I think it's just a phase and she will come to her senses. Should I wait for her. What else can I do to make her see that she belongs with me.
2007-02-16 01:59:58 · 21 answers · asked by Scotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is not what I wanted to here. I am very upset. I don't know what I'm going to do.... Thanks for trying...
2007-02-16 03:50:32 · update #1
Whether its a phase or not...she is still leaving you!...move on!
2007-02-16 02:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ŗεŋεε 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your wife leaves you for another man you can wait for her
and the chances she will come to her senses and get out
of the phase is pretty damb good
but if your wife leaves you for another woman
better look for anothe wife..she is not belong to you anymore
i think there is a very different chemistry regarding
same sexess must be on their pillow talk or their much better understanding to each other
something of a stronger bond or something more erotic
so just say bye bye sweetheart and start looking
2007-02-16 10:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She's a lesbian, maybe for a phase, maybe permanantly. It's not your fault. But the truth is, if she's ready to leave you for this woman, that means that they're already together. If she would be unfaithful once, she would do it again, even if you could convince her to stay. You'll never be able to trust her again, so you should let her go. It seems like from this point forward, the relationship can only do you harm. That is my unprofessional opinion.
2007-02-16 10:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by derelicthypotheses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You can't say or do anything to make her want you. Even if it's just a phase, she left you once she may leave you again. No one belongs to anyone. All you can do is get on with your life.
2007-02-16 10:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Ask to join. I don't mean this as a joke, but if you can incorporate this in your relationship, maybe your wife will be more willing to stay because of your openness.
2. If that don't work, ask to do to counseling.
3. If she insist on leaving, let her go peacefully. If it is a phrase, she will be more willing to come back to understanding than to strife.
4. If you love her that much, make sure she knows that she can come back when she is ready.
5. Don't stop living because of her. If she goes, then you start enjoying life also. If it was meant to be, it will happen and that is a true statement.
2007-02-16 10:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Michael b 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just be glad shes not leaving you for some prick that just wants to spread his seed around! I know it sucks but could be alot worse. And yes she will regret it.
2007-02-16 10:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
phase i think not. did you know alot about her and her past b4 you got with her? don't push the issue with her, just let her go if it is meant to be for u and her she will be back.
2007-02-16 11:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by souither b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that at least she's not on the "down low" and has been up front with you.
If she's leaving, there's not much you can do if she has her mind made up.
2007-02-16 11:32:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is leaving you for another women, you aint got a chance. It means that you don't and won't have what she wants/needs.
2007-02-16 10:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She's made her decision, and you must move on. I wouldn't wait for her, go find someone that deserves you. Good luck!
2007-02-16 10:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋