Yesterday my mom told me that my friend's mom told her who I liked. I figured that my friend must have told her mom my secret, but it seemed hard to believe. So I went online and told her that my mom found out. She said she never told her mom and I believed her. But then later that night I got an email from my friend. It said she was hurt and felt that I disrespected our friendship by thinking she would betray me. I think she is over reacting a bit because I was just asking her. I sent her like five emails sayign sorry and I know she is checking them because she's online, but she wont respond. I don't understand what's going on and didn't even think it would be somethign to get mad about. Advice please?
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2007-02-21 06:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by beatles luver 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is obvious that you were doing something that you shouldn't have been and your friend saw that and told her mother because your dear friend was worried about you...because your friend wanted to save you from something and had no clue on how to help you, she told her mother.
Just be grateful that your friend had deep concerns about you...God knows what trouble you may have gotten into. You should be thankful towards your friend...yes you probably got into a lot of sh!t from your own mother, but hell....you deserved it!!! Just be grateful that your dead body was not found in a local lake...
2007-02-21 07:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think based on what you wrote, you should have continued your relationship. The person that you claim is your friend? Well, to start with, you are opposites and maybe it's just that you balance each other that you think of her as friend. That's cool if it works for you. The problem is that she has a jealous heart, is a liar (worse than that a hypocrite), and mean spirited. She may have hoped that the guy felt more for her than just "best friends" but he doesn't. He likes you and I can see why. Her mentally is that if she can't have him she doesn't want you to either. She should have been honest with you and told you that she liked him and wanted to be more than just friends instead of leading you on to think that she would put in a good word for you. Had she done that, based on your actions now, you would have not flirted with him and avoided this drama. Explain the situation to him and that in breaking up with him you were trying to be a friend. Whether you and him get back together or not, understand this, Ms. Thang is not a friend and you will have to consider your future trust level in her concerning anything. Be Blessed
2016-05-24 03:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she knows your right and she lied and feals sorry and she probley thinks the only way to get over it was getting mad at you so that you get repesct. If I was you I'd probley be very mad at her becuase it isn't your fault and a friend shouldn't go all crazy over stupid stuff like that. :)
2007-02-23 15:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your friend did tell her mom and her and her mom got into it because she felt betrayed that her mom told your mom so now she don't know what to do she'll(friend) get over it just sit back and relax she'll come around
2007-02-21 07:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkinbugaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to stop making everything about her...don't be sorry.
2007-02-21 07:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really anit that serous, u right. dat is not anything to get mad over
2007-02-21 06:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by mandy iz a cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is over reACTing.
2007-02-21 07:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by lalalalalalalalala23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋