Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

Their house was almost foreclosed on. My husband told them he would help them till it was caught up but afterwards they have to sell the house. At first they agreed but now their changing their minds. My husband and I both work 60 hours or more a week just to save up for a house,pay our bills and save for a car. They already owe my husband $10,000.00. This situation is making my husband crazy he can't sleep well,he doesn't eat right,and he's stressed all of the time. Whenever my husband tries to talk with them they change the subject or say they can't talk. What do we do?

2007-02-16 02:29:41 · 25 answers · asked by Melody Z 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-16 02:29:26 · 21 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:29:04 · 22 answers · asked by magictongue1967 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It is not like she is fighting with me or something..infact i used to talk to hera lot..but now i am realising what a ***** she is..what a selfish thing she is...i was always there to listen to her stories when sher was down..but you know what i cant ever expect antyhing out of her...not even a new year's wish..i wished her happy valentins and she didnt even reply to my msg...she called me one day telling me that she is rteally low and all andf i talked her out of it..but when the next day when i msgd her to ask how she is feeling she didnt even reply to my msg coz probably she was feeling great..she only calls me when she is on trouble...but never does when she is feeling alright..i really dont wana talk to her and am really irritt\ated by that ho...tell me how to get rid of her a--

2007-02-16 02:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by Hummingbird 1 in Friends

2007-02-16 02:28:36 · 9 answers · asked by Veruca Salt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-16 02:28:23 · 9 answers · asked by mrs.new_major_07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I honestly don't think I can do this anymore....My b-friend broke up with me a week ago and even though this is the 3rd time in 3 years...for a couple of months at a time...I feel like I've lost my soul mate....I honestly don't think there is anyone out there that is better then him and I loved everythiong about him....how do you have hope that I'll ever be happy without him?

2007-02-16 02:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i went with this guy for a long time we even got physical but i broke up with because his ex before me lived next door to him and at times i would think he would still mess around with her but he would swear to me he didnt so i just couldnt trust hium and now i regret leaving him and its been about 2 months and i still love him to death but he sort of hates me and so i dont know how to tell him i still love him. HELP ME

2007-02-16 02:27:01 · 14 answers · asked by sexy_latina 1 in Singles & Dating

How can i get my mum to love me more because she loves the cat more... all because the cat is birman...i no my mum loves me but she gives the cat more attension...please give me ideas on how to get her to pay more attension and to love me more ... xxx

2007-02-16 02:26:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all i object to the term ABSENT FATHER . Should not it be " Desperate father , willing to see his children ,prevented by the judiciary failing to uphold a fathers and childrens rights.
Dont blame us , blame your b------- selves .
Fathers have long since tried to maintain fair rights to have contacts with their children only the present and past denial of the courts to ensure Fathers have these rights result in mothers unable to control the children . I am insensensed with the accusation that we FATHERS are now bearing the brunt of the Governments excuse for crimes in our society, Give me my childrens hearts and minds anyday, You and only you caused the problem in your nonsupportive contacts with the children. Magistraites and high court judges in your non- wisdom brought about the issues that face us today. ABSENT FATHERS INDEED WE ARE NOT.

2007-02-16 02:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by katrinasfather 3 in Singles & Dating

this girl @ school I think looks cute and she is very athletic and is pretty smart. so girls would it be fun if a guy written you a note in a certain code or cipher with the key?

2007-02-16 02:26:20 · 7 answers · asked by Welvis 1 in Singles & Dating

because it would embarrass him. And i know that the next time i see him i won't be able to look at him the same way. i still like him alot but i don' t know what to do. I feel like a chicken with my head cut off. please help me

2007-02-16 02:26:16 · 20 answers · asked by autumn donn 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if this is just me,but are girls wearing cloths that show off the cleavage,breast,nipps and your A@@ more these days. And if you think that guys are pigs for always looking, why wear something that shows everything you have. For the girls with big b--bs do you wear things to show them off and like for us to look at them?

2007-02-16 02:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anthony R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

These days go by so fast when I'm not with you
Tears and laughter echo through my mind
Boy my love for you will last a lifetime
Every second goes by you are the only thing thats on my mind
My love for you will last an eternity
I waited so long fo ra boy like you
All I ask is that you will always love me, never leaving me
My heart is yours and always will be
So please don't break it
We've gone through so much but we made it
So just put your hand in mine and don't let go
Don't let me go
Don't let me fall
Keep me in your arms for forever
Look me in the eyes and tell me you love me
Tell me that you care
I've been wating for you to come home
To be with me
Both of us loving each other
Fingers Intertwined with you holding me for the first time
It will be perfect

2007-02-16 02:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

help!!
okay, i have this english class i go to.
and there are a lot of cute/funny boys there.
until recently, i used to like only one.
but now, well..
i like 4 people SIMULTANEOUSLY
and seriously, i could SWEAR that they all keep looking at me.
and the guy i wrote about above?
well, today we had a debate and we split into 2teams, and 2 of the boys i like were on my side.(excluding the one above.) they are both great debaters, and are really funny and nice, so while we were getting prepared, and we were laghing our heads off when i saw the one above kept looking at me. and he looked.. well, sort of angry. and maybe sad. The other kept craning his neck to look at me, which is weird.
i have no idea how to act around these four! i like all of them, but i can't do that, right? can i only like 1 person at a time or can i like all of them? and how can i keep them from hating me?
im a 9th grader, shouldn't i have more knowledge of things? but im clueless.

2007-02-16 02:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Singles & Dating

u see i have loved him from the begining and come to find out he feels the same he wants to devorve my sister and start going out with me there is a problem not only is he married to my sister but they have three kids who i practically raised i've known him forever and loved him just as long. he has never lied to me before and she cheats on him and i know that for a fact but there is a twist my ex wants me back because he loves and i don't know what to do here lately i've caught him in two liesbut i love them both so who do i choose and if that's not enough they both are planning to ask me to marry them

2007-02-16 02:25:30 · 20 answers · asked by hopelessly confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend and i are going to have a night in bed,she ask:"would you like to have sex?"That very shock me,i mean am i too young to do this?For my age is 25

2007-02-16 02:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this girl in one of my classes, im in high school, and I think she is really pretty and she kinda flirts with me like she always like pats me and stuff, and she took my binder and wrote that i loved her with all my life, so does she want more than a friend out of me cuz im new at this school and i dont have many friends and she is pretty popular and preppy which i am too i wear abercrombie everyday, is that y she notices me cuz my clothes cuz there are a lot of hicks in this school and few prepps so im only in 9th grade so how can i see if she wants to go out with me is there anything i can hint on or anything i really like her thanks

2007-02-16 02:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Want a date? I'm not actually working myself,or have any money, but i'm really nice and quite good looking, and educated. I will need to know you for at least 6 months before theres any hanky panky. Interested?

2007-02-16 02:24:35 · 17 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Singles & Dating

If you're african-american, would love to befriend you...

I feel African-american people are great, funny, different, intelligent & just alot of fun. I really get along with them... although I'm not african myself, I guess it's so because I live in SouthAfrica.

I had an african friend from US a long time ago, and she was the best friend ever, she moved, we lost touch.

State your age please ^^

japanimation00@gmail.com

2007-02-16 02:24:31 · 8 answers · asked by Pure 3 in Friends

how has it shaped you as a human being?

Does any one experince of "art" stand out as significant, in your education as a human being?

2007-02-16 02:24:13 · 1 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I have never talked to this guy in person,he goes to my college
I sent him a couple of weird emails about three years ago, and he replied right away to the first two, but then he never replied to the third one ....
in those emails, i didnt tell him i like him or anything ..
but how do i move on?? i am guessing he will be graduating in May, I have been feeling really dead inside. For past 4 years, i have lived with the hope of seeing him around even if i dont see him everyday, now i dont know what to do ....
I dont necessarily think I want to be in a relationship with him, because we are quite opposite and I cant handle breaking up with him, but I really wanted to be friends with him...

2007-02-16 02:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by rose 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when you opened your eyes this morning?

2007-02-16 02:23:26 · 24 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

This used to happen a while back but it stopped,
I see things like spiders scuttling across the floor, take a better look, not there
i see plugs (on the end of cords in power sockets) crawling up the wall.
i see spiders and ants crawling up the wall
i see shadows and people in the house

when i have a better look , none exist.

what is causing this


also i argue with myself alot and feel like smashing through walls and rolling around in the backyard screaming and kicking and covered in nothing but paint

i feel like pulling my hair out

and i feel like taking anythinng that makes me pass out whether being loads of straight bourbon , sleeping tablets etc

i feel like im going crazy

and the sick bottomless pit feeling in my stomach never seems to go away

i constantly have a head ache and am dizzy

i constantly have paranormal thoughts




i worry myself, very much and i dont know what to do, is this serious stuff or will it pass through time

2007-02-16 02:21:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've caught him looking at my friends feet a few times. Anyone else have a boyfriend like this? The massages I dont mind though! lol.

2007-02-16 02:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by crazylady w 1 in Singles & Dating

My past is just plain horrible and its coming back to haunt me in a major way. Lately my dirty little secrets have come to the light and my boyfriend is not happy about it. Before we met I had sex with my friend (who i wont mention his name) and so my boyfriend keeps saying "yall used to bang....I know it" and I would deny it to the fullest. So last night around 11 oclock or so I asked my friend if he would bring me my calculator for my math class and when he showed up at that hour it made my boyfriend suspicious (we were talking on the phone) ok, to make a long story short, I confessed about having sex with him once, but we never did it again and now he is mad as hell cus I lied and said we never did it. Now I feel sick cus he was really hurt that I lied to him. I apologized and he said "I really dont want to talk to you right now" and he hung up. I love my man so much, he is so good to me, but I have a feeling we will be breaking up soon, what should I do?

2007-02-16 02:20:16 · 21 answers · asked by BlkBeauty24 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m a guy who’s 24 years old and still a virgin. I’m abstaining from sex till marriage. But I would like too know why it is strange for a guy to abstain from sex till marriage? Is this something women only should be doing? Why can’t men do it too?

2007-02-16 02:19:37 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years now. We really understand each other and are totally in sync, but there are times I ask myself if I can wait for him because he's still in school (studying medicine) and I've graduated. Moreover, we are the same age.

I sometimes feel the need to see other peolpe (not sleep with them mind u!), and at times I just feel that things wont work out because I'd have to wait another 4yrs for him to graduate. I feel like I should call it off now and start over with somone else, but I keep comparing every one else to him emotionally and they usually come out wanting.

Pls someone make sense of my ramblings. I need to know if wat I'm thinking is normal and what options to take.

2007-02-16 02:19:24 · 7 answers · asked by giness 1 in Singles & Dating