Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

Basiclly, I have a friend here that I see as my best friend, there are time, in the way he acts that I think he likes me more than a friend, but I know he's not looking for a girlfriend right now, but he wants one all the same. Go figure.... Im 23 and have a crush...lol.... We've been friends since 2004, and now i'm really falling for him. But I dont want to ruin the friendship that we do have. I dont know.... He's everything thing I want in a guy and then some...

2007-02-16 01:21:24 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Friends

is it good to tell a guy you like them if you dont know them very well, or would you think they are a stalker [i'm not]

2007-02-16 01:21:02 · 9 answers · asked by jemima ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

He has the habit of talking bad about other people, and to complain about little things, I find it anoying because I dont think is not nice to put people down behind their backs or to look at the tiny little things taht arent importan, we could use that time to do positive things, Ive told him how I feel and he gets angry, so Ive made the decision to just get out of the house to walk and relax or do something positive for myself. But I wish he could understand that his company when he is so negative is not pleasant and that it just makes a bad environment at home.

2007-02-16 01:18:32 · 15 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but you don't feel the same what actions would you use to get your message across without hurting her feelings

2007-02-16 01:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 01:17:57 · 27 answers · asked by cocopopoman 1 in Singles & Dating

why do boys like it

2007-02-16 01:17:36 · 22 answers · asked by ibs 4 in Singles & Dating

So your friends purposely hurt you and two days later you want to talk to them but they act like kids. First time you ask if you can talk to them they're like "no that's ok"

Second time they just shut off the phone

Third time they answer and say "If you call again I'm calling the cops"

Before the first call initiated by you, they called and hung up. You called them back and they said they dialed the wrong number.

So you don't call them anymore because you don't want the cops involved. So if you ever do call them again it'd be considered stalking or what?

2007-02-16 01:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She sleeps like a log - not even a nuclear bomb can wake her up... So sometimes I sneak out and go party with buddies and return in the morning. Do you think it is ok to do this or is it morally wrong?!

2007-02-16 01:16:09 · 35 answers · asked by Rona9 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am posing this question because this was asked by a guy who is having sex problems in his marriage and he had no idea why women bring up the subject of chores in regards to sex. I agree with the women. You see guys, when a guy is sitting around watching sports or whatever it is you aren't doing, women are doing it. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids, etc. We get tired and frustrated. We work too. My ex's excuse was he was working 70 hours a week. Well, I was working 50 hours a week and another 30 hours a week at home. I couldn't even get him to take out the garbage. This led to a serious decline in our sexual relationship. I was exhausted and angry that he would never help. And, it wasn't that I was withholding to get back at him. It was the fact that there was nothing left in me. So, now I find it, in an odd way, a turn on when my boyfriend is mopping the kitchen floor or cooking dinner. Agree or disagree?

2007-02-16 01:15:54 · 10 answers · asked by Groovy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Since Valentines Day...i had called my boyfriend. Yesterday i called him once, i thought he'd call me back. Happens that i was wrong. Ever since me and him been together (which is like 2 weeks-yesterday) he would return my calls when i called him and he wouldn't pick up, cuz either his phone was off, or, his phone was on vibrate, and he was sleeping or even at work. (these aren't made up excuses...i know my boyfriend) so...since Valentines Day of calling him 3 different times...i got no call back, and yesterday i call him, he still didn't return my calls. And i'm wondering what is up and why excatly he isn't picking up or calling back.
Now that i had came to it...either i break up with him, or i stay with him...im not sure now.
P.S. one time like 5 days ago he sent me a message on myspace that that said on the subject line "Hey babe."

2007-02-16 01:15:45 · 7 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Why doesn't a man just take me out and get to know me. Is there any man that really want to get to know a woman so the relationship isn't just based on sex. It seems like once I give in. The men I date wants it the first thing before we go out. Is it best just to hold back but let him know that yes I like you sexually but I just don't want him to be blinded just on that.

2007-02-16 01:15:10 · 19 answers · asked by tannya 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 01:15:07 · 5 answers · asked by carol s 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 2 years younger than me,his parents are not accepting this.My parents will never accept the relationship,they don't know the age difference,but for many other reasons.They have high expectation about my marriage,so I have stopped convincing them.Whatever we have to do, that has to be done against my family members.I'm mentally prepared for
it.Earlier,he was also very determined and desperate to go against his parents,but now he wants their approval & blessings.His mother always applies emotions on him to convince him.Still he is trying his best.Both of us are doing jobs & financially independent & happy with our jobs.But, now he fears that, if he marries me withour his parent's approval, then he'd lose them forever,which he doesn't want to.But, I love him deeply & we have a bit of physical relationship which has made me more emotional & I have started considering him as my husband.At any cost, I don't wanna lose him.Now he needs some time.Can he marry me ever?

2007-02-16 01:15:02 · 10 answers · asked by ani d 1 in Weddings

2007-02-16 01:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 01:13:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat qualities or things do u like most about a girl and u would ask her out?

2007-02-16 01:13:02 · 5 answers · asked by ciara 1 in Singles & Dating

When my lover moved in with me, I was upset that he never put the toilet seat down, so I confronted him and he said "you don't leave it up for me!" And I was thinking, "well I'm a woman you should put the seat down!" But he pulled the feminism card and I am a feminist or trying to be and since it's just me and him and I never put the seat up for him. We agreed. Who ever uses it last leaves the toilet as it was used, but flushed hopefully! Equal rights. I know, it's just a small thing, but what do you prefer? I'm curious.

If you have children or whatever, do you go with the majority genders preference?

2007-02-16 01:12:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to give wedding goers an experience. One of those, "remember that one wedding" ordeals. We are thinking about doing it up in the mountains and renting out a bunch or cabins and doing the ceremony on the grounds.

What is a creative reception? Anything from decor, favors, theme ect.

2007-02-16 01:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i ended my 6 year relationship 8 months ago. my ex was contolling, sometimes violent and had bad gambling problems.

will i ever find love again???

2007-02-16 01:10:38 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My godfather gave me a lot of Christmas presents and brought with him his nephew, and I like the presents and the nephew, too! He is such a cutie, and he shelled all these nuts for me - pistachios, and walnuts, and peanuts, and helped me with the Christmas tree, and everything went ok, and I thought that he
was falling for me, too, but then mice appeared, and he is allergic
to mice, and I had to throw slippers at the mice to let them go away.
Now I am not sure if he stays with me, because of all these micein my parents' house.
I'd like him to.
I like him a lot.
Clara Marie Stahlbaum.
I am German.

2007-02-16 01:10:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend werent talking to each other for a few days not even on valentines day. but i have been talking to this other guy. me and this other guy arent trying to have a serious realationship, but we both like each other. me and my boyfriend always fight but have been going out for a long time. i want to break it off but it is soo hard. i get along with my friend so much better and we have known each other for a long time now and we always laugh. what should i do. stay with a boyfriend and be unhappy here happy here or be single. keep in mind me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for 7 years and for the past year and couple of months straight, but things are not working that good.

2007-02-16 01:10:13 · 12 answers · asked by i got excitement in my life 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been wanting to get married since our freshman year of high school. Now that we are seniors in high school about to graduate also with a child is it possible we could get married in another state and come back to our home state or something?

2007-02-16 01:10:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just had a break up what do i do in order to move on and not give any other chances for a guy that made me fell like crap. (i gave him a lot of chances and i'm just tired)

2007-02-16 01:09:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Though the situation is kinda complicated.They've known eachother for like 4-5 years and it was 3 years ago or so when they used to go out, thing that only lasted for 4-5 months, when they realised it's not working so they both agreed on being just friends.She's from England, we're in Germany.She could come over for 2-3 days and it's all gonna be like a good-bye, cuz we're gonna move pretty far away from Europe.She doesn't know me, but she does know about me.He didn't insist on her coming, he just wants to know my sincere opiniong about this and he asked me about it today.
He said he'd like to see her again, but he's not gonna cry if that's not gonna happen.It's mainly my decission.
What should I do?I do trust him, it's just the fact that they did go out, even for a few months,3 years ago.(obviously sex was involved)I'm tempted to say that it's ok.
Would that be a mistake?I really need a lot of opinions.

2007-02-16 01:09:14 · 10 answers · asked by Luminita 1 in Friends

I got a new screen name and contacted my boyfriend with it. He really thought I was some other girl who contacted him from an old dating site he had been on. He arranged to meet me for coffee. Of course I did not show up. I guess it is over but I have not let on yet and he phones regularly declaring his love for me. This was not a good thing for me to have done because now I mistrust him completely. I guess there is no salvage and I should move on. Still it is hard to do and I guess need some direction to get over the hurt. Has anyone been in a similar situation?

2007-02-16 01:08:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I date a mexican and I'm white. We love each other but my grand-paw dosen't approve. He wants me to date a white boy.
HELP!!!!!

2007-02-16 01:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by <3aDrUmMeR 1 in Family

im persian and my boyfriend is ginger. will are children be dark or ginger? i got told that dark genes take over the lighter ones but is this true???

2007-02-16 01:05:14 · 11 answers · asked by meoi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 01:04:18 · 4 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 01:04:03 · 35 answers · asked by lil weezy 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this ex boyfriend of mine...about a year ago i broke up with him and this year we started greeting each other again making me feel that he has moved on already which is good but about a few weeks later when my friends and i are walking we sa him wit this girl. My friends and i all saw him the he also saw us to. I got somehow nervous or shocked or panic or something so i didn't greet him. After that, whenever i see him and look at him as if i am going to greet him, he seems to avoid me. Since then i've been thinking about him everyday! I've read in a magazine that it normal for smeone to remember his or her ex once a week..but me?...can smeone tell me what i'm really feeling? And can someone tell me what could be going inside his head that he is ignoring me?

2007-02-16 01:03:38 · 4 answers · asked by natasha 1 in Singles & Dating