I have never talked to this guy in person,he goes to my college
I sent him a couple of weird emails about three years ago, and he replied right away to the first two, but then he never replied to the third one ....
in those emails, i didnt tell him i like him or anything ..
but how do i move on?? i am guessing he will be graduating in May, I have been feeling really dead inside. For past 4 years, i have lived with the hope of seeing him around even if i dont see him everyday, now i dont know what to do ....
I dont necessarily think I want to be in a relationship with him, because we are quite opposite and I cant handle breaking up with him, but I really wanted to be friends with him...
2007-02-16 02:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't think you can handle breaking up with the guy, but you are not dating him!!!! You haven't even talked to him in person, just thru 3 emails.
Move on and find another hobby.
2007-02-16 02:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds almost like infatuation and stalking. You need to get a grip. If you wanted to be his friend it would have happened by now. Develop other healthy relationships with real people around you. Join some groups, reading groups, athletic groups, a church youth group. Anything to get you a life. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-16 10:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young move on with your life. Stop wasting your time on a guy that doesn't even know you exist. Lots of great guys out there and your only young once so have fun and be safe.
2007-02-16 10:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self discipline..I think you need to accept the reality of the situation. Time to move on and enjoy your life.
Lots of guys to be friends with, find someone you like and put your energy into something positive.
2007-02-16 11:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal behavior....please go to your advisor and get a referral to see a counselor to help you deal with what sounds like depression.
This guy is not for you and you really already know it.
2007-02-16 10:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get focused on something else, but don't give up hope, send him another email if you want, try to become friends. but don't give him the wrong idea. that you wanna go out.
2007-02-16 10:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move along, Ross
2007-02-16 10:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋