I fantasize about it all the time, but she says it's disgusting. She has the most beautiful butt, and i just want to smell it but she won't let me. What should I do?
2007-02-22 01:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummm, it's not a very comfortable position for a woman to be in to enjoy something. You have to concentrate more on balancing and staying upright than the enjoyment. Kind-of like trying to have sex standing up in spike heels! Can't you do it another way? She might have more fun, and you might get away with more! LOL!
2007-02-22 02:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't tell her you want to smell it - that's not a turn on. Find other ways to express that you would enjoy it. My husband finds video clips of things he would enjoy so I can see what he wants (when he can't explain it with words). Don't force her into it and offer to do something that she fantasizes about (even if you won't fully enjoy it).
2007-02-22 01:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it excites you. Alot of women don't get the fact that sometimes they need to do things sexually that aren't always for them (unless it involves children, animals, pain or other people *this doesn't apply to swingers*)
Tell her that if she just does it once, she might enjoy it and if she doesn't, then she's allowed you to fulfill a fantasy of yours.
But, if she insists that is nasty, or gross, have a frank an open talk about why she feels this way. and don't buy the "I don't know" answer, because she DOES know why she feels this way. Or if you have to (no recommnded) barter with her. "If you allow me to have this sexual act with you, i'll do the dishes for a week/wash the car for a month/take you out to your fave place to eat/try to like you mom! (j/k!!)
good luck buddy
2007-02-22 01:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant get my wife to sit on my face either, or my chest, i told her after plucking up the courage for a month, that i wanted her to sit ontop of me in a park and pin me down for ages resisting all my efforts to unseat her, but she saild its silly......... but ive seen her sit on a couple of people she works with one guy and her friend ruth, and when she sat on the guy, she kept him pinned for ages while her work mates watched, but she wont do it to me !!!!!
2015-06-02 02:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that doing disgusting stuff is what marriage is all about.
2007-02-22 01:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's afriad you will want her to return the favor.
2007-02-22 01:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by redstripedmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie her up and sit her on your face.Its your right.
2007-02-22 01:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good one!
2007-02-22 01:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋