You think about this person everyday there is sign that she likes you, but both have other commitments to someone else...
2007-02-16 02:58:01 · 8 answers · asked by Tai 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you LOVE someone, you wouldn't be with someone else. what people don't realize, is real love takes time, there's NO such thing as love at first sight. you need to get to know this person. How can you say it's love if you aren't even with them, and the feeling is unrequited?
2007-02-16 03:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by October Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you cant cheat on your other committments. That would make you a loser, if you did. And I know you don't want to be a loser. If your current relationships, respectively, are worth anything you might want to spend a little more time with your head where it belongs. If those committments are not as serious, or as meaningful as you'd like, then you need to discuss your feelings with this other person and end it, like an adult. It'll be less painful than it would be if you went and did things the loser way. Be an adult about it, if you care for this person then have enough respect for them to be with them the right way. Don't be a loser. I know you can do the right thing, you already know, deep down in your heart that you probably want to be with this person. You just need to go about it the right way. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-16 11:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO loving is all about giving. Give give give and expect nothing in return. That to me is loving someone. Now if you keep doing that (for say several years), it is ALMOST natural for the other person to love you back. Maybe only in different ways. She may not love you as a lover but she may love you as a friend. So how you change that "friendly" love in to a "lovers" love..... thats up to you.
2007-02-16 11:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Doraemon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you know it that person loves u are not. U can feel love. If you don't feel it or u r forcing urself to feel it then save ur self the hurt and move on because ur going to hurt urself. Love urself 1st.
2007-02-16 11:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask if they feel the same way about you. Sometimes a lady
has to take the first step.
2007-02-16 11:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expressing your feeling might give you a clue....if the other person is married i would take a hike!
2007-02-16 11:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As her straight out and then go from there.
2007-02-16 11:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would depend on how you feel about your other commitment.....if you truly love your other half....why would you jeopardize it by screwing it up!
2007-02-16 11:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋