Men are said to be more visual and Women are said to be more about personality. Would you agree with that statement as being correct or do you think there is more to human attraction. What do you honestly think?
Please select one and explain your answer and if you have something to back up your findings list the link. Write more then one sentence and at least a paragraph on what your thoughts truly are. Choose a, b, c, d, or e along with your answer explaining why?
a) Balance in their whole being the pies factor. Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual. There has to be a lot more going on for me. All balanced and equally good.
b) Ah just "Personality and Looks" not into the deep stuff.
c) It's all about the looks of the person.
d) It's personality all the way.
e) How much money they have and how wealthy they are.
f) I am attracted to someone I am familar with and they remind me of someone I know.
2007-02-16 02:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A) is the answer for me.
While physical appearance may be something that first sparks your attention or curiosity in someone...it takes a lot more than that to close the deal.
The actual order of preference for me I believe would be
in the following order.
Emotional and Spritiual Tie for 1st.
To me-- someone needs to be in touch with God and their own emotional well being first.
Intellectual then Physical
Pretty only goes so far if it is only functioning at a elementary school level.
A good follow up is how do we break past the physical source for initial contact?
2007-02-16 03:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Randal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chemistry. Yeah, we're visual, but if the girl doesn't have a personality or is a nerd or weido/psycho b!tch, we dump her like she's a wet fish. If it's just a date/friend, I'd go with b). If it were for a life mate (someting most guys are really not looking for), it would be a)., of course.
Girls put way to much thought and effort into picking and choosing mates. Guys just want someone who's pretty, fun and cool. If she can keep that up for any length of time, we may just fall in love with them. Most, unfortunately don't. They end up showing off all their negative traits like clinging, nagging, whining, controlling and stuff like that.
2007-02-16 10:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say a because a balanced person brings alot of security for the relationship it can be long term its sad to go out with a person without substance life could get empty and i tend to think if a person doesnt fear God what reassurance do i have that theyll ever go to the drawing board when we have problems evaluate and see they r wrong? on the other hand i dont want a religious bigot i need balance
2007-02-16 10:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely A. Yeah I have to find them attractive, but It's not as important as what you listed (in a). Physical 'cuz if there isn't feeling of atraction there's no reason to be with them. Intellectual 'cuz well I want to be able to use big words and them know what they mean. Emotional 'cuz they have to get why I'm feeling what I'm feeling. I don't know about Spirtual, but I would like it if they weren't just trying to get into my pants though.
2007-02-16 11:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by lill_angel_07_88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me....i think it'll be A..coz i am in love wid guy who has got awesome personality,not great IQ but very hard working,phyisically too kool and too sexy, and completely believes in GOD....well...rite now i'm talkin abt a school boy..i love him but he doesnt...dats a different thing......i dont care about the looks of any1 ( hey but d one i love is too good looking), nor do i care abt the money !!! So....it all goes like..
There's no reason to fall in love !!!
2007-02-16 11:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A..... I try to find people that are whole and well rounded the way that I strive to be. It is easier to talk to a person when they have an open mind and are willing to see things in many ways
2007-02-16 10:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
d. all the way...I'm amazed at how you can be so attracted to someone after you get to know them. I'm a complete sucker for wit and intelligence. I guess if I am attracted to the guy's brain...well then the rest of him just becomes super hot.
2007-02-16 10:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a.) (eyes, personlity, soul)
f. )
and then c. and d.
2007-02-16 10:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋