but the thing is that sometimes it just doesnt grow inside because always screams for anything and he's too jelous and tries to hold me back all the time...he alwyas argues with me over stupid things but when we break up he cries and tells me hes going to change and that he loves so to please get back because he wants us to get married.......what should i do?
2007-02-16 02:49:28 · 21 answers · asked by GotAnswers? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a loser...dump him and move on!
2007-02-16 02:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by The Cheminator 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. if he can't accept you for who you are then he's not worth your trouble. Marriage means nothing if both people are not on the same page. He has to be your "best friend" as well as someone you love. Don't count on him changing. It won't happen. It may get better for a while but it will always come back to the same arguments. Jealousy is also a sign of feeling inadequate as well as arguing all the time.
Don't allow anyone to "hold you back" if someone really "loves" you they will push you to be everything you can be or want to be.
2007-02-16 10:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by rosey55465 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see yourself going through all of this for the rest of your life? I don't think so. His mood swings, jealousy, and defiantly holding you back, is not something that I think anyone would want to deal with. I think the break up sounds like a good idea. That relationship didn't seem like a healthy one. Keep it moving, and don't look back. Let him drop his anxiety attacks on someone else. Chow!!
2007-02-16 10:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should talk about it because it seems that things are like, just repeating over and over again. If you think he wouldn't be a good husband to you, then you should break up with him early because it's hard to get married but you guys have a problem with each other. But if you talk about it with him and it works out, that'd be great. Take care! :)
2007-02-16 10:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Faye ^___^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like the two of you have a healthy, caring or nurturing relationship. It sounds more like both of you stay together because you simply need a partner at any cost.
Definately not a good basis for a long lasting marriage.
2007-02-16 10:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that u guys aren't together just to be together. U have to think about yall future. Do you see yourself being happy in the furture with this man. If so work together to get to that happy place but if not cut him loose because yall are wasting each others time.
2007-02-16 10:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is really insecure. Have you tried talking openly about things? Perhaps letting him know that you have vulnerabilities too, might help him deal with his more openly also. Maybe you come across as 'ms perfect' to him; let him know, that no one is perfect. If he is in denial, and doesn't want to accept that he is, then perhaps it's better as things are - you go your way, and he goes his!!! There's a time for everything. I wish you well.
2007-02-16 11:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by lohe46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety um he is not worth the hart ace i say loose him because your not happy and nether is he trust me Ive seen this Enif times to know he just want to be with you because he is afraid of being alwone. if you just ceap him around you will only be herting your self trust me he dosent care about you ang give you the love and attention you need to be in a happy and helthy relashion ship with some on and sweety if you need any more help pleas feel free to e-mail me pleas im a Jr. counsaler i will help (sonshinemkm@yahoo.com)
2007-02-16 10:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by jazzgurl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bounce, he is tryin to get the upper hand on u right by saying this. Any one who plays stupid games needs to go away. Just get rid of him it sounds like you are already out the door anyway
2007-02-16 10:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by holykrikey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was looking for a quick way out only to realize later what he left behind. Do yourself a favor, forget about him and find someone who will treat you like you should be treated.
2007-02-16 10:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is crying about it he is just desperate. also depends on how many times this has happened. i almost broke up with my grlfrnd for the same thing. biggest mistake a guy can ever make. i won't get into the details. but if you want them you can e-mail me and leave your e mail address in it.
2007-02-16 11:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by date doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋