Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

How did your relationship change?
Do tell.

2007-02-16 01:02:12 · 29 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The point is moot as far as the relationship goes (it's dead as disco), but my soon-to-be ex-girlfriend has to answer to your responses.

We're both jerks, based on what I'm about to tell you, but who is the bigger jerk?

Person One: steals from retailers to earn a living, and lies to person two about his/her whereabouts and activities when he/she is engaged in this illegal activity.

Person Two: has, over two years, read virtually every word of every journal and every letter and every email that PersonTwo has ever written, methodically and systematically going through thousands of pages of notebooks and computer files despite Person Two's strenuous objections ahead of time and during the invasion of privacy.

It should be noted that Person One claims that Person Two's behavior, which has been going on much longer, set the tone for his/her dishonesty.

Which jerk do you find more detestable, and by how wide a margin? Let's use a jerk scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the biggest jerk ever.

2007-02-16 01:01:59 · 19 answers · asked by Jeff T 1 in Singles & Dating

What do people really love a person for?
Looks? or inner character? which comes first?

2007-02-16 01:01:51 · 19 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Singles & Dating

Aviva is a beauty model who I'm a huge fan of, and I'd love to know if she is around on this site.

2007-02-16 01:01:35 · 2 answers · asked by Maximillian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have met the woman of my dreams and all i want to do is spend all of my time with her . for the first 2 months we couldnt keep our hands of each other . things have really slowed down so much so its worring me . she has just moved house 3 weeks ago work is tough for her at the min and her devorse has just been completed .
i know all 3 things are the most stressfull things people can do , as i say the main thing that is worring me is the less she texts phones me the more i want to speak e mail text ond even be their . how do i control myself from adding presure all the time .
the last thing iam pretty sure she still loves my as we have known each othes for the last 6 years as frends . i dont want to spoil it . many thanks .

2007-02-16 01:00:55 · 16 answers · asked by minimadmonster 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Being married for one year and a month ago close of my wife told me that my wife told her stories that she was having an affair. I confronted my wife and she denied everything and said it was only an imagination story as she thought I was still close with my ex wife. I kept incontact with my ex wife only to keep intouch with our children. I was heart broken for a month and decided to give us another chance however there is a lot of love lost including trust as I don't believe her as an imagination story and believe she really confessed to her close friend. I see my wife differently now and not as before as I felt a one couple. I have been a faithfull and a loving husband to her but now feel why bother being faithfull as the damage has been done and have the temptation to see another woman. Anyone had the same experience.

2007-02-16 01:00:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im just a shadow of the former myself. im suffering like a dog, so down for 1 year. she was my everything, we were so happy for 5 years. now i have nothing without her, dont see any chance to get her back. though its the only hope for me. her or noone else. believe me, i feel it from heart and soul, know it from brain. dont come with the old fashioned phrasis like "soon you will forget her", "there soon will be another one" etc. i know it better, these are my things, i know it the best. (unfortunately) i had some painful break ups before, but all of them was easier to forget and get over it. now i know, that its different. she is the best for me, i know i can never find anyone better. i dont even look for any, no use for it. i tried many things to get her back, but no result.

any advice how to deal with it? how can i fight for her? any experience? any advise how to get her back?

im not waiting for "oh dear, i feel pity for you". im fed up with these, its no help

2007-02-16 00:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by ford 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 00:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a 16 year old and a 19 year were madly in love the boy wasnt interested in intimate relationship just her do u think it is right?

2007-02-16 00:58:54 · 10 answers · asked by ♥kristie♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

There are these guys I sit with at lunch and they talk to me and stuff and I talk to them and they have drank after me and I have drank after them they all have girlfriends but they always talk to me instead and sit with me and call me what do you think do they like me or are they just more comfortable around me?

2007-02-16 00:58:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you are a man in the present life, would you want to be man or woman in your next life. Same as for a woman, would you want to be a man or woman? Tell us why, please.

2007-02-16 00:58:29 · 10 answers · asked by Frankenstein 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The one who needs visual stimulation?I am a very visual person as a matter of fact thats how i learned at school!I have a photographic memory!Just wondering if this is normal to have to have visual stimulation to turn me on to a certain degree?

2007-02-16 00:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

am 14 and been with my boyfriend 4 a while and i no were onli young but wer all loved up!! lol dat sounds silly but we are. we have done 'stuff' and we have talked about sex... hes not presuring me atall..... but when i talk 2 my friends they all sey sumfink differnt!!

2007-02-16 00:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-16 00:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is birth conrol pill very common use for people who are in boyfriend/girlfriend realtionships? or condoms?

2007-02-16 00:53:06 · 23 answers · asked by cocopopoman 1 in Singles & Dating

ok we split 5 weeks ago over him wonting to go clubbing more and down to trust any way. i miss him and love him loads kant seem to move on i tryed and then he emails me on valtines saying happy v day wish i spent it with u.
so we have been chattin on email i only replyed 1 time but 2day i have 2 emails from him saying look he sorry if he conatct me and i did not wont him 2 etc and that he wonrt deny he miss me and ask loads of questions he then said take care and rmeber i love u lots.
i said back yer miss u 2 but do not see were it wil get us if u keep sayin i miss and love u ? what does he mean ?

2007-02-16 00:52:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Helllo
Im going out tonight into town
Going to walkabout etc
But dunno what to wear!!!
was thinking a black vest and jeans and maybe over the knee boots and chunky belt
Or high heels
You think that ok???
Or other ideas????!!!

Helppppp lol xxx

2007-02-16 00:52:14 · 12 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

just curious...;0)

2007-02-16 00:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anything at all but when bill moves in the last week in march he is going to give my mom 250.00 a month my question is why bill doing his part but she is not? also why he takes up for that witch and not for his family?

2007-02-16 00:51:37 · 3 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Family

2007-02-16 00:50:42 · 6 answers · asked by koleary388 2 in Singles & Dating

Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months now and i want to have sex with her but don't know how to ask. but there is a side problem:- she doesn't want her family or anyone to know about us till shes done high school (its been a rough 6 months but i love her very much so i wont leave just cause i have to wait). I cant even get her to come to my house cause she has 2 brothers that drives buses and they pass along the route to my house so she is afraid they will see her. what should i do and how do i go about asking with out sounding like most vulgar men (no offense guys but some of y'all just bloody disgusting)

2007-02-16 00:50:40 · 23 answers · asked by kyle_is_back82 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 00:50:22 · 19 answers · asked by ladylove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im shy do girls like shy guys or do they prefer outspoken guys

2007-02-16 00:49:44 · 4 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend has insecurity issues… if I meet a new girl she will get angry. So I don’t have female friends except my past girlfriend who I hang around with but I have invited my girlfriend to come with me during those times—she just makes excuse and doesn’t come. My girlfriend asks me what I am doing and where I am going. Often times accuse me of finding someone else—saying I have a backup girl waiting to breakup with her. I think she is taking it too far… should I just breakup with my girlfriend? My past girlfriend says that I should be happy. What do you think?

2007-02-16 00:49:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she looks and acts 55 years old and he is a older 44 years old,,,can this be possible......

2007-02-16 00:49:16 · 10 answers · asked by mirmor2001 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way you know of getting into a girls knickers?

What do girls like, hard and fast or soft and slow?

Is licking still ok... do most girls still go wild for a good old lick?

2007-02-16 00:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they're apparently turn 2 u n ask for ur help,both at d same time...sigh

2007-02-16 00:47:18 · 3 answers · asked by melfriana 2 in Friends

And wouldn't you be in my place? If you were made of sugar, spice, everything nice, and a Chemical X, had no mother, kind of a father who is an absent-minded Professor, and two hyperactive sisters, Blossom and Bubbles, who think and act as if they are better than me!
How can I deal with my depression?
Buttercup.

2007-02-16 00:46:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-16 00:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The event that changed my life the most was soccer. I am really committed to it and so is my family. When it comes to soccer I am very competitive. I stated showing my talent in soccer when I was 7 years old, playing in the park with my friend. I beat him, and my talent continued to excel. Whenever I have a soccer game, my mom and dad come to watch. During soccer games, my mom and dad come to watch. During soccer games \, my parents give up their time to bond with me and get to know me better.

Important events that I will always remeber in soccer include beating my friend 3-0 and helping my old school's soccer team beat the opposing team 3-1. This got me a trophy for being the best soccer player in 4th grade.. To improve my skill, I play soccer with my friends and dad im the park whenever I have the chance.

Also, can you help get started on my 3rd(ending) paragraph. For example: tell me what to put for my 3rd paragraph and show me a sample paragraph.

2007-02-16 00:45:18 · 9 answers · asked by Right here Right now 1 in Friends