I honestly don't think I can do this anymore....My b-friend broke up with me a week ago and even though this is the 3rd time in 3 years...for a couple of months at a time...I feel like I've lost my soul mate....I honestly don't think there is anyone out there that is better then him and I loved everythiong about him....how do you have hope that I'll ever be happy without him?
2007-02-16 02:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Number one important thing! Be happy with yourself. You do not need another person to "make" you happy. You need to find out who you are without anyone else. And when you say there isn't anyone out there that is better than him well maybe you had better get some glasses. He broke up with you. That tells me there is something wrong with him and the relationship you had. There are many many different kinds of men out there. Take your time but find all your own good qualities before you worry about other people.
Go out and have some fun. Whatever way makes you feel good.
2007-02-16 02:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by rosey55465 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always light at the end of the tunnel.
God doesn't closes one door without opening another.
You will be happy again when you find what happiness is. And happiness is within. You have to make yourself happy first. You are heartbroken, but in time that will heal. It will heal faster if you start dating and seeing someone else. And given a chance, you will find that there are alot of beautiful people out there who are waiting for you to love them.
It's not the end of the world. So don't make it that way. Hold your head up high and dial a friend and ask them out for an icecream or burger.
Good luck.
2007-02-16 10:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wake up each morning and be thankful to be alive. Then find something nice about each day to be appreciative about. We (as humans) are not just the value of the boyfriend/girlfriend we have. We are valuable as ourselves, as individuals. You may have family who loves you deeply, friends, co-workers. Maybe you haven't found all of your value, but it will come. Volunteer your time to a good cause and it will take your mind off this situation and probably make you see clearly. Don't think about any relationships right now, with him or anyone else. Be productive, join a group (local book stores have reading groups, join an athletic group - volleyball is fun, a church youth group). Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-16 10:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all you will survive. Trust me. My ex (of 4 yrs) and I broke up six months ago and believe me I felt so lonely and depressed. Actually sometimes I still feel lonely. There are so many fishes in the sea and you will find someone and he will be better than your ex. You should move on and go out and have fun. Even if you don’t want to, you need to go out and keep yourself busy. I completely understand what you are going thru.
*!* Good luck *!*
2007-02-16 10:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by *!* Kase *!* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that breaks up then wants to get back together is not worth your time. Go out and have a good time with your friends. Another guy that knows how to act in a relationship will come along soon!
2007-02-16 10:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you broke up three times before, you must 1st ask your self what made u break up those other times. Stop setting yourself for heart break, when you broke up once you should of left him alone b/c it meant u were not meant 4 each other. Time heals all wounds, if u feel that bad then u need professional help. U need to find things to do to occupy your time, that will help.
2007-02-16 10:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by snowprincess20010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not some one elses responsibility to make you happy. you have to work on your happiness. it sounds like you are a very dependent kind of person, and if you are clingy and stuff like that thats probably why its not working for the guy i dont mean to be mean i just saying what i feel as far as what you have said in you ques. go forward and work on yourself and then you wont need any one else to make you happy.
2007-02-16 11:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are billioins of guys out there, dont beat yourself up over just one. There will ALWAYS be someone out there that has a heart as big as yours and will make you happy
2007-02-16 10:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by marcsnothere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop hoping that you'll be happy in a relationship that is not working and then you move along.
2007-02-16 10:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here http://geobay.com/bf6f34 is a good article i found about depression with treatments etc, should help you.
2007-02-18 23:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by gooner1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋