In particular, in a nightclub scene. Is it the way they talk to you? Is it the way they look at you? Is it the way they position themselves?
It wonders me because people who are looking for one night stands end up breaking up the 'relationship' they were having or aving to lie to girls about looking for a relationship. If we can tell who is looking for sex an who is looking for a relationship, the problems of 'short term relationships' would not happen as often.
People will still try to get to the people they want, but it would not create as much confusion.
2007-02-16 00:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If they want sex that night then its a one night stand
2007-02-23 06:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Difficult question - I had a one night-stand with a guy thinking I would never see him again and it was "now or never". Turns out we have friends in common and, while we're now together, it's always at the back of my mind that I wouldn't have slept with him so fast if I'd known anything long-term was a possibility. Plus, if you were in an night-club, had just met a girl and she started talking "relationships" - wouldn't you run a mile?
2007-02-16 00:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by bumpity-bump 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It depends on each individual girl - see things aren't that black and white with women.
If your not interested at all in a relationship then you should pay for s* x. All girls (whether they admit it or not) want to be a in a relationship - so if your not prepared for that dont go getting yourself into a situation where you end up hurting someone.
2007-02-16 00:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
ill give you a clue, if she starts ripping your clothes off on the dance floor she prob just wants a one night stand.
i would say the more chatty she is the more she wants to get to know you, therfor is prob more after a long term thing.
no matter what if its gonna be a one night thing then you need to let her know and give her the choice, as you do if you arent looking for anything serious, you may be surprised by the response you get, not all girls are looking for husbands and houses with 2.4 kids.
2007-02-21 07:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by smile 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Girls who are relationship material tend not to have sex early on in the relationship.
If you meet a girl in a club and she makes it clear it's your lucky night it probably means that she is after a one night stand.
It isn't confusing if you look at it this way, don't worry about hurting a girl by just wanting her for sex because if she gets herself into that situation she is silly to expect respect from you afterwards -Harsh but true!
2007-02-16 00:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Poppy 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Add one drop of a weak hydrochloric acid solution to the heel of their right foot and if it turns purple that means that......
Seriously though - you can't tell - they are probably noteven sure themselves. Eight years ago I met a guy that I had a one night stand with. We're getting married next week. I was in for a one night thing and so was he - we've just had eight years of one night things with each other!
2007-02-16 00:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Leapling 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Horrible degrading and disrespectful to self and others. Sex is not supposed to be just a bodily function like going to the toilet. It's a spiritual experience as well. And when you perform this act with more than one person you are confusing the One flesh relationship. You mark my words and remember I told you.
I know this seems crazy but it just angers me that people think so little of them selves and others that they just throw it about like a wet cabbage leaf at the end of a day at the market.
2007-02-16 00:29:08 · answer #7 · answered by : 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
If you are willingly want to ruin your respect that others have in you....go ahead... Now you knowthe gravity of the issue...It's something to do with your self-respect, ......
2007-02-23 20:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not obvious, draping themselves over you or grinding then crotch into your face then this is what i do.
When she makes a mildly sexual ambiguous statement, jump on it - Beavis and Butthead style. You can normally tell by their reaction.
2007-02-16 00:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
most women are never looking for a one night stand; most of taking applications for a husband.....
2007-02-16 00:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋