Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

Well I like this guy! And last year he liked me and told me that I was the perfect girl for him and I pushed him away and was so mean. (That was last March) And in October we started talking again and well got close and 3 weeks ago I told him we could just be friends but that was because I was afraid that he didnt like me anymore and I didnt want him to reject me.... But I love him and I dont know what to do? Any help?????

2007-02-16 02:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You think about this person everyday there is sign that she likes you, but both have other commitments to someone else...

2007-02-16 02:58:01 · 8 answers · asked by Tai 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We dated for 2 and a half years before we got married a couple months ago. Everything's well, and I'm going to start working soon.
I was always lead to believe that family is everything, and although I'm only 20, I'm totally confident that I'm ready to start a family.
I worked at a dar care for almost 2 years and I have 5 younger siblings, so I know what I'm doing, and I know a child takes alot of time, love, and money.

What I don't know is, how my husband feels. I told him about how my parent said, jokingly " so when can I expect to see some grand babies?" and he kinda made an 'uummm' kinda look.

I came from a big family. One that said 'i love you' every night. He came from a smaller family that didn't show that kind of emotion regularly. Well, he's my new family now, and I love him to bits.. but I want us to start my own family.

Should I talk to him? OR does his body language say enough?

2007-02-16 02:57:49 · 4 answers · asked by October Sky 2 in Family

I feel that I can be superwomen and I can take care of myself and that I dont need a man because all they do is cause problems. Im independent and feel that I can take on everything by myself w/o the help of a male companion.

2007-02-16 02:57:21 · 12 answers · asked by lil_candi021 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has a crush on this girl, and if this girl marries another man, he'll just kill that man and if the wedding is still going on, he''ll just threaten the guy. very scary, i mean, if i had a crush on this girl, i think a would be dead.

2007-02-16 02:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by thenewhorzta 3 in Singles & Dating

...I think she is hiding. She prides herself on being strong and independent and we usually agree on everything from home furnishings to food so when I said I want to have an extremely small wedding (no tuxs, no guests, just me and her) I wasnt surprised when she agreed. But I think (Im pretty darn positive) that there is a small cute little redheaded princess in her that just wants a big white dress and go through the "big white wedding day". But she will never admit to it, so what can I do to get that little princess in her to show its true colors? I mean, I want her to be happy first and foremost, but how can I do that if she won't come clean about herself?

2007-02-16 02:56:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

thinking you and the other person were soulmates only to find out that you weren't?...............

I am in that relationship right now. After 4 years of being together and livng together. We've both relized that we aren't soulmates like we thought we were and we don't have that fire passion that you have when you are soulmates but we are good friends and about to end it.

2007-02-16 02:55:59 · 8 answers · asked by Irish Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

other day I found a biopsy report laying on his floor. It was for a brain tumor that he had been diagnosed with 3 years ago. Brain tumors are not very curable and often recur in 3-5 years.

He is very emotional and I guess this would explain a lot. I would have to believe that he wonders how to tell me the news. He may have a minimum number of years to live.

Do I act like I don't know? Should I tell him that I saw the report? I do not feel that running is an option, as I just do not see that as a morally proper thing to do. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! This has been tearing me apart, crying every night. I am also 39 y/o.

2007-02-16 02:55:49 · 8 answers · asked by cptkmwallman 2 in Singles & Dating

I wanted to add also that I have read and printed email's as well and do still have them.I also, found her home # and spoke with her husband and he said that he didn't know why she was doing this. I have also wrote her email's telling her to stop replying to my husbands emails. She did not respond to me at all. This is not the ONLY woman he has done this with. There has been 2 more. And I just want to say. Thank You all very much for your answers. I think you all helped me see the light. :)

2007-02-16 02:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some links and/or prices would really be appreciated. The wedding will be located in Yonkers to be more specific.

Thanks in advance.

2007-02-16 02:54:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-16 02:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by teresasalazar_95 1 in Singles & Dating

Been in a relationship for 5 1/2 years, living with them for all that time. Now its over & I need to move on, but what's the best thing to do - go for the piece & quiet (& potential lonliness) of living alone or take the risk of moving in with a bunch of strangers?

2007-02-16 02:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by helen r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 02:52:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-16 02:52:19 · 9 answers · asked by katiecatdarling 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with a guy last year, he then moved to a different country for 2 years. He promised that he would come back to me and then ask me to marry him. But it's been a month since I last heard from him and I want to let him go and move on with my life. Thing is....its easier said than done. Any ideas?

2007-02-16 02:52:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is pregnant and she's only sixteen and I don't think she'll be able to accept the burdens of motherhood right now. I can bearly handel it and I'm mentally more stronger than she is and I have a job that pays way more than hers, no I'm not rubbing my money in her face. I don't want her life to be like it is, she deserves soooo much better than what has been dealt. I don't want her to be mad at me but I need her to wake up to the facts, that babys are expensive, and hard work. She has a bad habbit of dropping anything romotely hard right away, but she won't be able to this time her parents aren't there for her anymore and all of her family is mad at her, so are most of our friends, she thinks I'm mad at her but I'm not, I'm a little shocked but it's starting to go away. I want to be there for her, but I'm not sure I can be there the way she needs it. I told her what to do but she just blew it off, I did what I suggested. I'm scared for her well being and peice of mind.

2007-02-16 02:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by lill_angel_07_88 3 in Friends

2007-02-16 02:51:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys and girls i need ur help?


OK i told this girl that i dont want to date her i just wanted to be her friend, and she still hinting at us getting together it drive me nuts and i really dont care about her i am sorry to say that but my heart dosent feel anything for her even as a friend we have both diffrent intrests and lifestyles for us to match as friends and all of a sudden she wants to be all close to my heart wich she said and wants to get us to the point of me saying i love her ok i deleted her from my msn am a bad guy because i feel bad

what else can i do to get thrw to her

she is rather annoyeing


i go to college with this girl

2007-02-16 02:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im Christian so i dont want sex before marrige but is THERE ANYTHING else that can satisfy u guys--give in details?

2007-02-16 02:50:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our baby had been sleeping through the night for the last week, last night I told my wife how nice it's been and she said "Great, you jinxed us, now he's going to wake up tonight". Sure enough he cried through the night and my wife won't speak to me because I "jinxed" us. Crazy or what?

2007-02-16 02:50:53 · 4 answers · asked by hfacto 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't see why!!!!! He talks to all my friends and well everyone!! it's not like he's giving me the cold shoulder but he just says a couple words to me and goes to talk with some one else. it's not like i'm boring either. everyone talks to me but not him. i'm really bummed and if you have any advice please give it to me!
thanks in advance,
smurfchat

2007-02-16 02:50:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lola 2 in Singles & Dating

Where can i find online wedding info in Canada??

2007-02-16 02:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

how can I hate my boy friend?!HELP!!

2007-02-16 02:50:16 · 3 answers · asked by Rana T 1 in Friends

In your family, do they get concerned about you promptly returning the flimsy tupperware they give you to take home leftovers?

My brother and I get leftovers and he almost never returns them, despite his getting harassed about it ... I return them more frequently and promptly.

In your family would this score extra points with them? I like to be the golden child and gain as many points as possible.

2007-02-16 02:50:09 · 2 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Family

I am 21 one years old and I have a 1 year old son. I live with my husband of a year. He his very, very handsome and has a hot body and I look at him and I'm turned on and want to makelove to him but when it gets down to that part of it. I'm just not into it anymore. He is very patient, but I know it bothers him. Sometimes I think he thinks it is him but it is not!!I feel like I am letting him down everytime I say no but then I feel guilty after i say it cuz he just smiles and kisses me and snuggles and then he never says a negative word about it. Any advice how I can get imy sex drive back. Thank you for you time and responces. They are appreciatted!!!

2007-02-16 02:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by irish_pixie07 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've met very few women who don't love it. What's so great about it?

2007-02-16 02:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but the thing is that sometimes it just doesnt grow inside because always screams for anything and he's too jelous and tries to hold me back all the time...he alwyas argues with me over stupid things but when we break up he cries and tells me hes going to change and that he loves so to please get back because he wants us to get married.......what should i do?

2007-02-16 02:49:28 · 21 answers · asked by GotAnswers? 2 in Singles & Dating

Men are said to be more visual and Women are said to be more about personality. Would you agree with that statement as being correct or do you think there is more to human attraction. What do you honestly think?

Please select one and explain your answer and if you have something to back up your findings list the link. Write more then one sentence and at least a paragraph on what your thoughts truly are. Choose a, b, c, d, or e along with your answer explaining why?


a) Balance in their whole being the pies factor. Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. There has to be a lot more going on for me. All balanced and equally good.

b) Ah just "Personality and Looks" not into the deep stuff.

c) It's all about the looks of the person.

d) It's personality all the way.

e) How much money they have and how wealthy they are.

f) I am attracted to someone I am familar with and they remind me of someone I know.

2007-02-16 02:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it just a man thing.... we have been together for a year now... but i feel like he doesnt really get into my gifts...

is a mans gifts to you a reflection of his feelings or just something he isnt sooo into...

2007-02-16 02:48:49 · 18 answers · asked by coco 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother went in for routine gall bladder surgery...so we thought. turns out it never was her gall bladder...it was ovarian cancer and it's already spread into her stomach. they say there's nothing they can do about it and that she only has 3 months to live. what if you were in this situation...what would you do with your last 3 months?

2007-02-16 02:48:32 · 6 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Other - Family & Relationships