what's on ur mind when ur in d middle of 2 best friends "world war"???

Question

they're apparently turn 2 u n ask for ur help,both at d same time...sigh

Answer 1

How do I get them to be back together would be my answer. This is a very delicate situation and if I were you I would be like the judicary not caring which is the better friend and so support the person and bring the other one down but instead tell them what they did wrong and why they should apologise but make sure that you have evidence.

And than also apologise to them if you have offended them and that you are only speaking from your past experiences with them and from what they say and do and not comparing who is better.

Lastly if you can bring them together to talk things out, make sure that you are there and when you are talking things out with them make sure that you say what each of them did wrong and that if they scold each other or try to attack the other while you are listing out their points, make sure that you know how to deal with that and try to support it cause if you dont they will hate each other more and blame you for being a busybody in the process.

But, if you want to avoid all of this drama talk to them and tell them that you will not talk to either of them for the time being until they cool off and resolve their relationship.
Hope this helps even in the smallest bit...

Answer 2

It would be a lot easier to interpret your question if you spelled out your words, but since you didn't---I would tell each one of them that you don't want to get involved with their problems, and they will have to solve it themselves. Otherwise, you could end up without them for friends. It's not an easy situation, is it!

Good luck!

Answer 3

don't get either of them to think that you are on their side. You need to let them talk to you as they need, maybe sit them down face to face while your there to talk it out. If yall were best friends then you would be able to talk it out right away.

good luck!