i am a married man of 14 years with two children (16, 2) and i am in love with a co-worker, who is in a self-described troubled, loveless marriage of one year. two days after she told him she wanted a separation, she went back to him because she felt he deserved another shot. she told me in person, and after we shared more than a few passionate kisses, she told me she loved me and that she hoped he'd screw up again just so she could come to me. i feel lost without her now, what should i do?
2007-02-22 01:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow that's so sad you are willing to screw your kids up and leave your WIFE for a woman who is married as well? you are a sad excuse for a man
2007-02-22 01:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a married man with children and you're having a tawdry affair with a co-worker who is also married. Shame on the both of you. You are about to toss away a family of 14 years for a woman who couldn't make it past a single year in her marriage. And you both know the other will cheat so if you did get together, you'd have to expect that to continue. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior and you two are running your marriages in the ditch. You feel lost without her? What you need to do is LOSE HER!! You need to go home to your wife and children and hope you still have a chance to show them you're a decent man because right now you sure aren't acting like one!
2007-02-22 09:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 and a two year old. You need to go solve your own problem.
Loveless. That's selfish on her part. 15-minutes of what you want every day (she doesn't have to do sex to do you) or she gets nothing (You don't do a camb thing pay for nothing -- I mean nothing. Move into her mother house and say your NOT coming home till things straighten up. Tell HER MOM, TELL EVERYONE.
A loveless marriage is bullshit and your kids desvere to have two parents. Now get to work -- you don't need to be banging no f'n bimbo.
2007-02-22 09:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What right do you have to hurt your wife's feelings? She's the one that stuck by you, not little miss bump and grind.
Your responsibility belongs with your family; the grass isn't always greener on the other leg.
2007-02-22 09:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aN EXCUSE TO GET OUT OF YOURS. yOU ARE THE CLASSIC CASE WHO WILL FIND THAT THE GRASS IS NOT GREENER.
2007-02-22 09:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by charlie girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋