Why do women stop finishing "THE JOB" after marriage?

Question

When women are trying to lock a man down, it's endless pleasure. After the lock down, it's over. Why is that?

Answer 1

Two things are happening here.

One, she's got you. So there's goes the effort involved in keeping you - no need since you just swore in front of everyone to stay no matter what. It's sort of an abuse of the promise you made - somewhat like the old "if you loved me, you'd [rob a bank, grow a third arm, whatever]."

The way we *should* look at a promise from someone else is "you promised to stay - and I will do everything I can to make you happy for saying that." But we don't. Both men and women are guilty of sort of undoing their belts a notch and relaxing once they are married.

The other, more frustrating thing going on is she is now revealing to you her *true* sex drive. She was faking it before you got married - frequency, intensity, enjoyment, all of the above - and now that you are *owned*, you get to see her real sex drive, which for many women is much less active than the act they put on before marriage.

It's a source of constant frustration for many married guys. You can't do her any more and if you cheat and do someone else you are a creep and she takes half your stuff. Hence the frustration. Again, over the years, from guys I know, have worked with, have played poker with, etc., I would say honestly 6 out of every 7 guys have this complaint. 15% don't, but 85% do. You are not alone, but that is little consolation. Sorry.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Some women feel that once the hunt is over and the prey is caught then what's the use? Don't become a victim.

Answer 4

Don't Know, my friends and I have trying to figure that one out as well. Women are impossible after marriage.

Answer 5

why do you guys give up on romancing us. it's the little things that mean so much to us like little notes, or flowers, or even the times when you make us feel like we are the only ones in the world. i think that it's a 2 way street, we need to keep up the romance and tender loving care we show for each other when we are dating. it's all about keep things like new in a relationship. and remember to share things with her like your feelings.

Answer 6

Hmm, if you're talking sex. Sex with my wife is better now than it was in the beginning. I've been with her for 31 years.

Answer 7

i have no idea, im not married, but thats funny. This is what i have to look forward too when i get married. im a female.

Answer 8

Cuz the game is over and she won!

Answer 9

You married the wrong woman.

Answer 10

Because we figure we've already got u. If you marry us we think "he's not going anywhere..he's mine now."