What do people really love a person for?
Looks? or inner character? which comes first?
2007-02-16 01:01:51 · 19 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, inner character is the most important possession which you must have! But, Being pretty is also important to some extent!
2007-02-16 01:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Riya 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Think abuot it like this. When you first meet someone you know the first thing you do is check them out, boy or girl. So looks obviously come first, there is NO possible way to see someones inner character walking through the mall. Looks are important to some and even more important to others. It's good to try and look nice but don't go out of your way to be perfect like the people in magazines. You were made that way for a reason, live with it.
good luck !
2007-02-16 01:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, pretty is wonderful, but what's more important is a beautiful mind, just as u said, the inner character - this is the only thing lasts forever, especially when u r getting older and older...
like ur LOOK, and be a better person, not beacuse of others, just coz of love
2007-02-16 01:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by chloe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to remember on your death bed when your life is flashing before your eyes? Do you want to remember all the times you looked great and pretty? Or would y ou like to look back and see your life full of people, friends, great times, and people that you helped?
I guess if that is all you are looking for is looks, then that is all you love and your shallow. I would hope most people look for someone who is truly themselves and have more inner beauty than shallowness.
2007-02-16 01:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though many people will disagree with me, yes it's important to be at least somewhat good looking. it is human nature to be attracted to people we find pretty or beautiful. the pretty girl will most always get the job and have an advantage. rather than the not so good looking person who also applies. is it fair? of course it isn't. i mean, look at celebrities. hayley williams, lead singer of paramore. sure, she's cute, but as far as her vocals go they're nothing special. she became popular because of her looks. i swear to god if she was ugly no one would take a second look at her. ever head the term "video killed the radio star"? well it's true. attractive people get farther in life, that's just the way it is.
2016-05-24 06:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe question can be taken two ways - the vagueness of the English language.
Is being (something that is) pretty important?
or
Is being pretty (something that is) important?
I assume you mean the second. The first is the more interesting -
but to answer your question, no. Being pretty is something that can be very artificial, and will fade in time. If you love someone because of the way they look, in time you will be disappointed.
2007-02-16 01:06:39 · answer #6 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think all of those are important but first look at inner character and then looks ^.~
2007-02-16 01:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by evy m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks first then attitude and inner character
2007-02-16 01:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have seen some attractive people but they were ugly on the in side,but seen unattractive people and were beautiful on the in side it is rare that you find good looks and a good way of acting.what i love in a person is the way that they make me fill about my self, and they can make me smile or even laugh out loud.they don.t spend their time worrying what other people think about them. they just go through life care free and loving them self's and others no matter what they do or act ,they don,t judge you they love you for who you are.that is what i look for in a person,care free spirit and not judgmental .
2007-02-16 01:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by ann p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"being pretty" comes first --- Sorry.
But is worth a girl with "inner treasure", if she looks ugly ---
so ugly everyone is going to vomit instead of giving "hot comments" ???
A beautiful girl is like the Porsche in Your GARDEN --- not the garage; everyone has to see it and has to be jealous !!!
To see and to BE SEEN....
The worth of a girl is in the eyes of my neighbors or "friends" ---
if they "get nervous" I know I am on the right way.... If they ignore her or if they never try to seduce her --- forget her...
Sorry. It is the cruelty of a Man's world.
Aaron.
2007-02-16 01:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋