4 times a week, then there will be more to talk about, x
2007-02-22 09:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by honey xx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk about things you and he would like to do. things you would like to do but are to scared to do and things like that. Maybe ask what he is most scared of and tell him yours. Talk about movies you would like to go and see and places you would like to go to and things like that.
Hope this has helped you a little.
Good luck
2007-02-22 09:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋