Do they really take the workers common sense away why does a father have to see less of his daughter to provide for her when the lazy ex is a benefit fraud??? Catch 22 report her it affects daughter and hurts her don't will never recover to get own place because will be payin her??? Any ideas
2007-02-21 06:46:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NOT i don't want to pay just feel agrieved she literally got everythin in break up except the debts. Only reason never gone the whole courts route is for my daughter whenever needs anythin i get it for her
2007-02-21 09:54:52 · update #1
Some women seem to use the CSA as a type of benefit fraud, they know the guys don't try for custody and so will get their maintenance money, sad but true.
I've been there, worked hard, the more money you get, the more money the CSA give away. Us guys need to provide a home too for our kids when they visit, children need fathers.
My kids eventually decided to come live with me. At that point their mum packed in work and has never paid a penny towards them.
Stick with it, it will feel like your being ripped off but do whats right for your daughter and it'll come good.
2007-02-21 10:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to rain on your parade guys! BUT you are not paying for her you are paying for your daughter!!!! I have to pay for a 3 bed house because I have my 2 kids with me, I also pay for their food, clothing, heating, water, toys and furniture. While my ex is living it large driving in fancy cars clothes etc. He pays me a whole £42 a week, you absent parents gotta get real. It will be a damn sight harder for her to live than you. I can't even afford to learn how to drive and I work! Oh and I would report her, they would only take so much off her to pay it back and they would take your daughter into consideration whe deciding that.
2007-02-21 17:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cash Sapping Ar ses!
2007-02-21 15:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
phone the fraud people and report her (anonymously). Insist on having your daughter on alternate weekends and a reduction of payment.
2007-02-21 15:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cash Stealing Ar**h***s.....Why not e mail benefits and tell them.. Its every tax payers money shes stealing.. But csa try and claim it back from you.
2007-02-21 16:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by kiddvillian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you, im in the same boat, no wonder men dress as batman and robin and robin and hang off buildings.
2007-02-21 19:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no Cranky Shower of A.s.s.**
2007-02-21 14:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋