i went with this guy for a long time we even got physical but i broke up with because his ex before me lived next door to him and at times i would think he would still mess around with her but he would swear to me he didnt so i just couldnt trust hium and now i regret leaving him and its been about 2 months and i still love him to death but he sort of hates me and so i dont know how to tell him i still love him. HELP ME
2007-02-16 02:27:01 · 14 answers · asked by sexy_latina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't trust him so it doesn't matter if you still love him. You drew that line in the sand, so don't cross it. You were the one that ended it, so now its time to get over it. Wow, what a tremendous waste this was. You've made him feel like second best when he wasn't, and now you expect him to just forgive and forget? That is totally not fair!
2007-02-16 02:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tyerant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn’t hate you but you accusing him of doing things without proof, wasn’t good. You have to get him beyond the accusing and maybe he’ll come around. However, if you didn’t trust him before what makes you feel or think you can trust him now? Has he or his ex moved? To be honest, you should just love him from afar. Because you’ve hurt him in the past, that’s not to say he won’t try and get even with you. You accused him of cheating, what’s to say that he won’t go ahead and cheat now…after all you did accuse him.
2007-02-16 02:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it probably wouldn't help. I mean even if she did live there...if he didn't give you a reason NOT to trust him and then you kept on accusing him then maybe it just tore him up. It only takes a matter of time for someone to be accused of something to finally do it because he keeps being told he is doing this.
Just go up to him and talk. Ask him can you come over and talk to him about some things that have been on your mind. See how that works.
2007-02-16 02:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Boo8081 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, last week, I just told my ex boyfriend that I still love him. Just go for it. You must tell him everything that you feel. But you shouldn't expect for a nice reply. Don't expect too much because it'll just hurt you. If you two would be together again, then good for you. But if not, your time is over. You should move on. Take care! :)
2007-02-16 02:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble with this guy. If he doesn't love you back away don't allow him to hurt you more. This was a miserable relationship for you. Jealousy is not healthy. Him getting mad at you makes it look like there was something going on, you had reasons for concern. You deserve more than this.
2007-02-16 02:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably angry with you because he wanted you to trust him and it also makes you look jealous. which is normal having a ex next door. if you could get him to understand your point of view and that your only human and messed up by breaking up with him....that you have strong feeling for him still. girl if he is still not intersted i would move on.
2007-02-16 02:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can just tell it to him.
Or you can bring him something like a card saying that.
Just dont let a friend do it for you.
2007-02-16 02:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mica Claro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would make a BAD SPY.
Never make accusations until you have the proof.
You should have called Cheaters.
Is he seeing someone now ?
Just be where he is, look really nice, and smile. :-)
2007-02-16 02:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he hates u, talk to him, first, n u will know what r his feelings, be his friend again, then re-begin things
2007-02-16 02:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Wendicita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he sort of hates you I think you should leave it alone and move on.
2007-02-16 02:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋