Family & Relationships - 21 February 2007

2007-02-21 07:00:35 · 19 answers · asked by Lincoln n da house how u like me 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is always saying things to hurt me, but he says he doesn't intentionally mean to do it. For ex: this morning we got in an argument and he said, "People think im stupid for being with you." I took that the wrong way, but he says he didnt mean to say that. He does stuff like this all the time. His excuse is thats just the way I am, and I cant help it. I tell him all the time if you really love me you would stop saying those mean things to me, he says he will stop, but were back to the same crap again. He says that I should accept him for the way he is, but shouldn't he accept my feelings and how he is hurting me? What do you think?

BTW we been together for over 2 years, I would like to make this work between us.

2007-02-21 06:58:52 · 3 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Singles & Dating

Don’t worry about me
Just give me your hand, and don’t try to understand

life’s over rated, and oooh so complicated, yeah
fitting in your, square in a round world
your losing your grip, someday soon, sooner and sooner girl
your just gunna slip. ooooh and then what will your friends think about yoooou
oh whaaaat will they think about you?

Don’t worry about me,
just give me your hand, and don’t try to understand.

Spread your wings just to come crashing down
dooown down to the smashing ground dooown down

Baaabyyy, oooh sweet sweet baby
he aint worth your tears, you learn that over the years, yeah
the one you love wont make you cry, so some on girl get smart
and just dump this guy.
ohhh baby my sweet sweet baby



whatcha think

2007-02-21 06:57:43 · 3 answers · asked by d_asnightnday 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-21 06:56:45 · 23 answers · asked by fredsbeetles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My huband has never cheated on me or anything like that, but we have one major problem, he will not buck up and find a better job. Money is tight and it takes both of us working to pay the bills. I currently lost my job and the time that I have gotten to spend with my two year old has been wonderful. I don't have a babysitter anymore and I have worked everyday since I had her. Ican see a lot of improvment with her since I have been home. My husband has had a lot of oppretunitys of a better job, he has even turned down promotions withen his current job that would more than double our income. He has worked at the same job and the same position for almost ten years and its like he won't do anything to better himself. I have threatened to leave him, talked to him, cried I don't know what else to do. It's not that I don't care to work, but at this point in time it's almost impossible.

2007-02-21 06:56:24 · 15 answers · asked by jla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you had to ask your friend what they didnt like about you
then what would be some of the questions ?
example - do you like it when im immature ?

2007-02-21 06:55:34 · 7 answers · asked by elka l 1 in Friends

i have two boyfriend an almost three

2007-02-21 06:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-21 06:53:51 · 4 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this marriage doomed? Do I call of the wedding? Do I postpone the wedding? He is not cheating. We do have sex about once a week. What do I do? I gave him back my engagement ring tonight.

2007-02-21 06:53:49 · 48 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just seem like a nobody or am i being silly?? I dont no?? i lost the touch the nack to ask years ago..but never had it then anyway...can anyone give me some advice and no silly comments please..

2007-02-21 06:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Tiggy want's a bit..... 4 in Singles & Dating

i need to know because i want to be her friend but then agian no

2007-02-21 06:53:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a way that a priest can check to see if someone was married in the catholic church already?

2007-02-21 06:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by Lilac 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should be tending to your children and doing your jobs. I find that during the week day Y.A. is loaded w/super fast typing woman w/the same opinions and really good grammar..........Get back to work! Go ahead tell me I'm wrong.

2007-02-21 06:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by . 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're 25 years old and have known each other for 10 yrs. But we've only been dating for a month. I kicked my roommate out, so I have an opening. Should she move in, or is it too soon? I really love her and know her very well, so I don't feel like I'm rushing it too much.

2007-02-21 06:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by KC Slim 5 in Singles & Dating

Im in quite an akward position. My best friend and i really got to know each other on a school trip, we got really close. At the end of it i asked her out and she said yes. After a month she dumped me, as she SAID that she had to much going on in her life and couldnt comit to a relationship at the moment, she also said that she just woke up and decided she could cope. It has been 4 months and i just cant get over it! this is probably because my best male friend is now getting closer and closer to her and then really pisses me off because i think she i treating me really really wrongly and i dont think that it is fair. These 2 are in each others classes more than i am, they txt all the time...we used to txt all the time..now nothing! yes i admit im jealous. and yes i do still have feelings for this girl, but i duno what to do! im just not sure if shes playing with me, is she in love with my best m8 or what!!..i also think this is affecting my school work...i need help lol!

2007-02-21 06:51:39 · 1 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Friends

i've been in a mostly online relationship with a man now for over a year. i knew he had some odd ways, but he kept telling me he wanted to change. he is 50 years old, and takes care of his father, they share a house, but he dont have any relationship with him. he goes to work and spends the rest of the time in his room with the door shut. he even eats in there his take out food. he refuses to encourage a better relationship with his kids because he has a hearing problem and they dont speak loudly enough for him to hear. he also refuses to get a hearing aid too. i confronted him about this a few days ago and he says i dont understand him, and that my emails are all full of crap. i didnt expect this to happen when i metioned he call his daughter who is out of state on valentines day and i also suggested he take his dad out to eat. he said he would be happy if he never went out again. i thought i knew him, he makes me feel so wonderful when we are together, but now i'm wondering do i stay

2007-02-21 06:51:24 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my mom are sooo close. she's turning 50 this year and i want to do something special for her...i cant think of what would be nice for her!! she's really cool...likes to drink...likes comedy....help me think of some ideas please!!!!

2007-02-21 06:51:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yesterday my mom told me that my friend's mom told her who I liked. I figured that my friend must have told her mom my secret, but it seemed hard to believe. So I went online and told her that my mom found out. She said she never told her mom and I believed her. But then later that night I got an email from my friend. It said she was hurt and felt that I disrespected our friendship by thinking she would betray me. I think she is over reacting a bit because I was just asking her. I sent her like five emails sayign sorry and I know she is checking them because she's online, but she wont respond. I don't understand what's going on and didn't even think it would be somethign to get mad about. Advice please?
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2007-02-21 06:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by beatles luver 2 in Friends

When women are trying to lock a man down, it's endless pleasure. After the lock down, it's over. Why is that?

2007-02-21 06:50:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has been lying to me, i found out when i read his passport that he is a 2 yrs older than he originally said. I never thought to question it because i figured that he was honest, i mean you just dont lie about that for four whole years!!!! we have been through so much, and it never occured to him once to fess up. WHAT SHOULD I DO?, i'm so confused will it ever be the same?

2007-02-21 06:49:38 · 4 answers · asked by JamDQqueen 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and i got a divorce in 98 ( her ideal ) I still love her very much. She has gotten remarried but we have kids together so we see each other quiet often. She has even told me that she wishes now that she had tried to work everthing out. I would never be able to trust her again.When i married her it was until death do us part. Neither of us cheated on each other (as for as i know ) She just told me that she no longer loved me. I know i need to move on in my life and i feel i have to a point.But the feelings i have for her are still there.Am i truely wrong for feeling this way? Also we were married for 10 years.She was my bestfriend,wife,lover and the mother of my children.Thanks for your advice

2007-02-21 06:48:43 · 9 answers · asked by lawson403 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-21 06:48:28 · 9 answers · asked by Sunil K 1 in Singles & Dating

I am of the opinion that women read romance novels to help make up for the romance they lack from their men. How is this different from men viewing naked women or sex acts?

Or do you disagree with my view on romance novels?

2007-02-21 06:48:23 · 2 answers · asked by Martin Pedersen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

and don't know if the girl has a brain? can someone answer me.do men even care if she is smart enough to hold him down?

2007-02-21 06:47:47 · 19 answers · asked by MsDeelover 1 in Singles & Dating

Im looking for a job where i can stay home and have fun all day.

2007-02-21 06:47:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do they really take the workers common sense away why does a father have to see less of his daughter to provide for her when the lazy ex is a benefit fraud??? Catch 22 report her it affects daughter and hurts her don't will never recover to get own place because will be payin her??? Any ideas

2007-02-21 06:46:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the scenario:

- me and this guy have been good good good friends for about 2-3 years now - he's had this "thing" for me for a while now and i've never really noticed
- we've finally come to this point that we feel mutual about each other and we're falling for one another
- from what his actions/gestures tell me (and others), he really cares and adores me
- he respects me, my independence and space. I'm a really independent-minded person and i'm really focused into school right now and so is he
- i think this is his first time being "serious" or getting somewhere with a girl - he's a shy guy

We can go 2 or 3 days without any communication - talking to each other, no little calls, texts, messages ,etc... i understand we're both the same way in terms of our priorities and we're both very independent but...the fact that we can't even talk a little each day scares me and is making me think he might not be interested? Is it cuz he doesn't know what to do? or he's too busy?

2007-02-21 06:46:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have not been able to see my child since august of 05, not because i dont want to but only because when arrangements are set the mother fails to follow through, im not sure if i need to hire some expensive attorney or how to go about resolving this issue, there is no restraining order, there is only a court order, that gives her full legal custody and me joint legal, but i never hear anything from her any suggestions?

2007-02-21 06:45:58 · 8 answers · asked by krazy_k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me one time 6 months into our marriage. SHE told me because we were friends --- it was a year later. I've always caught him with pornography (completely against our religious beliefs). On occassion, he'll flirt with my best friend and I recently found out that they went running together one day when she was visiting us (when we lived across the country from her). Also, he'll flirt with girls in front of me. He says he doesn't know why he does this. I'm obsessively worried all the freaking time about whether he's doing the cheating thing again. He doesn't enjoy my conversation topics anymore and I can't get him to share anything about his life with me. I have always tried to be an attentive wife -- trying to meet his needs. We were best friends before we got married. What could have made it go so wrong? How can I trust him? We've been married 6 1/2 years now and these feelings of mistrust are still happening. What should I say to him?

2007-02-21 06:43:29 · 3 answers · asked by mandirae23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am trying to find an old friend and I am having a hard time trying to find him... I have tried reunion.com, myspace, facebook, and a whole lot of sites that come up when I put find person into yahoo search... I do not want to spend money on something that will not work, or the information may not be there.. Does anyone know of any way or any site that I can go to that does not cost money and works to find someone?
His name is Phillip Spencer, and he should be 24 or 25 years old now... He lived in Wesley Chapel, Florida

2007-02-21 06:41:47 · 10 answers · asked by stephanie2143 1 in Friends