i met this guy mike about 3 weeks ago.. we started talking alot n hanging out he would drive 45 mins to come see me.. n he got all cute with me n did things normal guys that just want a hook up wouldnt do..he didnt try to do anything sexual with me .. he seemed really interested in me then all of a sudden this past weekend he didnt answer my text so i didnt text him at all.. his friend told me that he thinks he feels like its a relationship when he hasnt made the step to be in one with me yet.. n a few nights prior to that his friend told me that his friend mike was saying how he really likes me n wish i lived closer.... i really was starting to like him & we got along so good.. its been really buggin me the fact that he all of a sudden changed his mind like that...
2007-02-16 00:13:15 · 4 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tuesday i texted him n said why dont u wanna talk all of a sudden? n he replyed back.. i never said i dont wanna talk i just been busy with work n catchin up with friends i havent seen in a while.. n i said well i was told well i was told by one of your friends you think i get to cutesy with you ... i only get cute with you when u do it with me n i just wanted to let you know it was all in fun i wasnt expecting anything out of it.. n he texts back n says "dont listen to anyone i like "cute" and i like hanging out with you so stop questioning it" ... then we stopped texting later that night he said so when wre we gonna hang out again? n i replyed who knows.. n he said o i c how it is ..n a few days later i texted him saying hey n no response..
2007-02-16 00:16:43 · update #1
It sounds like he got upset that he didn't get any. I mean, 3 weeks of hanging out and no putting out? If someone puts in the time, results should follow.
Call or text him again and ask him if the lack of sex was the reason he stopped texting you. He might not outright tell you that was the reason, guys never do, but keep probing until he hints that was it. I'm pretty sure of it.
2007-02-16 00:20:59 · answer #1 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Never mention what his "friends" say about him to him.
2. Being "cute" is for teenagers.
3. If he drove 45 minutes to see you at your house or apartment, he was hoping for a sign from you that he should try something sexually. If he didn't get that sign, he may have thought you were uninterested.
2007-02-16 00:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r busy messing things if u say u like this guy why dont u let him know and get along text him and find out when u should meet then u can have a mature talk
dont wait for his move take one step and who knows he will take ten
2007-02-16 00:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he is a jerk
2007-02-16 00:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋