Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

My husband cheated on me in 2004..he promised that he would never hurt me again, but he has, I caught him having a affair on the internet and he wasn't talking just sex, he told her that he loved her..when i comfronted him about it he wrote her and told her not to write him anymore..that he was in love with me and that it was only a game. The woman made hotel reservations for them and the first time he cancelled but then he apoligized to her and said he would show up the second time..that was until I found out. I love him but I need someone to make me feel good about myself again..my heart is broke...I'm lonely..depressed and revengeful.

2007-02-16 00:25:23 · 35 answers · asked by Barbara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-16 00:24:41 · 5 answers · asked by d'artist 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband dyed our cat's white spots pink for Valentine's Day, and put eyeliner on her with black dye
He used food coloring on the white parts, but I can't get it off ... I gave her 3 baths, and I have suspicions he may have used something more permanent. The eyeliner does look good, but not natural.

Anyone have any ideas how to get this stuff off?

The cat is not sick at all, food coloring is safe.

2007-02-16 00:23:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

don't tell me to ask that person ,cos i won't do it ...

2007-02-16 00:22:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come Americans talk about helping children all the time and I am one person in a community who needs help and people know about it and no one will even offer me employment?

2007-02-16 00:22:34 · 16 answers · asked by solisue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend keeps asking me to repair his computer. At first I didn’t charge him anything then I started to charge him a small fee of $20 per computer. But now he is bringing me eight computers. Is he taking advantage of me?

2007-02-16 00:21:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-16 00:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

A girl sleeps with a guy (not a stranger) she gives a part of her to him? How can that be?

Can guys give a part to the girl they sleep with?

2007-02-16 00:18:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what do i do!!?? she talks about him all the time and she's always like "he's SOOOOO hawt!!! he's like my idol!" she made like this shrine to him and she saved this tissue he used and all of his nasty old used undies and gross stuff like that!! she also like brings this pic of him around with her EVERYWHERE (she carries in in her pocket!)! what do i dooo??

2007-02-16 00:18:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after 20 years a old school boyfriend contacted me over the internet. i have recently gotten married to the man i thought was the man for me . but i was really wrong . the old school friend what if he's a freak?why would he want to see me ? he wrote me and said after 20 years he still thinks of me and wishes i would have contacted him while i was seperated.he says that he is married but his wife cheated on him and he wants to leave her when there son gets old enough.we only went on one date back then . but like i said he is so interested in me what should i do ?

2007-02-16 00:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

eRIK!!! HE ISN'T ONLY FAT, BUT A GOLD DIGGER AND A TRANS FAT DIGGER... HOW DO I TELL HER TO DUMP THIS GUY OFF AT WEIGHT WATCHERS AND GET HERSELF A REAL MAN??

2007-02-16 00:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In particular, in a nightclub scene. Is it the way they talk to you? Is it the way they look at you? Is it the way they position themselves?

It wonders me because people who are looking for one night stands end up breaking up the 'relationship' they were having or aving to lie to girls about looking for a relationship. If we can tell who is looking for sex an who is looking for a relationship, the problems of 'short term relationships' would not happen as often.

People will still try to get to the people they want, but it would not create as much confusion.

2007-02-16 00:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My colleague has offered me her wedding tiara for my wedding this year. Its a sweet offer and a nice enough tiara, but some stones are missing which I would have to replace, and I just did not see myself wearing a tiara. I tried it on and it looks ok, but I just don't want to use it. How can I say no thank you without offending her? She is a really sweet friend, and I feel bad rejecting her offer.

2007-02-16 00:16:39 · 189 answers · asked by sparkleythings_4you 7 in Weddings

Of even a mother for that matter, How would you feel if you saw your teenage daughter on the Girls gone wild vids. This happened to a friend of mind and he is very upset. How would you all react?

2007-02-16 00:16:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-16 00:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by EL BLAZE 1 in Singles & Dating

ladies what do u prefer
a muscular but serious guy or a funny guy?

2007-02-16 00:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by dschubs79 2 in Singles & Dating

If I ask for any favor, most likely it's a yes from him. He has gone to great lengths in the past to help me, from big to small. However, when I mention about other guys (in the way of asking about relationship advice), if it's in email, he suddenly becomes silent and does not reply. Is he merely saying, he wants nothing to do with my relationship life? btw, this is the guy I have interest in and I think he likes me too but not 100% sure.

2007-02-16 00:14:38 · 16 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Singles & Dating

What do you get when you fall in love?

2007-02-16 00:14:07 · 15 answers · asked by camerlengo 2 in Singles & Dating

who is totally hot and everytime i see him in there he is either smiling or has a smirk on his face.he doesn't really talk alot though.He just looks at me while serving and then looks away and smirks.is he flirting?or is it just in my head

2007-02-16 00:14:04 · 3 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

finding out how to get a girlfriend

2007-02-16 00:13:42 · 2 answers · asked by Elmo19786 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy mike about 3 weeks ago.. we started talking alot n hanging out he would drive 45 mins to come see me.. n he got all cute with me n did things normal guys that just want a hook up wouldnt do..he didnt try to do anything sexual with me .. he seemed really interested in me then all of a sudden this past weekend he didnt answer my text so i didnt text him at all.. his friend told me that he thinks he feels like its a relationship when he hasnt made the step to be in one with me yet.. n a few nights prior to that his friend told me that his friend mike was saying how he really likes me n wish i lived closer.... i really was starting to like him & we got along so good.. its been really buggin me the fact that he all of a sudden changed his mind like that...

2007-02-16 00:13:15 · 4 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 00:12:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

from 15 year olds shooting themselves to the rape and murder of 2 year old babies...to women trying to force a 2 and 3 year old to punch each other in the face for the sake of video taping them for a laugh...

and we as people talk about it...in disgust...shake our heads, blame people and talk all day long about it...and then we forget about it at the very next news item that comes along....we give our acceptance of the situation.......

our society has crumbled beyond all comprehension...madness and dishonour rule our streets and our homes...

the ordinary British people are historically renowned for revolting against wrong doing...having no problem revolting against even our government...what has happened to us ???...what kind of people are we now???

2007-02-16 00:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cause i have a crush on him reamember i am only 13

2007-02-16 00:11:59 · 12 answers · asked by amanda d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 00:11:31 · 11 answers · asked by Snapper 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm single, and own my own home. My daughter is staying with me for a couple of months while applying to law school. She has a fulltime job and contributes a little to the household expenses. She has a new beau. I am uncomfortable with them having sex in my house when he visits. I also have a son in college who brings a girlfriend home. I'd like to hear from people on both sides of this issue, the parents, and their grown kids.

2007-02-16 00:10:08 · 21 answers · asked by toughjoycey55 2 in Family

Yes, I know everyone's supposed to be open and communicate about their sexual needs, but I don't know if you've ever had a conversation where you nervously asked your Very Nice Boyfriend to pull your hair? Oh... it's terrible.

I'm a pretty ladylike, fairly "traditionally female" girl (yes, I know someone out there is gearing up to be totally offended by that, but I just wanted a short way to explain that). This is probably going to sound exceedingly lame, but I would be quite excited to be in a relationship with a really manly man who is amused and approving when i cook him retro roast-based dinners, and who agrees with me that our interests do not have to overlap or match in all areas. And then perhaps he could take me to bed and be quite forceful and pull my hair and demand that I call him inappropriate things....sorry got a bit carried away :P

Where can I find a man like this? How would I even know if he's my type? Do men like this even exist??

2007-02-16 00:08:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay Me and my exboyfriend of almost 2 years are broke up,But we still call each other everyday and I still spend time with him everyday.We also celebrated Valentines day togehter.We call each other Bestfriends now,and I really want to be with him but he dosent want the same.We have been broke up since December 12 !! He told me that He loves me but he dosent think we should be together right now because we had to many promblems and he thinks we get along better as Bestfriends.He also told me that if I talk to anyother guys he is gona try his best and stop it because he dosent want me to be with anybody else ( he says he dosent want anybod hurting me).He also told me 2 days ago that he wants to let me go so I can move on,But his heart wont let him do that.And I really do wish I can just leave him alone and Move on but I cant,I love him so much and thats the only reason Im still Bestriends with him.He is being selfish because he talks to other girls sometimes but still trys to keep me

2007-02-16 00:08:16 · 8 answers · asked by Lele12339 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 00:08:03 · 10 answers · asked by floraldesigner1 3 in Singles & Dating

B ed ? I am 22 and have found a woman that is 30 that wants to show me a good time. Anyone have experience with this and tell me all about it!

2007-02-16 00:07:06 · 21 answers · asked by terrywerst 1 in Singles & Dating