i need to know because i want to be her friend but then agian no
2007-02-21 06:53:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it, been there done that. As long as she wasn't the one that ended your relationship with your Ex.
It may be awkward at first, but in know time at all you will forget about it.
The one person who should feel odd is the Ex. You to girls could get together and compare notes.
Good friends are hard to find, don't let this stop your friendship.
2007-02-21 07:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by DY Beach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its all about what you can handle and what you cant. I have had a problems with friends and guys for a long time and it made me form a pretty strong opinion on it. If you love someone, as a friend or boyfriend, then really do want nothing more then for them to be happy. I wouldn't stand in the way of 2 people I care about having the opportunity to be happy. Realize that whats done is done,hope for the best and they didn't do this to intentionally hurt you. things happen for a reason, and you will meet someone one day who is good for JUST YOU. And if you get really down in the dumps, remember you had him first, you've been there done that and ur moving on up!!!!!!! Good Luck, i know how you feel!!!
2007-02-21 07:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it really depends on the timing. How long did you date this guy? How soon was it that your friend swooped in? Do you still have feelings for this guy? If your friend jumped at the chance to be with this guy the moment you two were over, I'd say dump the friend. She doesnt seem to really value your friendship if she thinks that little of your feelings. But like i said, it all depends on the situation. If you want to be friends with her, ask yourself if you can handle being around and hearing about her relationship with your ex-bf.
2007-02-21 07:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by KnightLove18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it's a little cold that a friend would do that, but just continue 2 be her friend, there maybe a little chemistry there. Besides, he's your ex 4 reason, just try 2 be cool with it.
2007-02-21 07:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by raven22229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a "best friend" wouldn't be dating ANY of your exe's. That's almost a written law amongst girlfriends. There are so many guys in this world but somehow your ex is superior to them all and she NEEDED to start dating him????? WTF? Imagine what she thought of him when you WERE dating him.
I seriously think you need to re-evaluate your friendship. And yes I know friendship is first and no guy should ever come between best friends but DAMN! HE IS YOUR EX! Where's the respect????
2007-02-21 07:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't let your feelings stop your friends happiness. if you still have feeligns for your ex, then there is a problem. you need to talk to your friend about it. im sure she will understand. relationships aren't forever, but friends are.
2007-02-21 06:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile and wish them both good luck. If she is a true friend she would do the same for you.
2007-02-21 07:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Starshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious sit down face to face conversation with her, and your feelings about the situation.
2007-02-21 07:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by deus82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a HUGE no.. no! Friends don't date each other's exes. She's not a real friend.
2007-02-21 07:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by ayesham77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say good bye to her and move on to your real friends. If she can't respect you then she's not a friend.
2007-02-21 07:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋