He has been lying to me, i found out when i read his passport that he is a 2 yrs older than he originally said. I never thought to question it because i figured that he was honest, i mean you just dont lie about that for four whole years!!!! we have been through so much, and it never occured to him once to fess up. WHAT SHOULD I DO?, i'm so confused will it ever be the same?
2007-02-21 06:49:38 · 4 answers · asked by JamDQqueen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can understand your agony.. i mean, it's 4 years! age! well, its good to have a talk with him about it before you decide what to do.. maybe he didn't think it was necessary to clarify it with you since, like what you said, you guys have been through so much.. it could be that he didn't expect you to take it to heart.. well, do talk to him.. it'll be good to know what was he thinking.. and look on the brighter side, it would have been worse if he lied about other things..
2007-02-21 07:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had to have thought at one time you might get a glimpse of his drivers, license, ID card, Passport, or something personal that might show his age. As awkward as it seems, you do need to ask him about it. But be open-minded. It's not like he lied about his whole life... just his age. He didn't really betray you. There could be many factors as to why he lied in the beginning, and why the truth never came out. Just ask him why he did and be settled with his answer. You can't push the issue because if it's only his age, it's not that big a deal. They say "Age ain't nothin' but a number." Good luck!
2007-02-21 15:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's not that big a deal, I wouldn't think.
Hell, my wife lied to me about having a four year degree for 31 years. She told me she only had an associate's degree and I found out last year she had a bachelor's degree. When we first started dating she didn't want to "scare me away" because she had a degree and I was still working on mine (like I would have cared).
2007-02-21 14:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see one cockroach you can be sure there's more.
2007-02-21 14:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by sugarcarat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋