help!!
okay, i have this english class i go to.
and there are a lot of cute/funny boys there.
until recently, i used to like only one.
but now, well..
i like 4 people SIMULTANEOUSLY
and seriously, i could SWEAR that they all keep looking at me.
and the guy i wrote about above?
well, today we had a debate and we split into 2teams, and 2 of the boys i like were on my side.(excluding the one above.) they are both great debaters, and are really funny and nice, so while we were getting prepared, and we were laghing our heads off when i saw the one above kept looking at me. and he looked.. well, sort of angry. and maybe sad. The other kept craning his neck to look at me, which is weird.
i have no idea how to act around these four! i like all of them, but i can't do that, right? can i only like 1 person at a time or can i like all of them? and how can i keep them from hating me?
im a 9th grader, shouldn't i have more knowledge of things? but im clueless.
2007-02-16 02:25:59 · 12 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would have to agree with everyone who answered your question. At the 9th grade level. You should be having fun. Going to dances, movies, shows ( Boys in the band ) and talking to your girlfriends about guys. if you like these guys. Get to know them and find which one fits you. If he genuinely cares and is not to play you. Find the guy that really makes you laugh and that you can talk to. If these guy like what they see then one that stands out will be the one who actually listens to you. By the way Girl Have fun. Because when you get out high school it gets even harder.
P.S. Remember to hit the books so you can go to college and really be a catch. Guys like girls who are pretty, sweet, funny and SMART!!!
2007-02-16 02:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Beth G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect, but a 9th grader only knows 9th grade stuff. What knowledge are you suppose to posses in the 9th grade? Anyway...
You are ok. Just look at it like this; choices, choices choices. That's a great thing! At least it's not slim pickins ya know. Have fun with this. If you are interested in them then you must get to know them. Everyone has a story, even at a 9th grade level. Find out things about them, because you may be surprised. Go for the guy that is sweet to you and shows legitimate concern for you. Stay away from the Player and the one who is cocky. Confidence is a good quality only when it is not smothered by a rude over confidence.
The choice is yours to make. Have fun!
2007-02-16 02:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's definitely something wrong with u... NOTHING girl, u r ok. Just sit back and watch them all. Flirt a lil and see their reactions. The boldest one will ask u out eventually, dat doesnt mean he's the one who cares about u d most, but u have to keep an open eye.
In the mean time, keep ur eyes on those books! Boys dont give u an A in an English test!
2007-02-16 02:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by giness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural to be attracted to more than one person at a time. Plus, since none of them are seeing you exclusively they have no right getting angry at your flirting with other guys. If they want you, let them step up like men and make a move.
2007-02-16 02:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just have crushes, u think they cute and handsome and all. it is not a serious thing if u like all four of them then u should get to know all of them and from there u can choose the one that u desire the most.
2007-02-16 02:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like Hollister. each thing of their save i'd maximum definitely positioned on and that i'm a touch picky individual, too. there is not any longer something incorrect with them, all of it basically relies upon on each and each individual's tastes. factor sparkling? those that like to bash Hollister basically have no lives.
2016-10-02 05:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God I miss those days!!lol.. This is just the beginning. You will ALWAYS find guys that your attracted to. They wont hate you if your dating one of them, tho they might not be to fond of each other once they all found out!
2007-02-16 02:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by marcsnothere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to like them all- just sit back and see which one is bold enough to ask you out. Then date him.
2007-02-16 02:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and act like they don't exsist, and try to keep an open eye on poeple who truly like and care about you , others, well.... can wait...
2007-02-16 02:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind on the books and off those boys, what are they gonna do for you anyway? NOTHING!
2007-02-16 02:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by honeygirlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋