My boyfriend is always saying things to hurt me, but he says he doesn't intentionally mean to do it. For ex: this morning we got in an argument and he said, "People think im stupid for being with you." I took that the wrong way, but he says he didnt mean to say that. He does stuff like this all the time. His excuse is thats just the way I am, and I cant help it. I tell him all the time if you really love me you would stop saying those mean things to me, he says he will stop, but were back to the same crap again. He says that I should accept him for the way he is, but shouldn't he accept my feelings and how he is hurting me? What do you think?
BTW we been together for over 2 years, I would like to make this work between us.
2007-02-21 06:58:52 · 3 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, don't fall for his lame a** excuses. I've been through this before, and I just don't understand how a guy thinks he can "down-talk" a lady in any kind of way. But I don't take that mess, so as soon as the disrespect starts coming... "Its Over". Aren't you tired of him putting you down... like hes some type of boss or something? It doesn't matter how many years you've been together... if he can't Love you and Honor you then it really isn't meant to be! You should end it with him, and make him feel stupid. I hope you do!
Good Luck!
2007-02-21 07:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this jerk...Do you actually believe you deserve to be treated this way? This happens because you ave allowed it to for so long. Sounds like it's just a game for him at this point.
Dump this Zero and find yourself a Hero.
2007-02-21 15:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he should respect you and it doesn't sound like he does. So I think you should move on.
2007-02-21 15:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋