Ok there is a really popular girl at my school and I want to tell her that everyone actualy hates her without hurting her too much what do I do?
2007-02-16 01:59:00 · 17 answers · asked by peace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't because its none of your business. If you don't express your personal opinion to this person she won't get hurt, and won't hurt you.
As someone else already mentioned, how could she be popular if everyone actually hates her?
2007-02-18 19:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by jodneko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not tell her anything. It will only appear that you are jealous of her popularity. She doesn't need you to tell her a thing. Do you really think you can tell someone they are hated without hurting them? It can't be done. Leave her alone and worry about your own popularity or how many people really hate you.
2007-02-16 10:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you care about hurting her do you like her? If so just be her friend and don't tell her. But you can't tell someone everyone hates thems as it is a hurtful thing in itself, how do you know everybody hates her?
If somehow you know its true then in this situation maybe ignorance is bliss. Also if you did tell her and it turns out people really do like her or pretend to then it could backfire on you much worse.
2007-02-16 10:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's popular, then people don't actually hate her. Now do they?
What I think you mean is that SOME people have told you they hate her.
There is no way to tell a person that others hate them, without hurting feelings. Or making her hate you. Or making the people you've ratted out hate you.
Keep quiet. In time, if people are avoiding her, she'll figure it out.
2007-02-16 10:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she be really popular if everyone hates her? It sounds like you're JEALOUS of the attention she gets. What would you really gain by telling her 'everyone hates you'? It would make you feel better than her?
You need to focus on yourself, and not worry about the 'right way' to be a ***** to someone. Grow up hon.
2007-02-16 10:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not easy. Think about it....
She doesn't know that people hate her
She thinks she is popular......
If you approach her and simply tell her " Nobody likes you" her reaction will probably be "Your just Jealous"
So, maybe try hanging out with her like coffee or something that you 2 can do to sit and talk.
Just tell her that people (don't say who) have been saying things like they don't really like you.
That's about the best you can do. Tell her that you are trying to help and not trying to stick it to her. Maybe you want to tell her that you still like her and want to be her friend. If that is what you want.
2007-02-16 10:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by candy192111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emm...she won't get too hurt if you tell her that...if you are saying that she's really popular, how can she believe that everyone hates her...she will assume it is out of jealousy and that will make her even more big-headed...
2007-02-16 10:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her live in the imaginary world she has created.Do u want her to be ur friend??If not then dont do that and if yes what are u waiting for?Just say it and tell her that this is what u have observed.Now it will be upto her whether she accepts the truth or ignores it.
2007-02-16 10:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point in wanting to tell her in the first place? Do you want to see the anguish on her face when you tell her or something? Just forget about it and concentrate on your own life.
2007-02-16 10:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not a friend of yours, I would just stay out of it. There is no sense in adding any unnecessary drama to high school. I'm sure there is enough already!
2007-02-16 10:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by Summer 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋