Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

My husband because we are not legally divorce we have been seperated for four years. He has not paid me any child support other then maybe $100 dollars here and there. He has a drug addiction. I have never gone after him because it was just to much time and I had to work. So basically I worked a lot of hour and a lot of over time to take care of my 3 kids however in november of 2005 I got sick I started having epilepsy attacks I have been on medical leave from my job now for 4 months because I am on all kinds of medication to see if they can control them. However I need to get child support from him now I am behind on my rent. and I am afraid to file my taxes because every year he claims the kids then I have to fight with the irs and it is always a big mess. I really need to locate him and all these web sites trying to help you cost a lot if money. Please can someone help. His name is Eric Duque so if anyone knows anything please let me know.

2007-02-16 02:07:32 · 4 answers · asked by Mirtha D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where to start from? I still love him so much... I still very attractive to him sexually... We have a cultural collapse. He is Mexican and I'm Ukrainian. We have a son. Seven years together... Always fight.... verbally. I have family based cultural shock and so... much stress that my hair turning white..He is never happy. I have said Sorry so many times I'm feeling gilty or not.. I'm so exosted because I tried so hard to be what he want me to be. First it was 6 years of jellosy from his side and I was felling offendet because I though I love him can he see. He need new proof every day. I even have baby in some part because to proof him I want to be with him all my life. He said " have a baby with me if you love me" and I did. I have a son tnat I ALWAYS want.. Did he was satisfy with the proof..NO He find something else every day..We don't smile a lot because for the most part he does not undestand the meanning of my joks and I do not und.. his- pretending that I do... I want to be happy with him But I can't because we grow in differnt Countries. And I feel it in every aspect of our life... Now it is my turn to be jellos. I feel as he far away from me. I feel he love me... but it is different no passion, no interest.. In this Valentine Day he bring me a flowers.I said with the smile "I though I'll bring something to salabrate" and he said"For what?" My day was broken and day after that.. I feel I don't care anymore what he said. Whatever. I was pushed away so many times.. Now, I would brackup if I don't love him, if I don't have son, and if I would't be affraid to find somethig worse...At least he never lied to me!!! or was unfaithfull. So I'm. He just don't want to belive. There is so many questions I could ask.. what are you think of it.Anyone has expirience something simmular? What is it ? Sorry for the misspellings.

2007-02-16 02:07:21 · 6 answers · asked by iryna1974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive got this friend who ive known for a long time, in the last year or so we prob have not spoke as much but have always jus been friends! but lately when he's been out drinkin he always rings me and texts me alot more lately! all my friends thinks he likes me but i dont think he does. we went out for a drink on valentines an wot i thought would be a group of us turned out to me an him! nothin romance happened.
wot do u reckon?

2007-02-16 02:06:26 · 16 answers · asked by babypink_2 2 in Singles & Dating

How do i tell him i like him but i always get embarrassed when i do it ... i have like no way of telling him that i like him...HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-02-16 02:06:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OKay I recently got out of a 9 month relationship

my first everything and I was his.

we've been fighting constantly this past 2 months and we broke on the 10th. we played the bff role for two days.

he came back form theraphy because he's an emotional wreck and called me on monday saying he doesnt even wanna be friends
because he still loves me, he is attracted to me, and will be jealous, and he says he thinks we'll back together and history will repeat it self







PROBLEM: HE TOLD ME NOT TO CALL HIM TILL NEXT WEEK. it's been 4 days and im going INSANE! should i seriously wait till the week and call him? and if i do what do i say to him when the week kis up?

2007-02-16 02:06:14 · 19 answers · asked by PrettySureItsThis 1 in Singles & Dating

I am extremely past due for some s-e-x. I am in a long distance relationship, and we have been having a few problems. we are meeting tonight to talk and as bad as I am going to want to be with him, I don't want to give in, but at the same time I NEED IT!!! what am I supposed to do?

2007-02-16 02:05:50 · 8 answers · asked by precious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:05:03 · 3 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

people might think this question is a little wierd but i have been thinking alot about this the past few days a dear friend died on tues aged 40 leaving her dad husband and children behind without saying bye . they all went out came back and found her dead. 40 isnt old and i know younger people die every day but what do you want do to before you did and do you belive we go somewhere after this lfe?

2007-02-16 02:04:04 · 22 answers · asked by kerry t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In some of the answers Im getting, people are thinking Im some teen. Im an adult and a 30 yr old male (who has a degree for the person who said finish school), I think Im too old for the "Oh Im interested in you and I miss your voice" to "we been friends for so long I think of you as a brother and best friend" If your not interested in me, tell me.

2007-02-16 02:03:47 · 4 answers · asked by null 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont follow my heart..I use my head all the time..
and abit from my heart.

2007-02-16 02:03:01 · 12 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:02:44 · 15 answers · asked by skater chick 3 in Singles & Dating

I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT EXACTLY DO GUYS WANT FROM A WOMAN SO THAT U CAN BE THE ONLY LOVE OF HIS LIFE . I HAVE SEEN SO MANY CIRCUMSTANCES WHERE BY A WOMAN IS DOING EVERYTHING FOR A GUY LIKE RENTING A FLAT OR BUYING A HOUSE , PAYING FOR THE BILLS , LOOKING AFTER THE KIDS, COOKING ,CLEANING, BUT STILL THEY GO OUT AND DATE OTHER GIRLS . I DONT KNOW OR ITS TO BE GREADY.

2007-02-16 02:02:25 · 2 answers · asked by NUNU 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been sleeping for a hundred years, and now I am awakened. I need a shower, I need to change my clothes, I need to brush my hair and to clean my teeth! But he keep squeezing me, kissing me and whispering something about love! And he won't let me go!
Sleeping beauty

2007-02-16 02:02:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last nite I met up with a guy that I've been seeing, we met in a place that I was not familiar with (distance etc). On my way back home, I got lost and was really nervous I called him and he told how to get back home safely. But I was really nervous and called him again....this time he didnt answer my call. I was very nervous I didn't know what to do. Well I got home safely, but while I was trying to get home safely he didnt even call or anything. I had to txt him saying thx for ignoring his call. I got really mad at him for not even calling to see how i was doing. Am i right being mad at him???

2007-02-16 02:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ARE YOU A JEALOUS PERSON ???
DO YOU GET JEALOUS OF YOUR FAMILY & BEST FRIENDS good fortune & good luck??

2007-02-16 02:02:00 · 3 answers · asked by cookieazz 3 in Friends

to me commitment is being somewhere simply because you want to be...no commitment can be greater than that...no expectations or obligations...just the freedom to be yourself where you want to be when you want to be..............and love is an energy between 2 people...each person you love is different to the last because your connection is different and is neither exclusive to one person nor the same for different people...;0)

so what is your idea of commitment and love?

2007-02-16 02:01:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this chick. I started to talk to her alot on the phone. I started to run some game. I kept her at arms reach and played lil games after I opened her heart up to me. She was goin crazy and threw her phone an all kinds a crap when I made her mad. I told her she was buggin and dont talk to me any more. Then cut her off for like 3 days. She called one day and I finally picked up. I brought up the subject of sex. She told me how she only had sex one time when she was real young all and it was a bad experience. I said aw and said she doesnt have to be scared with me. She came to my room the same night and I showed her a good time. The next day I had sex another girl i knew for a while cuz she was moving away. Then after that I went out of town to the hotel with my friend with benifits. Later on I left all of em for my now ex fiance. The 1st chick called me a dog an tried to mess up my rep but it made me more popular. I wasnt "with her" anymore when we had sex though. An I a dog???

2007-02-16 02:01:26 · 13 answers · asked by EasyMoney 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i am with my boyfriend and his youynger brother bursts in all the time and we hardly ever get any time alone together. his mum hass talked to him but he still does it. i havnt got lock on my room. does anyone know how we can jam the door closed of a way of keeping him out? (it is a door with a knob) plz answer! xxxxxxxxxxxxx

2007-02-16 02:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-16 02:00:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:00:23 · 9 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

I just wondered...

2007-02-16 02:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by Woldie L 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm on the west coast she is on the east coast with family. she just past away this morning. I didn't want to go see her suffer so i didn't rush to her death bed. but i was caled and told that she had past. I'm happy for her she is in a better place and i fell relived about that..

2007-02-16 02:00:02 · 14 answers · asked by bobnobster 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think it's just a phase and she will come to her senses. Should I wait for her. What else can I do to make her see that she belongs with me.

2007-02-16 01:59:58 · 21 answers · asked by Scotty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its going to be on saturday 31st march in central london...

so, who would it be?

2007-02-16 01:59:51 · 7 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm really really freaked out...im a 16 year old male and the worst thing that could've happened to me did. my mom walked in on me while i was "playing with myself" this morning. she saw everything, i didn't hear her. i was lieing on the bed, pants at my ankles, going at it full force. she walked in, was startled, and said, "oh my god" and quickly walked back out and closed the door. we obviously didnt talk about it at all yet. i dont know if i'll ever be able to look her in the eyes again im sooo embarrassed. any advice on how i can go on living (sarcastic of course but this is really really bad!!)

2007-02-16 01:59:41 · 5 answers · asked by phil j 1 in Family

how to recognize

2007-02-16 01:59:28 · 1 answers · asked by alex a 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is a really popular girl at my school and I want to tell her that everyone actualy hates her without hurting her too much what do I do?

2007-02-16 01:59:00 · 17 answers · asked by peace 2 in Friends

2007-02-16 01:58:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when it seems like you're at the bottom of the well, with no ladder to climb back up? Who do you look to and why?

2007-02-16 01:58:29 · 7 answers · asked by Katie N 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-16 01:58:18 · 8 answers · asked by Drazen K 1 in Singles & Dating